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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Kool, even "Incest" isn't allowed anymore. I dunno about the rest of the esteemed members of this forum, but a Jeeju Saali relationship is simply disgusting - and is incest - blood or no blood relationship. I have plenty of Jeejus in real life and I can't even begin to dream - no yaar, lets not even go there - my Jeejus are father and brother figures to me - I share such a beautiful relationship with them - so Arjun and Purvi's relationship is pure incest to me - I do not know what or IF is going to set some new standards in relationships...find it very disturbing even to imagine - maybe, I am too old fashioned and prudish - what to do😲


kalapi,

exactly my thoughts...yaar people debate ideas and thoughts on this forum..but now people complain about how your view point is about a certain relationship...if i think it is incest...so it is...if you think it is amar prem..it is..am i complaining about your tag to this relationship depending on your personal viewpoint? what nonsense..

and onir told ovi...main tumhara jeeji hoon toh bhai samaan hua..or something t that effect...so how is arjun-purvi not jeeja-saali...? and their relationship prior to their respective marriages does not change their relationship after marriage? So do ex-lovers go about calling themselves amar premis even after marrying different people? no na? They are husband and wife to their respective marriages...and in this case...purvi-ovi are sisters? whether they love each other as sisters has no meaning..simply by indian family systems they are jeeja-saali.. i simply don't get it! 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: samek


Fantastic post hillydee. Exactly my thoughts especially regarding Arjun. He never cared for Ovi at all. Extremely selfish character. He send Ovi golden bangles which he had also presented Purvi on her engagement to vinay and she kept thinking that he is committed to her. He never told Ovi about Purvi or anything. He took Ovi for granted. And as soon as Purvi accepted his proposal he wanted Ovi out of his life. No emotions at all how she will feel and she being his childhood best friend. There was one scene where Manav goes again to Arjun to ask about Ovi and Arjun says I can give her all my weatlh but cannot do anything more than that for her. Absolutely no respect. I can never forget that one scene and the way he has treated Ovi all along.
I am not against him for falling in love with purvi but the way he treated Ovi. I absolutely agree if you don't love a person you should not marry that person but the way he handled the situations was pathetic. He doesn't deserve any happiness at all. How can he not feel for the person he spend all his childhood with?



Excellent Post Samek, this is what makes me so disgusted with Arjun. I never knew a man should be this callous when he is moving on from one woman to be with another, especially a woman he agreed to marry and who was his friend since childhood, it makes no sense with his behaviour. This shows how all round he is not a good person, and it makes me fully come to the conclusion that I don't even want his shadow near Ovi. Purvi can have him, she deserves no better as she was all to glad to have him in the first place. As a woman I could never support Purvi. Worse after she got her way, she passed him on to Ovi for a more important goal for her, knowing what she did with him the night before. She knew how much Arjun loved her, and having sex with him then giving him to Ovi, is the height of disgusting behaviour on her part. I just can't see past all of that.
Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: pari87


kalapi,

exactly my thoughts...yaar people debate ideas and thoughts on this forum..but now people complain about how your view point is about a certain relationship...if i think it is incest...so it is...if you think it is amar prem..it is..am i complaining about your tag to this relationship depending on your personal viewpoint? what nonsense..

and onir told ovi...main tumhara jeeji hoon toh bhai samaan hua..or something t that effect...so how is arjun-purvi not jeeja-saali...? and their relationship prior to their respective marriages does not change their relationship after marriage? So do ex-lovers go about calling themselves amar premis even after marrying different people? no na? They are husband and wife to their respective marriages...and in this case...purvi-ovi are sisters? whether they love each other as sisters has no meaning..simply by indian family systems they are jeeja-saali.. i simply don't get it! 😕

Your warning level increased 20% for saying Jeeju-saali incest - what is going to be when Arvi unites?? Ovi is very much living and kicking - I find it disgusting...that is how I am raised. Is IF and Vijaya bhai sees the world as such - that Saali marrying Jeeju, where jeeju gives one sister divorce to marry another, is?? What is that relationshp called?? We all live in USA - even in USA, which is thought to be progressive - such relationship isn't taken kindly - so who is wrong here my friend - my parvarish given up 2 highly educated school/UNiversity teachers or IF?? I am confusedShocked
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

SK dear isn't everything subjective the way individual perceives things...It might be mocking and sarcastic to one but not to another 😳 This is why some of us have confusion.

BTW jeeju-saali having any relationship including physical is incest...Whether blood relative or not..Here Purvi wants Manav to be his baba so bad, Sachu & Soham to be Dada so bad and Savita to be Aaji so bad than what abt the sisters Ovi & Teju? Shouldn't they be considered Tai as they are elder sisters to Purvi???
She calls Punni Tai and Ruchi Tai why not Ovi and Teju as tai???? 😕😳
I am simply following the logic and intelligence-commonsense that I know..BTW Cvs created this. none of the members did...If the storyline is such than members should be allowed to discuss it exactly in the manner the relationships are shown in the serial...😳
In reality muh bole bhai ya phir behen ke saath having Romantic or physical relationships not accepted by society..It is not condoned behavior..But may be it is ok in Reel life 😒

Homie, The Mods post stated that you can mildly criticise characters, but not to mock others, when there is s debate going on or instigate a fight. For example, like when we make a thread to say something good about Ovi, people come in and start saying bad things about her but forcing the opinion for us to accept, to make us get upset and make a fight starts. Or when we are constantly followed on a thread with others twisting of what we said, so we are forced to defend ourselves, but it is done to us so our thread closes down, the daily happenings, taking things out of context and saying things to mock us, saying things like "Ovi is psycho," However, "Ovi is psycho," can be used under normal venting on a thread.
Hope I explained correctly...Mods I am only explaining to my friend. Thanks
Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Your warning level increased 20% for saying Jeeju-saali incest - what is going to be when Arvi unites?? Ovi is very much living and kicking - I find it disgusting...that is how I am raised. Is IF and Vijaya bhai sees the world as such - that Saali marrying Jeeju, where jeeju gives one sister divorce to marry another, is?? What is that relationshp called?? We all live in USA - even in USA, which is thought to be progressive - such relationship isn't taken kindly - so who is wrong here my friend - my parvarish given up 2 highly educated school/UNiversity teachers or IF?? I am confused😲

Kalapi, I don't say such things, cause I am too shock, to repeat that this is happening. I think the writers have lost their minds to show such relationship. Now, I know it is a violation, I am glad I stayed away from it, it is really a violation to think of such a relationship. (I am not mocking just saying)
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: samek




Fantastic post hillydee. Exactly my thoughts especially regarding Arjun. He never cared for Ovi at all. Extremely selfish character. He send Ovi golden bangles which he had also presented Purvi on her engagement to vinay and she kept thinking that he is committed to her. He never told Ovi about Purvi or anything. He took Ovi for granted. And as soon as Purvi accepted his proposal he wanted Ovi out of his life. No emotions at all how she will feel and she being his childhood best friend. There was one scene where Manav goes again to Arjun to ask about Ovi and Arjun says I can give her all my weatlh but cannot do anything more than that for her. Absolutely no respect. I can never forget that one scene and the way he has treated Ovi all along.
I am not against him for falling in love with purvi but the way he treated Ovi. I absolutely agree if you don't love a person you should not marry that person but the way he handled the situations was pathetic. He doesn't deserve any happiness at all. How can he not feel for the person he spend all his childhood with?




samek..excellent post! Just realized I posted same thoughts except mine is a long tirade and your's is so concise and to the point! :) 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: hillydee

Kalapi, I don't say such things, cause I am too shock, to repeat that this is happening. I think the writers have lost their minds to show such relationship. Now, I know it is a violation, I am glad I stayed away from it, it is really a violation to think of such a relationship. (I am not mocking just saying)

I agree Hilly Homie...it is a violation of the worst kind in a relationship...this is how I am raised, and my parvarish stays, true love or not. And to me, commitment and honor is way more important than love...it always has been...so, I am shocked - when a forum encourages such issues - saying not to say as it is sensitive - Forum should be much more neutral in its approach without giving such false encouragment to very young people in the name of ''love''...seriously...
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Posted: 12 years ago
Samek are you watching PV2...I am simply shocked at what they are trying to show...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Samek are you watching PV2...I am simply shocked at what they are trying to show...

Yeah explain for me cause I am confused?
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Posted: 12 years ago

So Purvi still have baby Pari in sari 😒

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