Originally posted by: -3raser-
Apparently every problem is Arjun's fault.
Ovi is unhappy it's Arjun's fault.
Purvi is unhappy - Arjun's fault.
Archana is unhappy - Arjun's fault.
Purvi has a child - Arjun's fault.
Ovi has a child - Arjun's fault.
Arjun listens to Purvi, it's his fault.
Arjun doesn't listen to Purvi, his fault.
Everything has to be his fault! Like why?!
Archana: I don't even know why she gives Arjun a lecture on how to handle Ovi and take care of her when she herself can't do that. A hypocrite mother who is just forcing her responsibilities on Arjun. She should be the one slapping some sense into her daughter...maybe even asking her to abort the child and divorce Arjun so everyone can live in peace. Maybe, act like a mother for once.
Ovi: I can't even describe her properly...ugh...She needs to be in a rehab at the moment. I don't even know if I can call her state a psychological disorder because I feel that she was just born annoying and selfish.
Purvi: As much as I'd like to say that she is caring and sensitive I want to say that she is selfish and dumb when it comes to Arjun and her decisions. I find her to be BLIND! Just blind! She sees her mother and family but she never sees Arjun. She thinks it's easy to move on, and look she has -- happily married with Onir-- but she never bothers to think if Arjun has truly moved on. Her crocodile tears annoy me, she literally blackmails the person who loves her the most and asks him to sacrifice. Not once, but over and over again! Isn't it selfish? Like fine, if you think that Arjun being with you is a problem for Archana, then leave him! Don't ask him to go marry OVI!Ugh
For all those going on and on about Arjun listening to her and etc etc. I'd just like to say he was doing it for the person he loved the most. He thought that it would make her happy. She was his only and first priority but Purvi's first priority wasn't Arjun. It will never be just him. And for everyone saying that he got both pregnant then you should know that its a EK serial where anything is possible, so most likely we WILL have twist and flashback on that coming soon.
As of now, I feel very bad for him. He was a strong, smart and an influential man. Now, his self image and personality is pitiful.
Of course Arjun's condition is his own fault, just as everyone's is their own. Why does he keep making promises he cannot keep? He married ovi knowing whAt she is like. He wanted a second chance at their marriage why? He made her pregnant , why? There were many places wher he could have taken a stand, he didn't.
He went and asked archana for help.She told him to work on his relationship with Ovi. And she clearly told him that if she speaks to ovi, she will listen to her only for a short time.is that not true.
Has she supported Ovi in her tantrums? How is she a hypocrite here? It is Arjun who promo used to work on their marriage and is obviously not successful.
I'm surprised that people expect archana to get ovi's child aborted, get her divorce from Arjun and hand over Arjun to purvi. Really? Did anyone force these three to take these decisions, make a mess of their lives and then hold archana responsible!
If Arjun had guts, he would never have gone to ovi even if purvi asks him to. Especially after his relAtions with purvi. He would not have continued his marriage with ovi and landed in a giver mess which hecannot handle. Is this not hypocrisy?
If the cvs are to be blamed for Arjun's character, it is they who have to be blamed for ovi, archana purvi and others characters.
So why only poor Arjun?