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soapwatcher1

@soapwatcher1

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: mysticzeal

</div>lust is indeed the most apt word. if u get physical in an extremely unconventional place like a hut then obviously its lust.
<div>if the background was a decent cozy bedroom then the situation would had been different. but getting physical in a roadside hut and on grass heaps is perfect symbol of desperate lust

Lol, Punni's trysts with Mittal were all in cozy bedrooms albeit in a hotel, theirs must be love :)

If you are referring to that one night, I would say that was physical attraction between a couple that was in love and about to be married the next day. A physical relationship between a husband and wife wherever it is, is not deemed lust. They were to be husband and wife, not yet husband and wife, I realize. In my mind, any sort of pre-marital physical relationship is way off bounds but that does not turn every physical act into a lustful relationship. Theirs is not a lustful relationship barring that one night, there is no clamoring in them to be together in a physical relationship, there is more care and concern for each other.

Your initial post got me thinking and I read this, found it quite interesting so am sharing it with you. http://m.psychologytoday.com/blog/emotional-freedom/201108/lust-vs-love-do-you-know-the-difference

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Million $ Question is Did Purvi ever love Arjun at all???

Ovi has all the right to be furious at Arjun and Purvi along with latest ramukaka Onir...All of them have Fdup Ovi and her dead baby's life...They have not even spared Pari in this mess..

I hold even archana and Sulo responsible for encouraging man dumping one sister for the other...Shame on those sanskars which allows that..

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Lol, Punni's trysts with Mittal were all in cozy bedrooms albeit in a hotel, theirs must be love :)

If you are referring to that one night, I would say that was physical attraction between a couple that was in love and about to be married the next day. A physical relationship between a husband and wife wherever it is, is not deemed lust. They were to be husband and wife, not yet husband and wife, I realize. In my mind, any sort of pre-marital physical relationship is way off bounds but that does not turn every physical act into a lustful relationship. Theirs is not a lustful relationship barring that one night, there is no clamoring in them to be together in a physical relationship, there is more care and concern for each other.

Your initial post got me thinking and I read this, found it quite interesting so am sharing it with you. http://m.psychologytoday.com/blog/emotional-freedom/201108/lust-vs-love-do-you-know-the-difference

U are too good my sister, too good👍🏼

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soapwatcher1

@soapwatcher1

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: TALIRAlinda

Jhanvi di , ovi was pregnant with arjuns child , and i guess without physical relation pregnancy not possible , right ?? so arjun had physical relation with 2 sister and he did it after 15 days so if he loves so much purvi then how he did it so he should search her na and yeah purvi took a promise from him that he shouldnt search her but few days ago purvi also said that ''''''''' no need to hear my word , u can do anything whatever you want '''' if arjun not able to hear this sentence then why he hear every purvis word what actually for ovi so i guess his subconscious mind want ovi but he need someones order and it is purvi who can order him just like onir also able to convince ovi . so purvi able to convince arjun and onir able to convince ovi . sounds good . onir is ovis elder brother and by this sense arjun purvi also has the same relation so i guess arjun purvis love is not love but something else . of course my POV .

Linda, I agree with you. Arjun wanted to move on, it is but human, people in real life marry people they don't love even if they happen to be in love with another and learn to move on. I believe basically we are all survivors and we learn to live with situations, deal with situations and "settle" with our lots in life. Not saying in some part of his brain, Arjun was not subconsciously thinking of the what might have been (natural) but he also knew (gut survival instinct) that to be happy he needed to make the current situation work. Maybe he was in two minds and wanted Ovi ( I had written a post earlier that Arjun subconsciously always knew Purvi was not for him and that Ovi was right for him - pure surmise on my part😉) and like you said he needed someone to tell him it was perfectly okay to move on. If he had not wanted to move on, he would not have been able to is what I am saying.

By that same token this does not make what Arjun and Purvi shared "not love", not all love is successful and maybe not all people love only once. To cheapen what they had, in my mind, is not right. Both Arjun and Purvi needed to move on in their lives, there was no turning back the clock, other lives were involved and they needed to make the best of their situations and learn to love again if they could.

Edited by soapwatcher1 - 12 years ago

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soapwatcher1

@soapwatcher1

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Million $ Question is Did Purvi ever love Arjun at all???

Ovi has all the right to be furious at Arjun and Purvi along with latest ramukaka Onir...All of them have Fdup Ovi and her dead baby's life...They have not even spared Pari in this mess..

I hold even archana and Sulo responsible for encouraging man dumping one sister for the other...Shame on those sanskars which allows that..

To quote the Bard, "tis not that I loved Caesar less, but that I loved Rome more"

Let us just say that Purvi loved her Aai more.

Edited by soapwatcher1 - 12 years ago

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Million $ Question is Did Purvi ever love Arjun at all???

Ovi has all the right to be furious at Arjun and Purvi along with latest ramukaka Onir...All of them have Fdup Ovi and her dead baby's life...They have not even spared Pari in this mess..

I hold even archana and Sulo responsible for encouraging man dumping one sister for the other...Shame on those sanskars which allows that..

[/QUOTe] She did. Arjun's love for her is questionable as he did not have to agree to marry ovi when she asked. he should have said no to her and that would have been solid proof of his deep love for her but what he did? he married ovi first word and is still with ovi, even get her pregnant. I sometimes feel he conscience is playing games with him now as he has realized that he should have made a different decision at that point.

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chinyere

@chinyere

Inactive

Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Million $ Question is Did Purvi ever love Arjun at all???

Ovi has all the right to be furious at Arjun and Purvi along with latest ramukaka Onir...All of them have Fdup Ovi and her dead baby's life...They have not even spared Pari in this mess..

I hold even archana and Sulo responsible for encouraging man dumping one sister for the other...Shame on those sanskars which allows that..

what the hell is FDUP? is that anew word in the dictionary??...why some posters dont understand not all viewers or pasters know such short hand it seems some posters dont respect other readers..but yet they love to scream if this is a rule or not..does everything have to be a fast and hard rule to understand what other reader go through when reading post...

I am so sorry if i am beign rude or seems like bashing ,but sometimes you have to communicate on the same level as people do...so admin,i am apologising from now,but what is the point of writing acronyms or initials and then having to spell out the word..that is just plain stupid.

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jdronamraju

@jdronamraju

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Yes, Ovi has every right to be angry at Purvi for doing this baby swap nd not letting her know about her own baby. I have said this before nd will say again, it is the most thoughtless nd maybe unintentional, but a very callous act, what purvi nd onir had done to Ovi, denying her the right to mourn for her child.
She has my utmost sympathy on that end, but, in no way absolves her of her acts before. She will never be the pristine nd reformed Ovi to me that some find her so.
Enough has been said about why Arjun hasnt told Ovi about it. In all fairness, his first reaction was to let Ovi know about Pari, nd he goes to the D house with the same intention despite Purvi asking him not to. But, he is just not able to tell her, for Arjun knows that it would break Ovi's heart forever. In the face of Ovi's boundless love for Pari, he probably just became helpless. I dont know about love, but he cares for Ovi in his own way. In some ways, This was the same case when he couldnt tell her about Purvi too way back during that engagement fiasco.
I know ! I am probably the only one on this forum now who is looking at it this way, well, what can i say, this is absolutely my POV 😊

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bonibright

@bonibright

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: rayadallie
In my POV,if Purvi loved Arjun,then she wouldn't have sold Arjun like a commodity for her AAI..So,just the way u think Arjun did NOT love Purvi,I think Purvi did NOT love Arjun..😊

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jdronamraju

@jdronamraju

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#30

In all these times, I dont think even the hardest critics of Arjun have ever said that Arjun never loved Purvi.. In fact, he has always been accused of loving her beyond limits..This is a first and an interesting observation.

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