There is nothing mature about Purvi.
Interfering in others lives
Making decisions for your lover without his opinion
Giving away your baby, when you are not dying of cancer so you need parents for her. Only God decides who are parents.
Crying every single second of the day
Having premarital sex
Runaway with a pregancy without informing your family, not to mention the Father
Getting married to a complete stranger, to cover up your shame
Lying about having no family to your new husband
Are all not Mature Behaviour.
This makes Purvi self-righteous, conceited, obnoxious, overbearing, irresponsible, cruel and completely immature.
Ovi's so-called immaturity level from day one, is normal behaviour, if you are brought up in a broken home and you don't know your Mother and heard that she is a bad woman, and every one indulges you to make up for your losses.
Over time Ovi, realises every mistake. People say she should have admitted the deal was wrong, but no one even realises, that when Ovi had decided to finally leave Arjun, that is admitting to making a mistake in itself. Or she would have continued to force the marriage. It is Arjun and Purvi who reiterated the deal all over again and made her think that maybe the deal would work out after all.
Ovi saw her errors in drinking and stopped.
Ovi is always the one who is forced to make mature decisions, because she is always judged.
Purvi does every and anything, yet completely incorrectly, and she is seen as Mature and Mahaan. How is that possible, when everyone gets hurt by your actions? How is that possible when you make decisions for others as if you are God?
Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago