saw the episode today!
First of all, Kudos to ovi for finally moving forward in her career, without letting her hopeless marriage come in the way of emotions. This girl is stronger than most characters on this show...She truly has taken after Savita in learning to deal with adversity the right way...i.e to be strong and move on...No tamashas, no unecessary dramas, just a brave front to the world and reducing the noise of her own emotions in her head.
Loved soham today..This character has so much potential to be developed...But they are again reducing him to archu jaap-er and nothing else..He should finally ask the questions he needed to ask to his father...I want some strong scenes between him and Manav, both actors with so much potential...When Manav yells at him, I want soham to ask, why was manav unsucessful in stopping Archu from giving him away to Varsha...I wanth im to ask Manav, how is Soham, himself, responsilbe for the fate life has meted out to him...I want him to ask his father all the questions he should...
But today, what a loveable character...and the actor Ankit, is so likeable to look at on screen, that he makes the character also so affable!
Purvi and Onir scene - I am astonished how this woman has no no no no guilt about what her poor husband is suffering thanks to her...She brushed away his absolute humiliation of carrying boxes being a doctor so nonchalantly, much like DK would. If this was my husband, I would have had tears in my eyes seeing him reduced to this life and to this majboori because of me..I would not get a peaceful night thinking about the hardship he is facing...But she, par onir aapko ye taqleef uthane ki zaroorat nahi thi...what an idiot of a woman...if he didn't do this much also, your daughter would starve to death...she was so unconvincing in being a wife today...even if she does not love onir, yaar, but as the friend, as the only sahara she has in life, out of utmost gratitude also, on a human level, you would feel such remorse of your actions causing this strain on him...But not our dear Purvi. She only cares for Archu, sUlo and the rest of the D clan...Not one ounce of feeling for this poor man who has literally called upon himself a death trap by marrying her.
Onir, also, no less, in re-assuring the devil incarnation that she was all right, all along..tum chinta mat karo mishti...main sab kar doonga...While, I admire husbands who are strong that way, and Onir has everything I would like in a character, except this devi worship he does and the fact that he is blind to their follies to this hadd...No insight at all...When will he understand the enormity of his actions on himself and others? When will he get that his mishti is a cognitively impaired woman who should not be given the opportunity to make decisions for them or for others. I wonder when. It's a shame that such a good guy is so flawed in this one department, that I find little sympathy for him. The look of mild hurt on his face today when he learnt of Arjun giving money was well done..SA is a good actor and I hope they develop his character beyond this henpecked husband and silent lover of his poisonous mishti.
Sulo - giving bhashan to Purvi was all needed, of course. It was well past due and finally she lashed out...But Sulo I find hypocritical in her bhashans just like archu and purvi themselves...Sulo and Archu are the ones who gave full support to the amar premis before, when Ovi had been walked over by both and when Ovi was committing suicide, our mighty pope had gone on "farz banta hai" to invite the D clan for the wedding...Not a thought spared then, so why all this bhashan now? Purvi, has no responsibility to save Arjun-Ovi marriage. She should save hers and that's about it. Sulo used big big words, and they were very much needed, as purvi needed to know that her actions have only caused pain, but to me sulo sounded hypocritical giving this bhashan. She had sar chadhaoed Purvi during the Arjun affair and now saying that she is causing the arjun-ovi break up is hogwash...Sulo flip flops just as much as the other two...Purvi innocently asking, "maine kya kiya hai aaji" and then " main sirf ovi ka bhala chahti thi"...Why does she NEVER get it that throwing away her dead child and replacing with her own love child could NEVER have done any bhalai of anyone. But, thick headed as she is, wrong to expect.
Savita giving it to Purvi in classic old Savi style was needed. Ofcourse, it was a bit OTT about raste se laayi hui ( I hate mentions of adoption as raste se layi hui, it is very degrading for Anyone) and all her tune hi bulaaya hoga arjun ko, woh aisa nahi hai,, blah blah blah...was wrong...cuz they should first look at their love struck damaad and see who goes to whom...I always give that bit to purvi that she is not interested in reviving anything with arjun...she keeps her distance when required...but what she likes is the control she has on him...it is a different high for her...but that's it. She is not ratti bhar into him anymore and it shows also...It is their laadla damaad who for 1 year has been tadpoing in Purvi's yaadein and has been naming child after their memories and going berserk about her...But Manav gave him off so I guess it makes sense...However, Purvi needed a sounding and today I am content that this happened. This was needed, so that Purvi can understand that she should simply keep away from arjun- ovi and stop controlling him and their marriage. Just simply let them be and do their own bidding...I loved someone telling her how Onir is taking the fall for all her kaands...She needed to hear that too..Although stupid that she could not see it for herself..But with Purvi's non-existent perception skills, I will give her the cut on that.
Purvi is going to annoy me until she owns up to her big mistakes instead of going on her ratt of " i wanted bhalai" and until she sees the downfall of Onir due to her. Until that remorse and guilt sets in, I cannot simply stand her arrogant attitude about her actions that have destroyed people. Onir, I have a soft spot for u but I can never really like you until you too have some insight into your actions and your wife's insanity.
Arjun, I think character is shaping up well. Ovi leaving him seems to have brought a world of difference in his thinking..Finally doing thigns his own way without being dictated to by purvi and looking for answers from her...I liked the way he called Onir and upfront told him about the money and the visit to his house. It is what he should have done rightly. And yes, it was a bit wrong of him to offer a meaningless job to Onir, but it showed that he cares. I like that he is conversing with Onir about things that matter, instead of bringing purvi into everything. Somehow, their friendship seems awkward to me, but at the same time, it is a boon for Pari that they both get along.
Precap- hahahahahahaahhah...Purvi is ridiculous yaar...she is doing meherbani or what by having sex with Onir..because people sunaoed her, she thinks solution to making marriage work is having sex...Can you start with some guilt, remorse and basic respect for your husband first? And did she think lifelong she will give Onir a floor and no -sex in this marriage? Can't beleive how dumb they can show her to be..Savita told her and Sulo told her, so she is not awkwardly telling Onir to have sex with her...What nonsense! and honestly, is that not wronging your husband? If you are not ready, have a heart to heart conversation with him about it instead of giving him this idea and then him seeing how you are not into it and so awkward..It hurts a husband much more in that case...Atleast start by giving him pati ka darja and that is let him share the sleeping space with you, look after him, take care of him and give him the much needed support to get back in life...That is the real thing bro..not this awkward forced let's have sex nonsense...She really gets to me...I love the look Onir gave her, he is smart that way, except for the lovestruck blinders. He will tell her no need to force this and there is no jaldi...
But yes, kudos to both aajis for finally sunaoing Purvi...If not the hardship, she needed to hear the bitter truth...kuch toh karma mile waapas! 👏
Edited by pari87 - 12 years ago
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