justifying ovi - Page 2

Agreed! Arjun's love for her is strong but purvi's love is really weak! She should have thought about her own kid before thinking about ovi! ...Purvi has always sacrificed eveyrthing for her family over arjun...and how sweet is arjun! He let her do everything !

Originally posted by: crystalmoon

Ovi does not know that it happened before the wedding.And the whole making a deal about archana's happiness.It was the time when Ovi believed that her mother gave her up for the sake of money.It was 18 years of watching her father live a miserable life the mere mention of her name used to create a tense atmosphere in there household .archana's name was not cleared till after the wedding.But still for Arjun she decided to let archana come back in her life.The part about arjun and purvi loving each other they knew each other for like 1 year maximum whereas arovi shared 18 years of friendship together they were engaged way before purvi came in there life. so it was purvi who entered there life not other way round.

Originally posted by: crystalmoon

Ovi does not know that it happened before the wedding.And the whole making a deal about archana's happiness.It was the time when Ovi believed that her mother gave her up for the sake of money.It was 18 years of watching her father live a miserable life the mere mention of her name used to create a tense atmosphere in there household .archana's name was not cleared till after the wedding.But still for Arjun she decided to let archana come back in her life.The part about arjun and purvi loving each other they knew each other for like 1 year maximum whereas arovi shared 18 years of friendship together they were engaged way before purvi came in there life. so it was purvi who entered there life not other way round.

Originally posted by: crystalmoon

Ovi does not know that it happened before the wedding.And the whole making a deal about archana's happiness.It was the time when Ovi believed that her mother gave her up for the sake of money.It was 18 years ofwatchingher father live amiserablelife the mere mention of her name used to create a tenseatmospherein there household .archana's name was not cleared till after the wedding.But still for Arjun she decided to let archana come back in her life.The part about arjun and purvi loving each other they knew each other for like 1 year maximum whereas arovi shared 18 years of friendship together they were engaged way before purvi came in there life. so it was purvi who entered there life not other way round.

Purvi did not enter their lives, Arjun entered Purvi's life as he is the one that suddenly arrived from Canada.
Also, if Ovi did not know about her mother's truth, all the more reason for her NOT to let her Aai back into her dad 's life. But she did not care about her dad or the way he felt, Ovi just saw this as an opportunity to get Arjun. But let us not forget that is not how it was shown, she did know by then that her dad wanted her mother back in his life but that he couldn't let her back in until the kids were okay with it so Ovi tried to use the situation to get what she wanted, Arjun.

Originally posted by: MissMona

for me..lust would be the perfect word to define them.

Lust is too strong and ugly a word to use for their relationship.

Other than that one night, neither one of them has made an attempt to have a physical relationship with the other. No clandestine meetings for the sake of physical relations, nada, nothing. In fact, they have shown care for each other that goes beyond the physical. Arjun, to be fair, has always cared about Purvi's well-being. Purvi, other than that grievous doing on the hill-top has shown concern for Arjun and his happiness aka his marriage with Ovi. It may be due to a guilty conscience but concerned she is, so the word lust does not enter the picture. My POV.

I agree with you 100 percent. Ovi has a right to angry with purvi for not allowing her to know how baby is dead.

But dont you think all this mess is as a result of ovi's own selfishness to have arjun at all cost?

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Lust is too strong and ugly a word to use for their relationship.

Other than that one night, neither one of them has made an attempt to have a physical relationship with the other. No clandestine meetings for the sake of physical relations, nada, nothing. In fact, they have shown care for each other that goes beyond the physical. Arjun, to be fair, has always cared about Purvi's well-being. Purvi, other than that grievous doing on the hill-top has shown concern for Arjun and his happiness aka his marriage with Ovi. It may be due to a guilty conscience but concerned she is, so the word lust does not enter the picture. My POV.

Originally posted by: mysticzeal

</div>there were already 2 weeks passed after arovi wedding when the party drama happened. by that time purvi was sure that she is pregnant. inspite of knowing that she is pregnant ,purvi forced arjun to consummate with ovi. ovi hadn't forced him to consummate with herself.
<div>first of all purvi didn't take pills within 72 hours. she indeed wanted to become pregnant and use the child as a weapon later on. on top of that she forced arjun to consummate with ovi and bring another life in the world. she is indeed the most immoral woman

The day Purvi told Arjun to marry Ovi, Purvi did not know she was pregnant. Once Arjun was married, he was off limits. The pregnancy then was Purvi's problem and her problem alone, so she told him to move on with his life. He didn't have to sleep with Ovi if he didn't want to, he couldn't have made a baby with Ovi if he wasn't physically attracted to Ovi be it momentarily so to me to say that Arjun slept with Ovi only because Purvi told him to, doesn't ring true. At some level, be it physical, he was ready to move in his marriage, therefore Purvi cannot be blamed for his physical action.

I am not sure how the 72 hour pill works in India meaning how readily available it is, laws were recently changed here to make it available to all. And also abortion to some people as early as the day after is considered sishu hathya, equivalent to murder and Purvi might have wanted to keep Arjun's baby, it was all she had of their love, she was planning to leave and if she kept the baby because of any of the above reasons, she was justified. She is not like Ovi who was in two minds all along her pregnancy whether to abort the baby, take care of the baby, hate the baby, love the baby.

To say Purvi wanted to use her pregnancy or baby as a weapon, she doesn't/didn't need any weapons to get Arjun, that is mistaking her for Ovi. Ovi needs weapons, plans, deals, to make Arjun love her, Purvi doesn't need them, Arjun was/is in love with her.

Going by that argument that Purvi can be blamed for Arjun marrying Ovi, Purvi can be blamed for Arjun sleeping with Ovi, is acknowledging that Purvi already wields enough power over Arjun to make the need for any weapon unnecessary, she can make Arjun dance to her tunes, baby or not.

No one loves anyone in this show. Only Arman loves each other
Purvi goes to aai when she is in problem
Ovi goes to aai when she is in problem
One mother gives her child to her saut
One girl loves her best friend but can't stand him happy
It's not wrong to fight for your love .. But denying things is wrong
I don't blame Ovi for anything
Ovi is a better , up front person than most others in this show
She minds her own business and Arjun is her business
Unlike Purvi who needs to care for her husband