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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Why does Ovi need to accept the baby? If she can talk like this about her baby who she was dying for a couple of days ago. "meri pari " "meri pari"

she will always be reminded of the betrayal of Arjun and Purvi by Pari. I don't think Ovi should be given the charge of Pari under any circumstances. Ovi is not fit enough.

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m_masti

@m_masti

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#22

yes Pari is a baby for now...

But really speaking SanskariMahaanTyaagi blood of Pari really scares me...its better if Ovi doesn't want to accept Pari as daughter now itself...otherwise if Ovi accepts Pari who is really not leagal adoption done by Purvi...Pari can turn into anything, and sure Pari will go back to Purvi...so its never too late...Pari will be always Purvi's daughter only and Arjun will be loving his baby's mom only...i don't see any reason for Pari should be raised by Ovi...

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

Sparkler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Exactly, please just let Arjun and his baby be or Purvi and her baby be or reunite them but don't show this injustice done to Ovi. Why should she tolerate her husband's pyaar ki nishaani?

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Well Said Homie and Kalapi and Pari👏

No Kalapi your are not a bad Mom, Parents are humans and need their space sometimes to think, worse in this situation with Ovi.

There is no book to being a parent, but at least she was trying to be one, unlike the Mahaan one who gives away babies for charity.

@Attractive Adya --NO Offence😃But:

How was Ovi always portrayed?

Who says Ovi would stop loving Pari, after knowing her existence?

Did she stop loving her Dad, when he sided with Archana for Purvi?

Didn't she eventually accept her Mom and loved her , even though she never tried to see her in 18yrs? The deal had nothing to do with it, because Ovi was only interested in getting back Arjun not loving Archana, yet she did any way.

Did she stop loving Savita after she found about her part in the whole 18 yr separation mess?

Did she stop loving Arjun, after he betrayed her a million times?

Even when she was telling him it is over yesterday, it is not because she has stopped loving him.

When was Ovi portrayed as someone who just stops loving someone just like that?

I believe you mean Purvi was always portrayed like that, She stood up for Soham in one breath, then she wanted him dead...that is not love.

She was so in love with Arjun, then one small obstacle and she moves on..that is not love.

I am too tired to write how many other times Purvi has flip-flopped and showed her incapability to truly love anyone, the list is too long.

So, if anyone is to be "Portrayed like that," it is definitely not Ovi.

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pari87

@pari87

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: hillydee
Well Said Homie and Kalapi and Pari👏

No Kalapi your are not a bad Mom, Parents are humans and need their space sometimes to think, worse in this situation with Ovi.
There is no book to being a parent, but at least she was trying to be one, unlike the Mahaan one who gives away babies for charity.

@Attractive Adya --NO Offence😃But:

How was Ovi always portrayed?

Who says Ovi would stop loving Pari, after knowing her existence?

Did she stop loving her Dad, when he sided with Archana for Purvi?

Didn't she eventually accept her Mom and loved her , even though she never tried to see her in 18yrs? The deal had nothing to do with it, because Ovi was only interested in getting back Arjun not loving Archana, yet she did any way.

Did she stop loving Savita after she found about her part in the whole 18 yr separation mess?

Did she stop loving Arjun, after he betrayed her a million times?
Even when she was telling him it is over yesterday, it is not because she has stopped loving him.

When was Ovi portrayed as someone who just stops loving someone just like that?

I believe you mean Purvi was always portrayed like that, She stood up for Soham in one breath, then she wanted him dead...that is not love.

She was so in love with Arjun, then one small obstacle and she moves on..that is not love.

I am too tired to write how many other times Purvi has flip-flopped and showed her incapability to truly love anyone, the list is too long.

So, if anyone is to be "Portrayed like that," it is definitely not Ovi.

Hilly dear fabulous post!!! Loved your points to the question!! I am not going to add anything to it, as you have already put up all points! :)

Varsha di,

That is what I alos want to know. If I was Teju, I would be sitting next to my sister, not leaving her for a minute, especially with a history of suicide and just the fact that this is so traumatic for her to go through alone, without a strong support system. Especially when mom is not there, nor a saas who can help. And main point, I would not let Arjun within 10 meters of my sister anywehre. I would definitely not be ok with him wanting to see my sister. Teju is a brainless twit sometimes, living in her own world, with her own faltu complications of jeth versus boyfriend.

Manav must be next to Archu's side moaning for her help and god alone knows what has gotten into Savita, that she has not comforted Ovi or has not prevented Arjun from meeting her. Even Sachin, as a brother, he should have made sure Arjun is nowehre close to his baby sister. Friendship aside, this guy has come across as a two-timer to both his sisters ( Purvi and Ovi

). My Brother would have whacked him straight. Loved your post too!

Kalapi,

You know, my mom used to do that too. When she had a headache, she would simply give me to my granny and be disturbed and irritated if she heard me scream when her health was not ok...That does not make anyone a bad mom. EVER. You are human being and a parent too, but when your body or health is in question, you cannot always play perfect, not with spouse not with child. it's a biological reflex action. Much less in the case of Ovi's who has suffered trauma and not just a regular headache. Great post too!

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

I don't agree Ovi is not fit enough to raise Pari, I just don't think she should if there are parents there already. There is constant pointing towards Ovi being unfit for some many situations. Yet, Ovi is the only one I see experiencing things and growing from it.

All I see is Purvi crying daily, she has not dealt with one single situation in her life.

When she was supposedly this fiery person who argued and revenged Arjun at every turn in business, I found her loud, obnoxious and immature and a no-it-all, someone who can't handle conflicts rationally and maturely.

Giving up your baby for a cause you invented in your mind, along with hiding your shameful behaviour, does not show that you are 'fit,' to be a Mother.

Now, that Purvi is this coy cry baby, I find her even worse unfit to handle any thing. If she was 'fit,' to handle anything she would not have chosen Ovi's wedding anniversary to announce her premarital sex.

If Ovi is not fit enough to raise Pari, then I need to call Child/Social Services on Purvi for giving up her baby to her ex-lover and his wife.

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Fatima

@Rhimjhimsawan

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Let me get this straight...

Purvi and Onir getting rid of Ovi's dead baby before she even had a chance to touch the baby she carried and loved WITHOUT HER CONSENT = Justified

Purvi giving away her own child = Justified

But Ovi not responding to the baby when she is clearing suffering from the trauma is not justified? You guys do know even biological mothers respond to babies like this when they suffer from something this big?

Ovi clearly loves the child. She has shown that even after she found out Pari is not hers. She just doesn't know how to deal with this yet. Which by the way is a realistic way to portray her, unlike the other characters who seem to have a short term solution for everything in life. Not to mention she broke off everything with Arjun. Pari is no longer hers.

Edited by Perfangel5655 - 12 years ago

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

One has to be at different age, stage, experiences and seen life to Understand Ovi's dilemmas of life...

I dont blame many who cant understand or comprehend them as they are naive and unexperienced or simply lack of compassion due to young age or whatever the case may be..

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#29

no one said purvi doing anything was justified.

Nothing. Purvi is the biggest culprit of all.

But then I am sorry I can't relate to Ovi's sudden anger towards her loving baby.

I always said Ovi is the only character I can relate to.

I probably would have proposed the DEAL to purvi too, I would do the same things she did till date but then I would never vent out my anger on some baby just because she isn't my baby ..

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#30

Homie I get the feeling it is not the lack of experience that blinds anyone to the fact that Ovi has every right to be reacting the ways she is.

Ovi will always be wrong in the eyes of those who wanted the children to suffer because they were not brought up by Archana.

and most importantly upset by the separation of Arjun and Purvi, where it is perceived that Ovi is the cause of it.

So, if Ovi unites, Arjun and Purvi, and becomes Pari's nanny, and sweep their floor daily, she would still be hated because she dared to be brought up by Manav and Savita, led a rich life and managed to get back her fiance from Pure-Vi the saint.(Worse lead in all Indian Serials in my POV) and ruined the Perfect Virtual Chemistry.

Purvi is not genuinely loved or her being a better person would have been encouraged, same for Arjun, but they are merely used as Entertainment, it does not matter how much of a loser they are, as long as those romantic moments of singing in the rain, basic instincts moments in shacks and many babies outside of wedlock are produced, no more fasting, then all is well and PR is perfect. 🤢

Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago

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