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Posted: 12 years ago
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Paris.Hilton...even for your abve post you might get violation...

I never understood how violations are raised...i only Mods rule I always felt is "members supporting lead actors of the show never get violations"...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chinyere

It is not a matter of blaming ovi for having intimacy with her husband ,i guess what people have ahard time digesting is the fact that ovi ranted and raved and carried on how arjun deceived and betrayed her,but yet in one night everything was forgotten and she slept with him...why complained about betrayal and you end up in another situation, where you with your own mouth confessed that she doesnt see love in his eyes.

As a woman if she really wanted to free herself from that marriage and walk out on arjun,arjun could have done what he wanted to initate intimacy,but ovi could have stopped him and say no,its wrong you dont love me but want to sleep with me.Then she could have given him divorce papers,then walk out with her head held high,but no she made the deccision to sleeo,make a tape and run...

what kind of woman who claims to be betrayed as she did would do something like that.


She knew arjun doesnt love her but still she will sleep with him,just because they are husband and wife?what is wrong with that equation,that even if there is no love in the marriage as long as you are husband and wife it is ok to go through the physical activity of intimacy for rights sake..some times those same rights you have in a marriage can become detrimental to a person.


Yes she left arjun and admit her mistakes,but she didnt have the guts to face arjun and tell him to his face all the things she had to..instead she made a tape ,that just shows she is just a person of hot air,highlight the truth and mistakes about others in public but when is time for you to admit what you should have realised eons ago ,u will make a vidoe tape ,how convenient..


so its not a matter of blaming ovi but its about her decisions she make and then blame everyone for her unhappy life when crap hit the fan and things dont go her way...it is not about haters beign haters,its about what the big picture painted of ovi's action that night in question..Because beign a woman if a man has betrayed yu as much as she was claiming with his love child with purvi would you lose yourself for one night intimacy and then leave.she doesnt want to move on,she just want arjun to chase her so she will feel important and get the attention she always crave from everyone...had she really wanted to move on then she would have gotten closure by getting divorce papers ready ,serving them to arjun and putting that life behind,yes she will be shattered but at least it would be a step towards healing and finally refinding herslef,but she left the marriage dangling,giving arjun hope that maybe one day she will come back when she calms down.


she daddy rich and since she is a model she must have money of her own so she can afford a divorce,but she never once thought of that, except to run out like a theif in the night.

that is my opinion and perspect of the situation ,if you disagree fine but those are my principles i would have lived by if i was in that situation...so plz refrain calling haters or whatever if it doesnt suit your principles...agree or disgree its your decsion...i dont mean any desrespect to anyone nor is it my intention to bash just give my perception of things.





Well, what some people have a hard time digesting is that in an average husbands and wives have intimate relationships. Regardless of whether they have love between them or not. They sleep with each other on a daily basis. They are legally married. People have different ways of finding closure.
She did admit she understands and is setting Arjun free because he loves Purvi.
Why would Arjun run after her ?
They got intimate a lot of times , does that mean he stopped loving Purvi and started loving Ovi ?
Ovi wants to make a life for herself where she doesn't want Arjun.
If Arjun ever even loved her as a friend, he should let her go.
If she wanted Arjun , she could just live with him.
She wouldn't need to leave . Or even if she left to Canada, she could still be with Arjun and take a leave
Lol
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Dear Mod,
I understand your concern, but how are people allowed to constantly bash a character , call them names and find flaws in everything they do and not be called haters?
When I criticize a character I always keep in mind to NOT go personal on the character itself. I might not be a big fan of Purvi , but I don't say everything about her is bad and constantly bash her , call her names , criticize her etc.
some people in this forum constantly bash Ovi/ Shruti , and it cannot be called constructive criticism.
I am not mentioning names but if they are always bashing our favorite character , we don't have the freedom to call them haters?
Last time I checked the dictionary , people who have strong anger / strong dislike towards a person are called haters.
And I am sorry to say there are MANY Ovi haters in this forum.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: m_masti

Paris.Hilton...even for your abve post you might get violation...

I never understood how violations are raised...i only Mods rule I always felt is "members supporting lead actors of the show never get violations"...



m_masti, i don't mind given another warning.. I just needed to say how i feel about being preached by a fellow member, especially if i have already accepted my mistake. I try not to be offensive in my posts but sometimes i just can't help it.
Edited by paris.hilton - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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M_masti. I also don't understand how violations are raised. I see posts worst than mine but were never given any warnings... in this thread i really made a violation so it's ok, My bad.
Edited by paris.hilton - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: paris.hilton

M_masti. I also don't understand how violations are raised. I see post worst than mine but were never given any warnings.



yup, even i never understood it, the only rule I felt is when reporting is done by lead fan group members then those reports are considered and warnings are raised...

yes, some members have haq to preach...even if those preachings are reported, no Mod will take a look at reporting...but if someone says you cannot preach me then it becomes bashing of that member especially if preaching is done by lead fan...

sometimes i feel happy when i get violation because I am read all the time which makes me special...


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