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rayadallie

@rayadallie

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#341

So will we agree with the Topic maker suggestion? Count me in

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Gaurav more

@Gauravc_More48

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Posted: 12 years ago

#342

If the Montage has only Arjun n Purvi then it has to be changed bcoz Without Arman the montage doesn't look good.

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LillyBlanc

@LillyBlanc

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#343

The montage will change now with Arman being forefront and Arvi behind them as it used to be.

Also the show montage on this forum should be changed. The current forum montage of the show is months old.

Edited by LillyBlanc - 12 years ago

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arvifanalways

@arvifanalways

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#344

Originally posted by: gaurav_ankita08
If the Montage has only Arjun n Purvi then it has to be changed bcoz Without Arman the montage doesn't look good.

I agree... But the last montage with the 2 O's in it also did not have arman in it...

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RapChick101

@RapChick101

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#345

^ That was because :

a) Onir was new and important.

b)The setting had just changed after leap.

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Gaurav more

@Gauravc_More48

Inactive

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#346

Ya my dear but Montage should show some interest then you will have couples back as everybody wants.

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pallavi25

@pallavi25

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Posted: 12 years ago

#347

Originally posted by: gaurav_ankita08
Pallavi,
In Today's India its a common thing even i or you can't change it,Jeeja Saali topic has become a controversial debate which leads fights.
What i am telling is lets keep fiction aside n reality aside that'll make to have peace in forum.

But thats what Im trying to say, its not today's India that is supporting jeeju saali marriage, its not modern generation. Actually modern generation is disapproving of it as I can see here.

In 19th and early 20th century, when Brahmin men married multiple wives, sometimes they married sisters from same family too. That made the sisters the man's Co-Wives. So its quite an ancient practice, still continued in traditional Hindu families of various states. When 1st wife dies, jeeju marries her sister, i.e. his saali. I know this for a fact because it happened in my own family.

The debate was that jeeju saali is illegal thats why I wanted to point out its not illegal, actually a traditional, age-old practice in many Hindu families.

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#348

Originally posted by: sk11

Then it's your assumption I change what you say. I put you in quotes so I'm not changing anything you say. It's right there above my responses. If you feel threatened by my quoting you or questioning your comments I won't do so after this.

Edit: difference here is pari is alive and breathing and living proof of their love. Before there was no one. Ovi would accept anything if she was willing to love her mother only if she had Arjun.

But we'll let it rest ;)

Threatened🤣 I can't be bothered... Have a great day!!

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#349

Originally posted by: hillydee
Threatened🤣I can't be bothered... Have a great day!!

Oh, I thought when you signaled me out and were asking me why I twist your words...you seemed bothered and cared!

Whoops!

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#350

Originally posted by: sk11

And what does that make Ovi who knowingly demanded her jeeju Arjun in exchange for her mother?

Purvi never demanded Arjun. Arjun proved to Archu that he really loved purvi and deserved to be with her.

Lol if purvi doesn't shoo Arjun away then their bad for meeting after all Arjun belongs to ovi. And if she does shoo him away, then there never was true love.

Poor arvi can never win...

Dear , u quoted me so i will answer this never ending debate of the chicken or the egg .😊

The facts and sequences in the serial

Ovi and Arjun's marraige was fixed

Purvi opted to marry the very guy who broke off with her sister

Ovi became furious

she offered Purvi a package and told her to get out of the picture , Purvi accepted and got out .

Fair enough ?

Now for facts and sequences in reality .

AFTER marraige one gets new relations . These relations r named by law and society as in laws . Devar , Jeth , saas , Sasur , saali , jeeju , saala . ok ?

When the marraige is agreed to , these relations r called as

Honewaali Saali , Honewaali saas , honewaali bahu , honewaala jeeju etc . Right ?

Now when the Ovi Arjun marraige was fixed by elders

who became Arjun's honewaali saali ? Teju .

who became Teju's honewaala jeeju ? Arjun .

Purvi till then is not even there in the picture .

The whole problem starts when the Arjun Purvi marraige is fixed by Archana .

Do Teju and Ovi become Arjun's Honewaali saalis ? No . Because my dear till then they both have NOT accepted their mother's independent project child as their sister .

Have they even accepted the woman who gave them birth and then gave them up as their mother ? No . Coz the woman was still demanding a divorce and they were adults .

So is it safe and right to expect that Archana and Purvi were not even in their family then to accept them as rishtas ? They were estranged people who had entered their lives with negative force .

Still , i will give this much . Archana WAS their biological mother whether they liked it or not .

Was Purvi their sister ?

No .

She was not even adopted . She was raised by Archana out of humanity . To go through adoption procedure one needs spouse's signatures . Were Archana and Manav even in contact then ?

So this girl was not in their family , not adopted , just someone on the side who estranged mother had raised . So how does Ovi become Honewaali Saali ? Puzzled .

Now same argument can be applied to Purvi too . How can one say she snatched her jeeju , how and when did Arjun the stud become her jeeju if this is the case ?

Nobody would have said it dear . The character Purvi herself says it . She constantly calls that family as HER family . Manav as HER Baba . The brothers as HER Dadas . For some mysterious reason she does NOT call the sisters as her Tais . They r one year elder to her .

If Manav is her Baba who should do her kanyadaan isn't Ovi , his daughter , her sister ? And in this case was not the man she was once affianced to her honewaala jeeju ?

I am not saying it . She says this family is HER family . Actually all the connections and blames can vanish in a second if reality is shown ...that she is not even adopted . But yes , an important part of her mom's life .

Ovi never considered her as family but she claims she did ? And it is this very positive action that goes against her today .