Originally posted by: sashashyam
Ah, but bee, you forget that from her point of view, he is the man who, after saying all those very sweet things to her about his being like her brother, disposed of her dead child like a piece of unwanted rubbish, and hid that from her. Why on earth would she admire him for his selflessness? What selflessness? Tending to the poor in Kolkata? And for that she should forgive him the terrible wrong he did her?Have a heart!
I am very, very fond of Onir, but here he is squarely in the wrong, and all because of his dangerous obsession with keeping his mishti happy, which overrides his commonsense and his professional ethics both.
As for Ovi exposing all this at the party, apart from the fact that this is mandatory in PR, she is tipsy. And why is she tipsy? Because she sees Arjun and Purvi whispering to each other; she then sets down the orange juice and picks up the vodka.,
As for venting her venom on Arjun and Purvi in public, why not? They had no shame having that gandharva vivah in that dirty shack, an d producing this child that becomes the apple of Arjun's eye as soon as he learns it is Purvi's. So why be ashamed of acknowledging their amar prem in public now? As for her asking them to get together again, she then believes that their affair is post his marriage and is still ongoing, so why would she not say that?
As for "If Ovi had really loved Arjun, she wouldn't have had issues with Pari, in some time", who are we to say that? I am not at all sure I would, in my youth, have been able to accept such a situation. If you are sure you could have, that is another thing. This has nothing to do with Ovi having loved Arjun. Just because one loves a man, it does not follow that one has to accept the love child he has fathered with his (not even ex) beloved. Not in my book at least.
Shyamala
Dear Shyamala,
Doing wrong and Talking filth are two different things. Onir did wrong does not mean Ovi had to talk filth. If someone did wrong, you(generic term) do not have to stoop low.
Yes, Ovi had all the right to ask Onir about baby switch, but she did not have to talk about Onir's wife leaving him and marrying her own husband. Like Janhvi already wrote, that was just very crude of her.
Abt the venue -
Has Ovi ever showed patience and thought-out in detail or talked before?
If she thought the affair was post her marriage, did someone stop her from asking that before announcing it in the party?
Ovi knew about the truth one whole day earlier and in the night when Arjun comes back, she expects him to confess. He doesn't and she is heart broken. Till there, it was fine.
But couldn't she talk after that? It is her life. If she doesn't talk who will? She could have asked Arjun, no? If that was too early, she could've come back from the party and ask, but no, she had to choose the party. Can I expect anything good and decent from Ovi. For once?
I have written this long time back and am repeating.
That night at the hilltop Purvi called Ovi and Ovi came running to marry Arjun.
Given their history, Ovi should have talked to Arjun before the marriage and made sure if he was willing wholeheartedly? If he still loved Purvi? Will he stay true, sincere, not crave for Purvi, not think about her, be honest? No!
Now why cry that they deceived? And what deceit?!
It was her choice, she should have made sure things came to her clean and clear. No, she was just happy she got what she wanted. Now bear the consequences of it too. Now Arjun comes with a baggage, accept that too.
Janhvi, a few pages earlier shared a story of a friend and in reply you did tell about you hearing such stories. Yes, I have too.
If there is no love, they wouldn't be able to do.
If Ovi claimed she loved Arjun unconditionally, and unselfishly, then yes that love should be able to make her see Pari as a human and a baby , and more importantly a part of Arjun and be able to care for her.
If there is love, yes, one can.
And who knows, may be she will come back once she realizes that.
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
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