Arjun: Always gives - Never gets

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Pancham101

@Pancham101

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Posted: 12 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: ashfaque2012

WHAT IS Ghatiya Parvris???

Bad upbringing

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rati_arvifan

@rati_arvifan

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Posted: 12 years ago

#52

Great Post... Agree with u guys...

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Orchid

@_OrChiD_

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Posted: 12 years ago

#53

arjun suffering , whose fault it is ? purvi or arjun ? arjun is so good as he thinks aboout purvi , really he think about purvi then how can he made pregnant ovi ? and even after 15 days , he dont know where his love , what she doing ? is she alive ? is she okay ? but he dint think it when he made pregnant ovi , he just thought purvis order , ummm purvis another order ''' you dont need to hear my word , what you want you can do it '''' but our good arjun forgot it when she made pregnant ovi ,, oh oh oh another things what he did with purvi before marriage may be our good lover boy arjun forgot that and remembered purvis word , arjun you will not find me , you will give right to ovi , hmmm may be businessman arjun now brainless arjun ... arjun is happy with her so called wife and his child then when purvi happy with her husband then its not good , arjun want to work with this marriage and not want to divorce ovi then purvi should wait for arjun , for what ? brother - in - law , what a logic !!!!!!!! arjun with ovi , that is right , logic is psycho ovi and purvis baby got fathers love and purvi got a great human being , it is wrong , logic is arjun lead a misery life for purvi , arjun was a baby !! arjun with his wife and purvi will lead a miseary life for arjun , should not get married with anyone , she should a single mother so that everyone can humiliate her , what love logic in life !!!!!!!! arjun suffer for purvi , purvi was in arjuns home for commanding him that you should do it . poor purvi no one cant tolerate her happiness . bad luck ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

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Orchid

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Posted: 12 years ago

#54

our lovely dovley lover boy arjun was forgot that he already slept with 1 sister when he remembered purvis order , what a love for purvi !!!!!!!! that he also forgot this .

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GManda72

@GManda72

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Posted: 12 years ago

#55

What has Arjun given? Two babies to two women.

I dont see him as a victim at all.

He is seeing the consequence of his own actions. Just as all others in the show.

He could have refused Purvi's diktat about marrying Ovi. He didnt.

He could have let Ovi go after declaring publicly that he love Purvi after his marriage. He didnt.

he talked about being bothered about Ovi's family's izzat, which he HAD forgotten when he did not tell Ovi and Purvi about the other.

He himself told Ovi to give their marriage another chance. he should have let go.Why did he make her pregnant.

His act of getting married to Ovi after having relations with Purvi , whatever Purvi might have said to him, disgusts me.

After taking their relationship to that level both Arjun and Purvi had no right to do what they did. Whatever "nobility" was attached to their actions, simply goes.

Ovi is a brat and self-centered and she is reacting exactly in a way expected.

blaming Archana and "ghatiya Parvarish" will not absolve Arjun of his deeds. I see his 'parvarish' as no better.

And it is strange how all bad acts of children are directly blamed on their parents while good ones are their own. I for one cannot quantify the extent and give value to the "parvarish" factor in any act of any child. After all every child has a family before and after him /her!

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WanderingBeauty

@WanderingBeauty

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#56

Great post Shailee...And a much needed one!!

Brilliant analysis, I must say! The person I pity the most in the whole scenario is Arjun! If I hadn't been as much of an AshVik fan as I am now, I would have wished for Arjun to move on and get a girl for himself who will love him truly and dearly...But *sigh*, Am too much in love wish them to wish for an ArVi separation! Arjun has done just one mistake till date, giving into Purvi's wish for the sake of his love, that's it! After that he has tried to make it up to Ovi and has done all he could do to fit the shoes of a 'Perfect Husband!'

I don't even know what to say about Purvi! She must have told about the child to Arjun because he has a right to know! After all he is the father and he has done nothing to deserve such a punishment! I was even more shocked to find that she hasn't even once given a thought to Arjun regarding the child. She was thinking about her aai when the baby kicked, I seriously don't know what to say to that!! Hope her heart finds its correct destination soon!!

Ovi is turning into a tantrum queen day by day and the girl is in a serious need of a psychologist! Archana was right about one thing yesterday, she does all this to get some attention! She likes living in Purvi's shadow and till she gets over her petty little nagging doubts, there is no hope for her!

Archana, no comments except she has failed terribly as a parent!

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ameilia

@ameilia

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Posted: 12 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

Apparently, Ovi-Style selfless love that we are constantly told about :)

That is what irritates me the most.They all are about Ovi.Ovi.Ovi.What knid of mother hears her pregnant daughter drinks wine but instead lectures the her son in law about being a husband and not a father?

Both Archana and Manav are scared of Ovi as if she will grow fangs and bite all of them.

Drinking alcohol to hurt the child cause you are not getting attention is not call love its called insanity but the parents once again fail to do their job.Both of them loves to lecture others about parvarish,sanskars,goodwill,decency etc but when it comes to their own family they fail miserably.When you bring in Ovi in any equation everything she does is for Arjun's love and her lovely parents will always still mum to her and attack Arjun saying he should have done this and that.

If Ovi baby dies we are going to hear its all Arjun's fault,he drove her to this,he didnt take care of her.Blame game will be on Arjun this time and somewhere down the line Purvi's name will be brought in.

Edited by ameilia - 12 years ago

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peachesnplums

@peachesnplums

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Posted: 12 years ago

#58

@Ash: two way street.

Thanks for pointing it out here - I say we get a neon sigboard in front of Ovi

Everyone seems to remind Arjun what to do, they all forget about Ovi except an occasional and mild rebuttal with Ovi beta

@Amy: why is everyone in D family just a mute spectator in face of Ovi's tantrums? Beyond me!

Prisoner of love - suitable description

@Jyo: he did all this and stuck to what he did

The harder he tries, it looks like she is harder to please.

And this from a wife, who begged, pleaded, dealed, connived to get HIM at all costs !!!

Super like the above lines. Someone needs to acknowledge Arjun has done a lot since the child came along with no help from Ovi.

@Jonelle: I feel all the pain and frustration, trust me

@Sujata: What Arjun wants, Arjun should get...

comeuppance time for others now...Inteha ho gayi...as you said earlier, the boy has been hanged, drawn and quartered

@Avni: Just hope Arjun receives all th love he missed out on from his children. I want to see his children bond with him.

I would like to see this too, how much more unfair can life get for poor guy.

As for those who fear Ovi will be butchered next, it's a cycle by PR CVs...you can see for yourself what they've done to ArVi. Also about who got whom pregnant, the situation looks like this (may sound awful, but this is what it is, till flashbacks and more come along)

1. Purvi's pregnancy

2. Ovi's pregnancy

A. IVF

B. Sex

i) Arjun

ii) Onir

iii) Third Person

1/2, A/B and i/ii/iii are leading to various permutations and combinations. CVs can show anything. I know where I stand, we can all decide for ourselves without ugly insinuations I think. Let's wait and watch to see whose prediction is right. I'd rather discuss the current behavioral issues right now.

Edited by peachesnplums - 12 years ago

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ptecvish

@ptecvish

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Posted: 12 years ago

#59

Wonder how Archana's parenting comes in where all the decisions are made by three apparently sane adults! as though the poor dears are devoid of any intelligence.

After having relations with Purvi , he gave her up so easily and got married to Ovi because Purvi desires. Waah. Could he not say no to either of the wishes?And this is love!

he himself promises to Ovi that they should give their marriage a second chance, knowing very well what Ovi is like. He gets her pregnant too.He could have got out of his unhappy marriage if this is how he is going to talk to her and she to him.. Why bringin a kid and more complications.

Arjun is a failed lover and loser husband. no sympathy for his condition.

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Lady_Impala

@Lady_Impala

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#60

Good post. But the only reason why Arjun is made to give and get anything in return is because woh khud aisa karna chahta hai. Seriously arjun, it is about time you grow a pair and start living your own life the way you want to. Not how Purvi or Ovi wants you to.

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