was onir called selfish ?

A silent reader of this forum and an onir purvi fan. Was going through some older posts were people whre critisising onir of being selfish. Was wondering after today z episode the meaning of "selfish" ..Honestly a man ( reputed doctor)who dosent fill his own stomach, walks home cz he dsnt wana spend this money on auto . Dsnt think twice befre buying food and milk for his daughter, whose not even his own blood..cn he ever be calld " selfish " ? A man who dsnt even utter a word against his foolish wife and her descisions that made him loose his career.
I dont know who Purvi will end up with. But for me in this show if dere is some character who potrays the meaning of selfless love its Dr.Onir DUtt.

He is selfish for not giving up Purvi knowing she loves Arjun

Please those people saying onir is selfish should please go and check the meaning before calling onir that. I feel so sorry for poor onir

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

He is selfish for not giving up Purvi knowing she loves Arjun

Waneeka, sorry to disagree. It was purvi who wanted to be with onir through thick or thin. It was her decision to stay with her husband, remember? If purvi wanted out then we see onir saying no, then we can call him selfish for not letting go of purvi. Onir's character is selfless.

If Purvi loved Arjun soo much then she would never let go off him soo easily , she readily accepted the fact that ovi was pregnant wid Arjun z child. Not once was she shown feeling sad about loosing her love and sumbody else getting soo close to ARJUN. Wen u love sumone it pains to see dem go away, Unliker her

Because they are all mad
Onir is crazy for doing good
Purvi is crazy for manipulating
Ovi is crazy for Arjun
Arjun is crazy for being selfish
Arjun is the most selfish among all

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Because they are all mad
Onir is crazy for doing good
Purvi is crazy for manipulating
Ovi is crazy for Arjun
Arjun is crazy for being selfish
Arjun is the most selfish among all

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

He is selfish for not giving up Purvi knowing she loves Arjun

Sorry Waneeka that is unfair to Onir...Why should he? If Purvi wants to be with Arjun than Purvi should ask Onir for divorce...

when ovi fought for her love everyone thought she was selfish

Waneeka, my dear, do stop playing the devil's advocate, will you?

Onir will lt Purvi go the minute she even hints at it. Now if he does it right away, she will be literally on the streets with her baby, but eventually, I would like Onir to break loose from this woman who brings nothing but disaster wherever she goes. And find himself a nice woman who really cares for him, instead of one who uses and uses and uses him, has ruined his career and his life, and gives him nothing in return.

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

He is selfish for not giving up Purvi knowing she loves Arjun