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Posted: 12 years ago
U know what zapped me

The fact that Purvi is deciding to consummate with Onir as if it was an unpleasant necessity of Marraige coz her grandma told her to look after her own marraige

The same consttipated look that Arjun used to show whenever he had to regard Ovi as a real wife

So if Sulo had not urged , this state of affairs would have continued ?

And 'real' marraige is gonna be attempted coz grandma says so , Purvi herself has zero wish ?

And so ...Purvi knew what 'real' marraige was all along , yet she was ok treating her husband so badly ?

Just bcoz Arjun acted as the catalyst by coming and starting rumors and bcoz both the Grandmas gave her a piece of their mind she is gonna mate with Onir ?

The sanskaari girl has such knowledge of marraige , its amazing ! If force by Grandmas would not have been there [ they still don't know he used to sleep on the floor or they would be horrified] her idea of a husband was using him to wash her dirty linen !

What was she doing btw , being loyal like a pativrata to the roadside shaadi with Arjun and just rushing in Onir's arms occasionally with the purest of motives ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
Well, Kools, if I read Onir's expression right, when he heard her line about dooriyaan mitana, he is going to say Thanks but no thanks. He is not some karela ka juice to be gulped down by her while holding her nose. Why, as I wrote to Pari above, should he accept false coin?

Shyamala

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

U know what zapped me


The fact that Purvi is deciding to consummate with Onir as if it was an unpleasant necessity of Marraige coz her grandma told her to look after her own marraige

The same consttipated look that Arjun used to show whenever he had to regard Ovi as a real wife

So if Sulo had not urged , this state of affairs would have continued ?

And 'real' marraige is gonna be attempted coz grandma says so , Purvi herself has zero wish ?

And so ...Purvi knew what 'real' marraige was all along , yet she was ok treating her husband so badly ?

Just bcoz Arjun acted as the catalyst by coming and starting rumors and bcoz both the Grandmas gave her a piece of their mind she is gonna mate with Onir ?

The sanskaari girl has such knowledge of marraige , its amazing ! If force by Grandmas would not have been there [ they still don't know he used to sleep on the floor or they would be horrified] her idea of a husband was using him to wash her dirty linen !

What was she doing btw , being loyal like a pativrata to the roadside shaadi with Arjun and just rushing in Onir's arms occasionally with the purest of motives ?

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Posted: 12 years ago
regarding wounds on Onir's hands...

so many times in the real world it happens...many just look at worried/crying face, thats all...

here is one example from my memories...it happened few days after my wedding...my husband got hurt on his hands, i was not there with my husband when it happened, i came back from my maika after an hour, i was surprised to see the wound and was shocked as nothing was did to cure it, not sure what to talk, i gave a sad look to my dad who came to drop me, he went and got things needed to cover the wound as we couldn't ask where is first aid box...my MIL was crying so much as it was hurting her son...it was not too big wound, but it happened on right hand fingers it will sure hurt him...i did not cry, i have put band-aids/dressing as needed...and i asked my husband did he have food, i mixed rice for him and gave in a bowl with spoon as i was so new there and couldn't try to feed him in-front of everyone...

this situation happened several years back...as we live far from India there are many less scenarios which we have in-person...till now everyone including my husband says how MIL cried and how much she loves her son...but you know till now i never understood how a mom can leave the wound like that(atleast put haldi from your kitchen) and how a mom did not see the empty stomach of son...i am not saying my MIL doesn't love her son, but don't give me that scenario as example...

but whatever, i had that moment with my husband in initial days of wedding which i never forget, i wish i didn't care about everyone and fed him with my hands...also can never forget the romance with the wound hand in initial days of wedding(yup i am blushing...)...
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Posted: 12 years ago
Oh i know Onir is gonna say thanks but no thanks , he is too decent . Infact shyamala , his decency is his curse , his abhishaap . But what gets my goat is that this girl does not feel this on her own inspite of him moving heaven and earth for her , even the Gods wouldn't have done it for their Goddesses . She is a spoilt selfish brat ...thats what she is . People called Ovi that , dunno why , she tried everything to make her marraige work . It was quite another thing that she wasn't valued . Purvi treated and treats her husband like a toilet tissue .
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Posted: 12 years ago
Kools...if at all what Purvi was asking happens...then Arjun/Onir will have some more topics to share...

it was a such a relief for Arjun when he got to know Purvi-Onir wedding was not consummated...I am sure if it gets consummated Onir will share it with Arjun, it will be horrible to see Arjun's face that time...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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masti u made me laugh . Btw ur personal story is CUTE .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Dear Masti,

Such a sweet little example, and I am sure the two of you must have had many soft and tender moments thanks to his hurt hands!

It is also typical that your husband and all the rest only remember that your MIL wept a lot, not that she did nothing practical to help her son.

Well, as for Purvi, she is not even up to your MIL' s standards, for she seems to have forgotten all about Onir's hands in five minutes.

This said,and as the CVs seem to be eco-conscious in that they believe firmly in recycling😉, what can be logically deduced from Onir's stint with the mango boxes?

Onir is doing a Manav to make a bit of money (remember how Manav too emptied a truck to earn the money to move into a chawl, and away from the pavement where he had left an ill Archana)
If the CVs are going to push the parallel between Onir and Manav further, a Good Samaritan is due to arrive soon and open a new door for Onir, just as Aashna, and then DK, did for Sushant/Manav. It only remains to be seen if there is also an accident as on that occasion, with Onir left for dead on the road, till the aforesaid GS arrives.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: m_masti

regarding wounds on Onir's hands...

so many times in the real world it happens...many just look at worried/crying face, thats all...

here is one example from my memories...it happened few days after my wedding...my husband got hurt on his hands, i was not there with my husband when it happened, i came back from my maika after an hour, i was surprised to see the wound and was shocked as nothing was did to cure it, not sure what to talk, i gave a sad look to my dad who came to drop me, he went and got things needed to cover the wound as we couldn't ask where is first aid box...my MIL was crying so much as it was hurting her son...it was not too big wound, but it happened on right hand fingers it will sure hurt him...i did not cry, i have put band-aids/dressing as needed...and i asked my husband did he have food, i mixed rice for him and gave in a bowl with spoon as i was so new there and couldn't try to feed him in-front of everyone...

this situation happened several years back...as we live far from India there are many less scenarios which we have in-person...till now everyone including my husband says how MIL cried and how much she loves her son...but you know till now i never understood how a mom can leave the wound like that(atleast put haldi from your kitchen) and how a mom did not see the empty stomach of son...i am not saying my MIL doesn't love her son, but don't give me that scenario as example...

but whatever, i had that moment with my husband in initial days of wedding which i never forget, i wish i didn't care about everyone and fed him with my hands...also can never forget the romance with the wound hand in initial days of wedding(yup i am blushing...)...

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

U know what zapped me


The fact that Purvi is deciding to consummate with Onir as if it was an unpleasant necessity of Marraige coz her grandma told her to look after her own marraige

Sorry, guys I haven't been able to read all the posts here yet, but this post caught my eyes (I guess coz) it is red, so have to ans back..
Kool, did you see how Purvi proposed to Onir, You accepted me, you accepted my daughter, now it is my turn to accept you🤣🤣I so laughed...me thinks Purvi thinks Onir is like baingan, a veg that she doesn't particular like, but has to eat it anyways.😆..like my son eating his veggies🤣
Btw, why is IF just going to the home page...been losing post while trying to write...man, it is annoying...anyone having that problem??/
Edited by Kalapi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Shyamala aunty, thanks so much...i just feel that my MIL(and rest family) wants me to handle it as she gave her son to me, may be it was a test for me which i passed...and personally i feel noone has to tell anyone how much a mom loves her kids...

yes, we cannot compare Purvi Mate to anyone...she is not at all realistic...

I liked your view, wish someone comes like Ashna in Onir's life to change it...
I would be interested to see Purvi searching for Onir like Archu searched for Manav on the roads...and Onir should become lil hatke like Manav...the way Manav treated varsha/dharmu/vinod for not helping ArMan to save their first baby...same way I want Onir to treat Purvi/Sulo for not saving his license...

Edited by m_masti - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Onir needs a female taking interest in him

that will jolt Purvi alright

besides it will teach her what a wife feels when another woman is the shadow in a marraige

she did it to Ovi ...it only fair that it happens to her too . Some woman should give importance to Onir and make Purvi insecure . In 2 seconds she will join their mattresses at night and be in his arms , BEGGING him to take her .😉
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago

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