Arjun Purvi...far from apavitra - Page 3

God is greater than society, and please explain why the institution of marriage would exist if pre marital sex was acceptable by God? Then there would be no marriages to begin with. Okay, Purvi repents her deeds.

Originally posted by: pesi11

OMG ...kya zamana aagaya rey 🤣🤣🤣

indian society insist of proving them selves hipocites. in this day and age where live in relationships are becomming more and more common. what moral bedsheet Pun intended are the using to coverup premarital Sex.

Sab apni apni nazariya hai... kuchh log sirf kamal ke phool ko dekhtey hain, kuchh log sirf keechad ko dekhtey hain!

P.S. Thanks for opening this topic, mannisha! 😊

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

God is greater than society, and please explain why the institution of marriage would exist if pre marital sex was acceptable by God? Then there would be no marriages to begin with. Okay, Purvi repents her deeds.

But, what about all the lies she has told? Do you think God would forgive someone for lying? LYING IS A SIN 😆

Please read my comments carefully before forming your own conclusions. I said 'why judge based on norms and traditions of society when we ourselves will be judged by the greater being God for the actions we took in this life. Meaning that we as a society should not judge whether a woman is right or wrong in having pre marital sex or lying as we do not know what her particular circumstances were and her intentions at the time. I always believe that yee without sin should cast the first stone. No one is perfect in this life. We are all humans, we do make mistakes.

Can we see our actions as good if we as a society is the reason why a young woman who made a mistake by having pre marital sex and end up pregnant push her to the extent of ending her life?

Originally posted by: merrydock

indian society insist of proving them selves hipocites. in this day and age where live in relationships are becomming more and more common. what moral bedsheet Pun intended are the using to coverup premarital Sex.

Arjun Purvi union was out of love for each other. not lust or money of simply pleasure. it was as pure as their love for eachother. they would have married and had a normal and happy life if Ovi had not intervened with her selfish offer.

Purvi may have forced Arjun to marry ovi. but he never once lost his love for her. eventoday, he trust, respects and loves her. is concerned for her and her furture. he hopes that thought he didnt find happiness in his marriag that purvi would find the happiness she deservs in hers. and that is true love. you think about the happiness of the person you love and not your own like Ovi. this is the reason Arjun was never able to fall in love with Ovi. because he always thought of making her happy. but Ovi cared nothing about Arjuns happiness. and so there was no love.

and for those out there who think we are preachy and concerned only about fictional characters. believe me there are real people out there having sex and are not married to each other. so dont pretend that sex does not happen in our society. Sex or lovemaking is not taboo. that you cant speek about it. its an expression of love and procreation. and so what if it is used simply for pleasure. it is a beautiful connection between two people. as long as it is consectual, and safe. and i would advise to not indulg in sex if you do not understand the intermacy of it.

youngsters out there remember that you do not have to be preasurised to have sex, if you dont want to say no. wait for it and it will happen when your ready. you want to wait untill your wedding day. then you must wait by all means.

Excellent post my friend. Bang on

Originally posted by: mannisha

The necklace and pheras don't make a marriage, nor does a physical relationship before of after marriage. What makes a marriage is understanding, love and mutual trust.

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

pesi di we are hypocrites who don't understand beautiful nazuk and pavitra rishta 🤣

I agree with you pari87. I just don't understand how this rishta can be considered pavitra. There is no purity left in it at all. I used to be an Arvi fan, and hated when Ovi forced that marriage. But first of all, Purvi didn't have to do that. Yeah yeah she did it for her mother. But she could have tried other means that ruining three lives directly and many other lives indirectly, all at once. And then Purvi gets married to Onir, who is (well hopefully he still is, but at least he was, with Purvi), an extremely decent guy, who lives with Purvi, treates her with respect and never tried to get close to her unless she wanted to, too. He has accepted her past with no qualms, has accepted her daughter readily, and even risked, and eventually lost, his job, his passion, just to make Purvi happy. That seemed much more pavitra than Arvi or even Arovi. Arjun...really? You're gonna get back together with Purvi right after you slept with Ovi? And I love how everyone is using bechari Pari as an excuse to justify Arvi reunion. Yeah, the kid needs her parents together. But there are millions of kids who live with divorced parents, who turn out fine. Here, Pari has the love of two additional parents who love her as their own child. Ovi does love Pari but she is just traumatized, but she really does love her. And Onir loved Pari before she was even born. So please dont keep the ratt that Arvi have to get back together for Pari, breaking the hearts of two good people who truly love Arjun/Purvi. And its just sick to think that you're calling Arjun Purvi rishta pavitra when Arjun just slept with Ovi like two weeks ago, in his full consciousness. How wrong would that be if Arvi get back together right after that?! Ugh I really try to be neutral as much as I can but lately Im just getting more on edge here, with all the Onir bashing and Arvi rules, Punir drules type stuff thats been going on. Come on guys! I am one of those people who always wanted us all to talk about our opinions nicely and not saying bad about the other pairing fandom but I just reach my boiling point sometimes.