Purvi did the right thing today - Page 3

Purvi cannot live without Pari, is the same way she could not live with Arjun..Go Figure😉

Purvi is what you call a "Word Warrior." She talks big and acts so small.

I pitied her when I saw her ranting about Pari, because I know it is just big words. Her action was to give away Pari, to supposedly save a marriage and she 100% knows Arjun only loves her, that makes her action very small, makes no sense. Her mission was impossible and she knew it. So, I don't buy this nonsense about her doing it to save a marriage. No Perfume can cover what Purvi has done.

Purvi's whole life is just big words, and her actions say nothing and mean nothing, not to mention they help no one only destroy everyone.

So agree with the @ bold. Ovi wants what Purvi has or what Purvi wants. Purvi now wants Pari and Ovi is seen angry and curling her lip. It will not be long before Ovi lays claim to Pari. Stupid Purvi, all she had to do when she learned that Ovi did not want Pari was to say, Pari is hers and she is taking her back. Ovi would have come unglued like a toppling Berlin wall and would have swooped the baby out of Purvi's arms.

As for Purvi not caring for Pari, she did the same "nautanki" in the hospital when the baby was sick, the same "nautanki" when she asked Arjun to take care of Pari as she was leaving the hospital, the same "nautanki" when she told Onir she could not leave to Kolkata leaving Pari behind, the same "nautanki" when she asked Onir to call Arjun in the middle of the night, the same "nautanki" when Ovi left the baby on the bed (the very same action for which Ovi yelled at Ramu kaka), the same "nautanki" which led her to nurse the crying Pari in the car, the same "nautanki" when she pacified the crying Pari before handing her over to Arjun at the temple and telling him Ovi will come around and so she could not take Pari back. Yes, these actions are all pretense but Ovi declaring that the parents will soon find Pari is hidden pain. Poor girl, Ovi. She can rant and scream and let her emotions be known to the world when it pleases her but this grief over Pari going missing she has to keep close to the bosom of her heart.

How can Ovi want what Purvi wants? Ovi wanted Arjun first, before Purvi even laid eyes on him. Purvi only knew Arjun for a very short time. Ovi knew Arjun her whole life.

Archana is Ovi's real Mother not Purvi.

Ovi was forced to love a child that was not hers, she did not know Pari was Purvi's. Why else you think she wanted out, when she found that Purvi was Pari's Mother.

At the same time, if Ovi had not cared that Pari was kidnapped, I am sure there would be hell that she did not care that Pari was kidnapped and she is evil and she never loved Pari.

Seriously?

What is Ovi supposed to do?

Why does it always come back to Purvi being right?

Purvi was willing to marry Arjun in spite of the fact that a whole family agreed on Ovi. Yet, she is deemed right.

Purvi dumped the same guy she insisted on taking from Ovi, yet she is deemed right.

Purvi had premarital sex. Yet she is deemed right.

Purvi married a complete stranger to rare this child. Yet she is deemed right.

Purvi gave up her daughter claiming Mahaan reasons. This child can later develop abandonment issues (just like Ovi). Knowing your Mother gave you up, no matter the reason can ruin anyone's life.

Yet Purvi is deemed right.

Purvi only shows Mamta whenever she feels it necessary to Show Off. Yet she is deemed right.

The times she is showing breast feeding and crying over Pari for this and that, is not impressive. It is selfish and inconsiderate. She gave away her child, she needs to shut up and keep her self quiet and allow Arjun and if Ovi chooses to, to raise this child.

If she wants to be Mother, she needs to take back Pari Permanently.

Purvi behaves like those Dead beat Dads who only come around once in awhile, and if the Mother makes a mistake he is ready to complain to everyone and call her unfit. That is exactly who Purvi is behaving like.

Part- time Motherhood does not and will never make you a Mother.

And why did she give Pari to Arjun and Ovi , to fix their marriage ???

Who is she to fix their marriage ...

Let them sort out their relationship, their marriage , their grief ( losing the baby ) . When Arjun called her to help her , she cut him short and told him that it is her battle with her husband and he should stay out of it and do not call again ...so she does not wants anyone to interfere in her relationship with Onir ...so why not give others also this space ...

Why not allow Ovi and Arjun to sort out their problems on their own without her poking her nose into it ...

She did not even care or ask about how Pari was getting fed , she was showing no responsibility despite of knowing that Ovi does not wish to accpet Pari ...the little baby is so small, she is way too young to be neglected like this ...

It was Arjun who stood by the baby when these two ladies were showing nakhras .He took care of her day and night neglecting his own work and today he was being accused of being a bad daddy ...

Purvi did not take Arjun - he came willingly.

If Purvi married Onir to raise her child, why begrudge her that? Should she rot in hell just so that her sister can gloat over her sorry plight? There is no rule in PR that says only Ovi can be happy plus Onir again willingly agreed to marry Purvi knowing she was pregnant with another man's child.

If Arjun and Purvi had pre-marital relations, it would have been their own business if the sister who covets everything that Purvi has, had not come wheeling and dealing the night before the marriage.

If a child is crying out of hunger, it is not a conscious decision, it is maternal instinct to feed the child.

Couples divorce many a time, the mother might give up custody for whatever reason, the spouses might go on to marry others, love/have children with the other spouse but still the equation where "their" child is concerned never changes. You cannot put a lid on your love just because you gave your child away, if something goes wrong, you do blame the other parent, warranted or not, the child still is and will always remain your child and you will always share the bond of caring, protecting that child with the other parent even if that said parent is married and/has fathered/mothered other children with other people.

My response was you and of course other posts I have seen, stating that Ovi wants what Purvi wants, so that is why I took that angle. It is a very unfair statement when we all know how this ordeal started in the first place. We know that Ovi wanted Arjun first because she knew him first. She loved him first, so how can it be that she wants what Purvi wants. Very unfair statement and it holds no water.

Taking him means that she willing went to him, in spite of the circumstances. Whether or not he wanted to go, Purvi willing agreed.

Bottom line Purvi was wrong to accept to be with Arjun, when he was clearly two-timing. I am not one of those women who agree with women like Purvi. I don't fool myself that because the man loves me it is okay that he dogs another woman, I don't get my self-esteem and importance that way.

I don't need another woman to be hurt, to make myself feel loved only.