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Posted: 12 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: -3raser-

Apparently every problem is Arjun's fault.
Ovi is unhappy it's Arjun's fault.
Purvi is unhappy - Arjun's fault.
Archana is unhappy - Arjun's fault.
Purvi has a child - Arjun's fault.
Ovi has a child - Arjun's fault.
Arjun listens to Purvi, it's his fault.
Arjun doesn't listen to Purvi, his fault.
Everything has to be his fault! Like why?!





@bold very well said..Adding to the above list,
Ovi's low self esteem is Arjun's fault
Ovi's drinking is Arjun's fault
Ovi's pregnancy is Arjun's fault
Ovi not wanting the baby is Arjun's fault
Purvi staying in town before, was Arjun's fault
Purvi leaving but still haunting Ovi is Arjun's fault
ovi's paranoia is Arjun's fault
Arjun caring for Ovi's child is Arjun's fault
Arjun wanting the baby to live is Arjun's fault, for Ovi doesn't care

You want to know why it is all Arjun's fault? Because, apparently nothing Ovi, Purvi and Archana does is their fault !!! Because, Arjun is the eternal scapegoat who takes it !! That is his REAL Fault !!


Edited by jdronamraju - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: pomegranate

love how Arvi fans are anti- onir just because he dared to take care of purvi when she needed the most.

i am not against Onir but i do find him a little suspicious.Too good to be true and also the fact that Purvi knows nothing from his past seems a bit mysterious to me.
I am not against him but i am suspicious of him.There's a difference.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: jdronamraju



@bold very well said..Adding to the above list,
Ovi's low self esteem is Arjun's fault
Ovi's drinking is Arjun's fault
Ovi's pregnancy is Arjun's fault
Ovi not wanting the baby is Arjun's fault
Purvi staying in town before, was Arjun's fault
Purvi leaving but still haunting Ovi is Arjun's fault
ovi's paranoia is Arjun's fault
Arjun caring for Ovi's child is Arjun's fault
Arjun wanting the baby to live is Arjun's fault, for Ovi doesn't care

You want to know why it is all Arjun's fault? Because, apparently nothing Ovi, Purvi and Archana does is their fault !!! Because, Arjun is the eternal scapegoat who takes it !! That is his REAL Fault !!



I absolutely love these 2 combined posts!!!!

Arjun - Our Eternal scapegoat - rightly said Jyo.
I wonder when Ovi and Purvi will ever have to take responsibility of their own actions. We know Archana is beyond reproach and will never be found at fault *rolls eyes*. But what of Purvi and Ovi - will they ever have to face their day of judgement? Will it ever be shown to us that they too were at fault and they too should face some form of punishment.
I must say... Arjun is being punished severly for his mistakes - life sentence of misery!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: Manoshono

how can people forget that arjun has done so much for purvi In the past. Just because he has slept with ovi, doesn't mean we stop counting his good deeds. Onir has only been in few episodes, we don't even know the whole story behind his intetions of marrying purvi. We would have a doubt though, but we are not saying anything against that guy. Plus, we arvians are way better than those anti-arvians who don't lose a chance to say things against them.


arjun slept with his fiancee and then his wife.. none of it is illegal. with fiancee it was immoral as per the morality displayed by the ex fiancee in this show.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: ameilia

i am not against Onir but i do find him a little suspicious.Too good to be true and also the fact that Purvi knows nothing from his past seems a bit mysterious to me.
I am not against him but i am suspicious of him.There's a difference.


purvi dont know about onir and onirs past life , how can we say that ? without knowing she marry him that doesnt make any sense and purvi always say that he is good man but still onir mysterious is bcz still purvi not meet arcana after meeting with arcana we will get many flashback so we will get ans about onir and i am surprised also just bcz purvi dared to move on thats why she is selfish , is arjun not moved ? arjun also moved and prove is , he is about to father now , so he moved long time ago . difference is arjuns partner a psycho and he is unhappy and purvis partner a good human being and she is happy , both are moved but we can see only purvis fault ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Linda... I will not get into ur debate about fault and who should be happy and move on.
Only one clarification. We CAN say Purvi does not know much about Onir's past. The episode when she was looking at the DVD of him on TV - she specifically said "there is so much I dont know about u and your past".
Soo... from that we can all adequately conclude, she doesnt know a lot of him nor his past life.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: TALIRAlinda


purvi dont know about onir and onirs past life , how can we say that ? without knowing she marry him that doesnt make any sense and purvi always say that he is good man but still onir mysterious is bcz still purvi not meet arcana after meeting with arcana we will get many flashback so we will get ans about onir and i am surprised also just bcz purvi dared to move on thats why she is selfish , is arjun not moved ? arjun also moved and prove is , he is about to father now , so he moved long time ago . difference is arjuns partner a psycho and he is unhappy and purvis partner a good human being and she is happy , both are moved but we can see only purvis fault ..

I have never mentioned anything abt Purvi being selfish and its all Purvi's fault etc etc.I just mentioned that Onir is too good to be true especially since this is a serial and twists tend to happen.
Purvi did mentioned she doesnt know abt Onir's past.I guess he didnt bother to ask her abt her past so she didnt ask him as Onir doesnt know Arjun.
U have quoted me but u have taken my post out of context caz i just mentioned abt Purvi not knowing abt Onir and that i am suspicious of Onir.
Edited by ameilia - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#88

Originally posted by: ameilia

I have never mentioned anything abt Purvi being selfish and its all Purvi's fault etc etc.I just mentioned that Onir is too good to be true especially since this is a serial and twists tend to happen.
Purvi did mentioned she doesnt know abt Onir's past.I guess he didnt bother to ask her abt her past so she didnt ask him as Onir doesnt know Arjun.
U have quoted me but u have taken my post out of context caz i just mentioned abt Purvi not knowing abt Onir and that i am suspicious of Onir.

oh u didnt mention purvi selfish but i cant take my word as i already said this whatever i always read about purvi that she is wrong , selfish etc etc , whatever its just my mistake . but when everybody say about purvi then may be everybody only think about arjun and forget purvi was blackmailed by her so called sister ,and this is irritate me and i am not watched regular thats why i missed this scene and may be thats why this baseless debate , whatever forget it 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -3raser-

Apparently every problem is Arjun's fault.
Ovi is unhappy it's Arjun's fault.
Purvi is unhappy - Arjun's fault.
Archana is unhappy - Arjun's fault.
Purvi has a child - Arjun's fault.
Ovi has a child - Arjun's fault.
Arjun listens to Purvi, it's his fault.
Arjun doesn't listen to Purvi, his fault.
Everything has to be his fault! Like why?!

Archana: I don't even know why she gives Arjun a lecture on how to handle Ovi and take care of her when she herself can't do that. A hypocrite mother who is just forcing her responsibilities on Arjun. She should be the one slapping some sense into her daughter...maybe even asking her to abort the child and divorce Arjun so everyone can live in peace. Maybe, act like a mother for once.

Ovi: I can't even describe her properly...ugh...She needs to be in a rehab at the moment. I don't even know if I can call her state a psychological disorder because I feel that she was just born annoying and selfish.

Purvi: As much as I'd like to say that she is caring and sensitive I want to say that she is selfish and dumb when it comes to Arjun and her decisions. I find her to be BLIND! Just blind! She sees her mother and family but she never sees Arjun. She thinks it's easy to move on, and look she has -- happily married with Onir-- but she never bothers to think if Arjun has truly moved on. Her crocodile tears annoy me, she literally blackmails the person who loves her the most and asks him to sacrifice. Not once, but over and over again! Isn't it selfish? Like fine, if you think that Arjun being with you is a problem for Archana, then leave him! Don't ask him to go marry OVI!Ugh


For all those going on and on about Arjun listening to her and etc etc. I'd just like to say he was doing it for the person he loved the most. He thought that it would make her happy. She was his only and first priority but Purvi's first priority wasn't Arjun. It will never be just him. And for everyone saying that he got both pregnant then you should know that its a EK serial where anything is possible, so most likely we WILL have twist and flashback on that coming soon.

As of now, I feel very bad for him. He was a strong, smart and an influential man. Now, his self image and personality is pitiful.


Of course Arjun's condition is his own fault, just as everyone's is their own. Why does he keep making promises he cannot keep? He married ovi knowing whAt she is like. He wanted a second chance at their marriage why? He made her pregnant , why? There were many places wher he could have taken a stand, he didn't.
He went and asked archana for help.She told him to work on his relationship with Ovi. And she clearly told him that if she speaks to ovi, she will listen to her only for a short time.is that not true.
Has she supported Ovi in her tantrums? How is she a hypocrite here? It is Arjun who promo used to work on their marriage and is obviously not successful.
I'm surprised that people expect archana to get ovi's child aborted, get her divorce from Arjun and hand over Arjun to purvi. Really? Did anyone force these three to take these decisions, make a mess of their lives and then hold archana responsible!
If Arjun had guts, he would never have gone to ovi even if purvi asks him to. Especially after his relAtions with purvi. He would not have continued his marriage with ovi and landed in a giver mess which hecannot handle. Is this not hypocrisy?
If the cvs are to be blamed for Arjun's character, it is they who have to be blamed for ovi, archana purvi and others characters.
So why only poor Arjun?
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Posted: 12 years ago
#90
Thanks Peaches and Amelia for the compliments!!
I'm just so annoyed that some persons (although they're entitled to their opinions) are just so dazzled by Dr. Onir 'goodness' and his love and care for Purvi as if he has even done 1/4 of what Arjun has done for her- like ruining his life to make her happy!! So I just had to let it all out and try to put things in the 'right' context!!

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