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Thapelo

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Thanks for answering my question Pari and 100% agree with you.

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Tanya

@AlwaysHisJaan

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

ovi knows that pari is not her daughter, she has even asked arjun to leave? so why are they forcing pari to her??? purvi should have taken pari with her ... pari is innocent but it doesn't change the fact that pari is arjun and purvi's daughter, and obviously no one in this world would want to raise other woman's child. yes her behavior was wrong but its justified.

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sherma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: trupat
ovi knows that pari is not her daughter, she has even asked arjun to leave? so why are they forcing pari to her??? purvi should have taken pari with her ... pari is innocent but it doesn't change the fact that pari is arjun and purvi's daughter, and obviously no one in this world would want to raise other woman's child. yes her behavior was wrong but its justified.

very true.

exactly arjun is not leaving ovi,y dont he just live and let live.

he cldnt make a decision but ovi did,so nw wat he wants,he is free now

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Seriously? Who would want the baby which is the result of the man you love with all your heart and his ex-girlfriend, your rival?

This is their supposed love child, should Ovi lower her self-esteem any further by accepting Arjun's baby who is also a part of Purvi and not her?

Ovi begged Purvi for Arjun, Purvi gave him up, when she realised how bad everything looked. Ovi wasted her life by being friends with a betrayer, received slap in front of her rival and had to hear how Arjun loved her in front of everyone. Now, she must take their illegitimate child to suit who and what purpose? To show Mahaan.

Ovi has a womb that seems to be still in tact, she is young, and she is beautiful and loving, she can move on and find a new husband and have a zillion babies, in a loving and safe environment away from a liar and backstabber like Arjun.

I thought everyone wanted Ovi to get some self-esteem, realise her mistake, stop wanting Arjun and move on with her life? How is keeping Pari doing all of that? Pari has a real Mother alive and healthy, she does not need Ovi and Ovi does not need Pari.

Purvi needs to stand up for once and be responsible and take care of her own daughter, with or without Arjun or any man for that matter. This is when I can probably have even a little respect for this self-righteous two-faced character.

No offence to Topic Maker

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

No it's not her fault for not wanting the baby. In the party, she said she wants nothing to do with Arjun. So why is this baby in the D house? If Purvi had minimum concern for her baby she would take her baby with her seeing her sister's behaviour. But then, she can ask Arjun to leave with the baby. But she CAN'T say it the way she did. IS BACCHI KO LE JAO EK TOH MERA SAR FATA JA RAHA HAI USKE UPOR SE YEH RO RAHI HAI ..there is a way of talking ..

it's her parents who ruined her life, the baby has nothing to do with it

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sherma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird
No it's not her fault for not wanting the baby. In the party, she said she wants nothing to do with Arjun. So why is this baby in the D house? If Purvi had minimum concern for her baby she would take her baby with her seeing her sister's behaviour. But then, she can ask Arjun to leave with the baby. But she CAN'T say it the way she did. IS BACCHI KO LE JAO EK TOH MERA SAR FATA JA RAHA HAI USKE UPOR SE YEH RO RAHI HAI ..there is a way of talking ..
it's her parents who ruined her life, the baby has nothing to do with it

dont you think its too much to ask for,

she needs time,we shld wait for tomorrw episode and den decide

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RapChick101

@RapChick101

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Ovi has always been portrayed like that.
She wouldn't love Pari after knowing she's Arjun and Purvi's kid, but yes she should be gentle with Pari, after all Pari is baby.

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

My Q is what is Arjun doing with Ovi at D home to begin with?

Why does he expect Ovi to be responsible and take care of Pari after what has happened less than few hours?

Didn't Ovi tell Arjun that she is done with him...Nothing left between them. Did she not say she is getting arjun and purvi together herself? If Arjun can't go back to Purvi as she is with ehr next bakra, than Arjun should have self respect of taking Pari to kirloskar home and hire a nannny...He is loaded with money..

Ovi not only has lost her own baby, she found out abt her two timing cheating husband and sister's illegit child passed off as her own baby, a betrayal, loss and devastation...Is she in the mood to handle a baby which is nishaan of her husband's betrayal to her with her own sister?

No matter how much she loves Pari, Ovi is in turmoil right now...She needs time to regroup, and find out how and what she feels...She has lost her self respect, pride and soul due to her love for Arjun...Should she even lose it more for Arjun's baby with his ex???

Let Ovi mourn, feel sad..She does not need to live up to our judgements of how she should behave or act..She was not mean or cruel..She was not nasty to Pari..She told Arjun she had bad headache and he should take care of Pari..My million $ Q is WTH is he doing at D home?

Get lost and go back to your own house Mr. kirloskar...Do not use your loving wife to raise your child out of wedlock..She aint your servant to change dirty diapers...Do it yourself or if u cant do it than take pari to her mother...Until Ovi gets herself together..

Personally I dont think Ovi tonight not wanting to handle pari has anything to do with pari being Arjun-purvi's daughter...I think she just have had too much betrayal and her pain is over powering...She does not want to do injustice to Pari...SHe is really thinking of Pari's benefit to have her handled by someone else...

My POV..

Superb post by Pari and Hilly 👏

Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago

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m_masti

@m_masti

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

As per today's episode, Ovi told in the party itself that its
1. She wnats to keep distance from Arjun
2. Parivaar should reunite Arjun-Purvi...
3. she mourned for stillborn not seeing/hugging...

I am surprised to see that Purvi didnot take Pari with her...even all the D parivaar let baby to be in Ovi's room and Arjun in that room...

so does it mean Purvi is not going to take anything back which Ovi used...

I am really worried, Purvi couldn't accept Pari...Purvi might not accept Arjun...and we have to get tortured by no ArVi reunion...

100% agree with your post Pari...Ovi needs sometime to accept the baby...but i am okay even if she won't accept baby...and i really don't support Purvi's thought of replacing bio-kid with illegitimate child...

Edit/Add:
the whole baby swapping happened because Ovi cannot handle stillborn...now everyone saw that she could have handled it...she said she couldn't get a chance to hug and see the baby which she loved and built dreams...so now why to force Ovi to take care of Pari...its not told that she cannot have babies anymore...if everyone wants to handle thigns properly, then the baby should be given to Purvi and its her wish to raise the baby with Onir or Arjun...they should let Arjun to handle it all by himself...if Purvi chooses Onir over Arjun then this will give Arjun a fair chance to move-on with Ovi and sure Ovi will accept Arjun if its really Pure attempt...they can have their own babies...

Edited by m_masti - 12 years ago

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: pari87
Waneeka,

I do not think Ovi said anything against Pari. All she said, was take her away and leave, my head is hurting and to top it she is crying. There was no abuse used , there was no manhandling of a baby, nothing. So it is a little too severe what you are blaming her with.

Ovi has suffered trauma and though that in itself gives her no reason to misbehave, but what does explain her psyche is her fool of a husband lurking around her and the baby that is his illegitimate child.

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Pari, thanks for explaining why so much outpouring against all over sudden, nothing that I am surprised about.😉

Now, let me tell you my own story, if I have a bad day at my office, I end up with severe headache. It happened just last week. My babysitter was there, I just told her to take my daughter away, she wasn't even crying, she was just being sweet and talkative as usual. She took her away, am I a bad mom??

I know ppl, will say we go to any extend to justify Ovi, but what has happened to Ovi is traumatic. It takes time to accept another child as your own. Ovi first has to dissociate the feeling that Pari is Arjun Purvi's nishani who has betrayed her. It takes lot of time and then accept Pari without that association. Someone was sharing her own experience in the forum, and she said it helped her to accept sauten's baby as her own, when she could see similarities between her kid and Sauten's kid. It takes time and a conscious effort to accept.

I know that argument that Pari was conceived before the marriage, but I have pointed out time and again, there is no way to prove that for Purvi has said many times she was behind in her pregnancy track. Now, if a Doc could put in the right age for the baby, no science can prove that Arjun and Purvi's sex happened before marriage, remember the 2 wk window...so to Ovi, they have betrayed her alright...

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