ovi-arjun

i dont understd y peopl are still blaming ovi,

People behave as if Ovi raped Arjun or Ovi mixed something in his drink to intoxicate him

evn in todays episode,its arjun who is trying to call ovi,he is nt letting her move on.

I don't understand why though
He loves Purvi
Why does he want Ovi
What is this :@

Sherma, haters will be haters. They're here to find faults in everything ovi does, good or bad. Ovi realized her mistakes and humbly accepted her defeat but i still see comments in the forum blaming her and this time for sleeping with her own husband. Since when it is wrong for a husband and wife to do it? I'm sure ovi wanted to stay and work out her marriage but realized in the morning that if she stays back, she will only prolong their agony so she decided to set arjun free. Isn't this what people wanted her to do ever since? Now she has done it and still i see negative comments against her because she left arjun after sleeping with him.

Originally posted by: paris.hilton

Sherma, haters will be haters. They're here to find faults in everything ovi does, good or bad. Ovi realized her mistakes and humbly accepted her defeat but i still see comments in the forum blaming her and this time for sleeping with her own husband. Since when it is wrong for a husband and wife to do it? I'm sure ovi wanted to stay and work out her marriage but realized in the morning that if she stays back, she will only prolong their agony so she decided to set arjun free. Isn't this what people wanted her to do ever since? Now she has done it and still i see negative comments against her because she left arjun after sleeping with him.

It is not a matter of blaming ovi for having intimacy with her husband ,i guess what people have ahard time digesting is the fact that ovi ranted and raved and carried on how arjun deceived and betrayed her,but yet in one night everything was forgotten and she slept with him...why complained about betrayal and you end up in another situation, where you with your own mouth confessed that she doesnt see love in his eyes.

Originally posted by: devashree_h

[MODNOTE]Calling other fangroups haters is considered stereotyping on the forum, please be careful in the future.[/MODNOTE]

Ok. I'll take note of that.

Originally posted by: chinyere

It is not a matter of blaming ovi for having intimacy with her husband ,i guess what people have ahard time digesting is the fact that ovi ranted and raved and carried on how arjun deceived and betrayed her,but yet in one night everything was forgotten and she slept with him...why complained about betrayal and you end up in another situation, where you with your own mouth confessed that she doesnt see love in his eyes.

As a woman if she really wanted to free herself from that marriage and walk out on arjun,arjun could have done what he wanted to initate intimacy,but ovi could have stopped him and say no,its wrong you dont love me but want to sleep with me.Then she could have given him divorce papers,then walk out with her head held high,but no she made the deccision to sleeo,make a tape and run...

what kind of woman who claims to be betrayed as she did would do something like that.

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She knew arjun doesnt love her but still she will sleep with him,just because they are husband and wife?what is wrong with that equation,that even if there is no love in the marriage as long as you are husband and wife it is ok to go through the physical activity of intimacy for rights sake..some times those same rights you have in a marriage can become detrimental to a person.

Yes she left arjun and admit her mistakes,but she didnt have the guts to face arjun and tell him to his face all the things she had to..instead she made a tape ,that just shows she is just a person of hot air,highlight the truth and mistakes about others in public but when is time for you to admit what you should have realised eons ago ,u will make a vidoe tape ,how convenient..

so its not a matter of blaming ovi but its about her decisions she make and then blame everyone for her unhappy life when crap hit the fan and things dont go her way...it is not about haters beign haters,its about what the big picture painted of ovi's action that night in question..Because beign a woman if a man has betrayed yu as much as she was claiming with his love child with purvi would you lose yourself for one night intimacy and then leave.she doesnt want to move on,she just want arjun to chase her so she will feel important and get the attention she always crave from everyone...had she really wanted to move on then she would have gotten closure by getting divorce papers ready ,serving them to arjun and putting that life behind,yes she will be shattered but at least it would be a step towards healing and finally refinding herslef,but she left the marriage dangling,giving arjun hope that maybe one day she will come back when she calms down.

she daddy rich and since she is a model she must have money of her own so she can afford a divorce,but she never once thought of that, except to run out like a theif in the night.

that is my opinion and perspect of the situation ,if you disagree fine but those are my principles i would have lived by if i was in that situation...so plz refrain calling haters or whatever if it doesnt suit your principles...agree or disgree its your decsion...i dont mean any desrespect to anyone nor is it my intention to bash just give my perception of things.

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I believe part of your post was addressed to me.
The mods are the only ones who have the right to correct us here. I'm sure you also don't want to be preached or to be told off by a fellow member. I was given a warning by devashree and accepted it as i violated one of the IF rules. Since you started preaching me, i will also ask you to please let the mods do their job and just concentrate on the topic and not teach a fellow member what to say in a public forum. If i sound offensive, i apologize. Just saying that we shouldn't be acting like moral police in here. I know my violation and i will take note of it.

i always hated the character of ovi and to be frank for awhile i hated arjun and purvi too. I feel that purvi can be too self-rightous at times which makes her unrelatable. I mean who in their right mind gives away their child unless he or she is unable to care or love the child. at the same time arjun really needed a back bone when it came the time to tell the truth or stick up for himself instead of being controlled by purvi or ovi even in the name of love. Ovi yes was ALWAYS selfish for the most part and does not understand the meaning of love or to be loved but yes she is still at fault for how she ran away but atleast she had the guts to say i have been raising pari and should continue to do so. It's not about who gave birth, its about being a caring, loving parent. She should file for divorce and break off all ties or just come back to him. Onir throughout purvi's pregnancy i loved but the second he allowed himself to be manipulated by purvi's self rightous behavior, i felt he lost his backbone just like arjun and the marriage with ovi. Watch him continue to fall and become spineless with purvi's behavior for the time being