Ovi cannot be called a homewrecker as there was no home to wreck
it had not been set up yet
to wreck a home , marraige should have taken place and there should be a marital home , called as sansaar in hindi to wreck
But Purvi did wreck Arjun Ovi's sansaar ...fact shown in this serial , what with constantly interfering in his marraige , with the baby swap and what not
Ovi never was shown interfering in the Purvi Onir sansaar . She was least interested . Even now Purvi has not stopped , like a thick skinned shameless person she is phoning Ovi in Canada and telling Archana's news when its none of her business .
There r legal definitions
And there r moohbola rishtas
Purvi personifies the latter in the serial
Ovi the former
The moment she asked Manav to do her kanyadaan , she commited a moohbola rishta to the family .
It was HER CHOICE . An adult choice . Not satisfied with the legal reality and the limitations ...that she was alone with a single foster mom ,she opted for a readymade family .
She started working towards getting one . First step ...she promptly dumped her boyfriend .
But she did it cleverly and conveniently . She called Manav Baba and the brothers Dadas . The grandparents Aaji and Azoba . But she did NOT call the sisters Tai . If she had , their husbands would be jeejus and like brothers .
We see Onir in this very serial tell Ovi that a jeeju was like an elder brother .
If Onir is like Soham to Ovi , Arjun should be that way to Purvi too . She says this parivaar is HER parivaar . Someone should ask her her convenient choices of rishtas . Ovi should insist she tie a rakhi to Arjun on Raksha Bandhan day in front of God .
She has herself told Arjun , her parivaar comes first .
It cannot be both ways , thats the problem . No point in us saying her hypocrisy doesn't count , really she is not related . The serial will collapse then . Coz the serial glorifies these dil ka rishtas . The whole story is about Purvi advocating that this family is MY family . So till this half convenient acceptance goes on , this criticism will continue . If there r Dadas and Babas , there must be Tais and jeejus too . She cannot suddenly be a sister and suddenly a souten . And if so , answers must be given . Coz not accepting legalities and going beyond them is her own choice . So ok , get together with Arjun but be prepared for the questions and raised eyebrows .
She knows that very well and tries to save face each time ...thats the story , our opinions really cannot change it . We can argue till the cows come home about how it really is of no consequence and how she is entitled to be with Arjun but the serial won't show that and will advocate this loophole of hypocrisy till the last episode .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago
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