Arjun: Always gives - Never gets

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am getting sick of all the ladies in PR. Every one has some expectation from Arjun.

Archana: You want Arjun to understand Ovi. Are you kidding me. Its been 6 bloody months and she's still the same selfish, annoying self centered girl but still you want Arjun to understand Ovi's feelings. Didn't you see how frustrated he was. Arjun is loosing his patience day by day and one day he will blow up the same way he had during your marriage anniversary 6 months back. You, yourself tried making your daughter understand but as you saw today, she is as heartless as one can be. Its because of the constant pampering she has been receiving from her family that she is behaving in such a way. Someone should have been firm with her earlier but no one dared reprimand their dear princess and now Arjun is paying the price.

Ovi: You are crossing the limit with every single day. Today when you asked Arjun to get your medicine, I felt like dragging you off that bed with my bare hands. How can you expect love from Arjun with this behavior. Your as delusional as ever. You think money can buy every thing and every person on earth. Sorry Manav and Archana, you may be great role models for the society but your pathetic parents who couldn't even give your child a proper upbringing. You keep telling people that you both are simple people who would rather live in a small chawl than a big mansion but the same humble attitude is missing from your own child. Ovi if you didn't want this child then you should have just aborted it, instead of cribbing that you are having this child for Arjun. He never asked this from you, it was your decision, so stick to it. Stop behaving like a child, its time you took responsibility for your actions.

Purvi: Today Im so mad at you for depriving Arjun of his right. The moments you and Onir shared was Arjun's and it should have been him in Onir's place. You stole that from him and made him go through with a sham of a marriage. I hope to see you cry and sufer more in PR because only that will make me feel better for Arjun. When your child started kicking you remembered your mother, the mother for whom you sacrificed Arjun and made him go through hell but you didn't detect the sadness and frustration in Arjun's voice. The baby kicked because it heard its father and not your Aai. Think of some one else besides your Aai. You were sharing lovely moments with your so called husband, discussing about the child whose father is not Onir but Arjun. You have no right to hide this fact from him. Today, Purvi you were Selfish.

Arjun: I just want to hug you and take you away from all these woman who always expect something from you but never think of what you want. Oh how I wish Aashna was here. She would have put both the woman straight for messing with your life. You deserve better, a partner better than Purvi. You deserve so much more.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shailee excellent Post 👏👏
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Shailee - PERFECT and Lovely post 👏 👏 👏

Im soo happy someone wrote for Arjun today. And I will too. For Arjun is being battered left right and center.

I agree to what happened in the past is Arjun's doing. But, Arjun has rectified his mistakes... he came out standing, swinging, fighting for his love. And end up with nothing. My heart continuously goes out for him.

Archana yes, is saying all the right things for her daughter... but she is not thinking/saying of all the right things for the marriage (both persons). If she was, then should not be pushing Arjun and throwing the blame at his feet. It always takes two to tango and it takes two to work in a marriage. OVI needs to give before she can get. She never does... she only expects Arjun to give. Last time I checked, a successful marriage is when love, trust and goodwill exist and are reciprocated - a two way street.

There is a saying "No one tortures you except your own nature. Make your nature sweet and loveable; then win the love of all" Apparently Ovi has never heard of this. Her selfishness knows no bounds. For her to be loved, she needs to be loveable, but she seems unable to generate that quality. Blame it on the parents for spoiling her - sure. Blame it on Manav for never standing strong against all of her whims and fancies - sure. Blame it on Arjun for not loving her - sure. BUT WHEN ARE WE GONNA BLAME IT ON OVI? She is the one now married and should be taking responsibility of herself and her family. How can she expect to get when she never gives. Yet - that is exactly what is expected from Arjun - to always give, compromise, and forsake.

Purvi Purvi Purvi... sigh! I love u Purvi... I do... but Im disappointed right now. We all know that secrets are NEVER secrets for long. When the truth comes out what will Arjun feel? He missed soo many moments that should have been his. He missed so many opportunities for happiness. Why? I dont know why? The reasons seem so frivolous right now. If Arjun is the father of that baby, he DESERVES to know! He is entitled to know. If you really loved him - you would ensure him and your child knows. Think of the future... think of health risks and possibilities, think if anything is to happen to you and your child has no one? Purvi... Arjun needs to know... to be given his rights!

Arjun has indeed become the terminally ill giver !!! Will he ever be given anything in return? !

Edited by Ashlaika - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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superb post shailee...👏 loved it..
its really sad that people do expect more and more from people who give but never see what they want...😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shailee superb post 👏 👏 👏.This one was indeed needed here on IF.Phenomenal analysis on the characters.
U have echoed my sentiments so clearly but i will still share my thoughts on this.
Ovi has been pampered so much that she is spoiled more than a rotten banana.No respect for herself and not to mention others.Ovi doesnt respect her marriage and doesnt value any of the relationships she has in her life.I blame her upbringing and its all about the excessive pampering.
Ovi can do no harm when it comes to her family.Manav had the guts to slap a 20+ year old man but couldnt even slap his princess.All i have been hearing is 'Ovi Beta,Ovi Beta.'I am sick of everyone always painting her as some innocent victim who is so helpless that no can can dare to reprimand her as another suicide attempt will be in the making.Seriously the girl needs professional help not Arjun.Straight up simple fact.
Archana the Mahaan queen who is famous for her thappads couldnt lay a solid one of her Beti's face.Why?Is Ovi that scary and fragile that she cant take some shaking up?Archana loves to talk abt her parvarish and her sanskars etc etc but when it comes to instilling them in her Beti Ovi she fails miserably.As a mother and at a time where Ovi is who is expecting a child and is behaving like one she doesnt need just support.Ovi needs a firm,assertive and more stubborn person to handle her.
Tit for tat.Archana as Ovi's mom should lay down the rules and be strict instead of giving in to Ovi's tantrums and tears that are like acid rain(melts all their hearts).One need to be practical and use their brain instead if their heart.They all have a soft corner for Ovi that is why she gets away with anything and everthing.
Purvi has angered me today.First Mahan Purvi took away Arjun from his love and ignored him like he never existed.To make matters worst now she is pregnant for him and is keeping it a secret from him.Why??i guess because Purvi doesnt want to create problems for Ovi but what about Arjun?He is not some criminal but if falling in love with Purvi is a crime then i would say he is a prisoner of love.First he is deprived of love,affection and now he is being deprived of one of the greatest joy of the world i.e. becoming a father.Purvi your baby didnt kicked because of your Aai he kicked because he is yearning his father's love and attention.Purvi you think what you are doing is right giving Arjun's rights to another man then your are sadly mistaken.One can divert the inevitable for a while but they cant prevent it.Arjun will know the truth and u cant stop it.I will always love you Purvi but u too need a reality check.
Arjun my heart and tears are only for you.In all of this you are the one to suffer the most.Keeping in all that anger,frustration and pain is never good.The day you really explode is the day they all wished they hadnt messed with you.U deserve to be happy,loved and taken care of for the rest of your life.My tears are only for you Arjun ,only for you.
Edited by ameilia - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Lovely Post, Shailee... Thanks for doing this..

Let me say this upfront before I get barraged with this.. Yes, Nobody made Arjun take the last step to marry Ovi, he could have said no. Yes, he could have not stayed with Ovi, but he did..Yes, he could hav applied for divorce, yet he stayed..and the list goes on and on..

But, he did all this and stuck to what he did. He might have done this for Purvi and his blind love for that girl, but once he did it, he has been trying hard to cope up with situation and doing the best he can. Yes, he took time to get used to all this, but who in his position will not? Did he promise Ovi a lifetime of love in this deal? NO, Absolutely not ! Even if it was at Purvi's behest, he has been trying hard to live a normal life with her. What has he got from all this? A child (???)... An Alchoholic wife, who rants, raves and shrieks at every opportunity she gets? A lifetime of misery, unhappiness !

Among the two women in his life, one has caused havoc with his life and left him and the other one is draining the life out of him... Archana does not even count for me in this regard. She is the last person who should be advising him around..
PURVI: The person I blame the most for the situation he is in is Purvi. Arjun is basically an honest, good and a nice man. He has not had much love in his life, and when he fell in love, he thought Purvi was IT, changed his entire world for her, he put his heart, mind and soul in her hands and what did he get from her in return? This life of misery, unhappiness and despair that she has subjected him to? All she thought of was what she wanted for her mother and whatever. So, what if she sacrificed her love for him?. She still was left with the happiness that she made her mother happy. What did he get from her? Absolutely nothing !! She knew his weakness was his love for her and exploited it to the fullest. Used it for her own purpose every time. Recently, she asked him to have a married life with Ovi, for what? So that everyone does not blame her anymore for Ovi's psychotic condition... What kind of a love is this? That you dont give a thought for his happiness, joy or even his life even for a second? He gave up his happiness, and has done everything she said, and what did she do..She has not even spared a thought to let him know that she is having his child..She is even prepared to deprive his child of his/her own father...He is the father of the child, and he does not even know it !!! She does not spare a thought to him when the baby kicked? She shares it with another guy?? Does he deserve this from Purvi???
OVI: This is one female who will not live happily nor will let him live happily. She has doomed him to misery for the rest of his life if he is stuck with her that long. For all her claims of endless love for Arjun, none of her actions reflect that. Her main focus is herself and her wants. She is like this petulant child, who throw their tantrums and do not rest until they get what they wanted. But, after getting the toy, there is absolutely no value to it and treat it like junk. That is exactly, what Ovi does iwth Arjun now. She knew what she was getting into, and that was a loveless marriage, he told her so and she was ok with that. If she denies not knowing it, she is a fool for it. She even ventures to buy him from Purvi first, if that is not callous, what is? Is that the value she has for him?All she cared about was getting her happiness, irrespective of the damage she would do to his life. Well, she got him now.So, what has she done for him? Instead of trying to make the best of the situation and get the marriage working, by giving him the help he asked for, she turns into this vindictive shrew who taunts him at every turn, throws Purvi's name at him, making him think about her all the time. Does she not realize this action alone, will cause him to despair more of his lost love? Who am I expecting brains from? This crazed, obsessed, spoilt brat of a wife? For all the love she claims, she does not care a pin for his child ! what kind of love is that? Arjun loves his unborn child and is turning the world around to save the baby, and what is she doing? She scorns at his efforts and taunts him for it? Could she not have used the baby, as her dear Aaji suggested, to mend fences? She is pushing him further and further away...The harder he tries, it looks like she is harder to please.
Archana: She mutely listens to her daughter admitting drinking 'occasional' glasses of wine, knows of her wrong doings, but does not do anything about it. She is as bad as Manav. Encourage the brat and know tows to her doings. But, she has the gall today to lecture Arjun on how to take care of her darling daughter and give sermons on how to handle her !! Apne ghar ko sudharo first !! Just because he respects her and listens to her, she is lecturing him. I dare her to say the same to Ovi, and then will applaud her motherliness. If she was the right parent, she should correct her first and get her on the right track... Such useless parents they are,both Manav and Archana.. So, Archanaji, lay off our boy !!!
If it was left up to me, as I said before somewhere, I would drag the boy away from this crazy world of the Deshmukh gals and send him away to Siberia ! Atleast there, the crazy chic with all her nakhras will not go, and the other one wont bother in fear of the crazy chic's happiness.. Atleast, that way he finds some happiness !!
It does NOT look like anyone is going to give him anything but misery !! That is the saddest part of his life after giving all of himself to one and all ...and he does NOT deserve this !!
Edited by jdronamraju - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks for opening this thread Shailee. That was a great write-up 👏

I never thought my anger would involve violence for a woman on a daily soap...but there's a limit! Today, when Ovi egged on Arjun: Kya karoge (what will you do?) and he got up and left in frustration...I wanted to thwack her. She will drive Arjun crazy (how is he sane till now!) and harm her kid. Here are my two cents -

Ovi: Young lady, you got into the marriage knowing full well Arjun loved another. He didn't know about the barter at the wedding night, but you did. You decided to use the child as a bait (even if ill advised by Aaji) to get close to Arjun. So how about undertaking some pains and patience to do the same? You are not doing yourself any favours by hurting an unborn child and in the process, your Arjun.

Archana: First of all, you're many months late in explaining anything to Ovi. Also, your daughter's spoilt brat behaviour seems incorrigible. You can see for yourself how hard Arjun has tried since this baby came along, but Ovi is not ready to see his efforts. If she will consistently bicker over everything from the medicine to some magazine article with Arjun, she needs to end this marriage. And please don't ruin the poor unborn baby's future with reassurances like everything will be fine. It will not be the case. I think you can see for yourself who has been more at fault - it starts with you and Manav in my opinion.

Purvi: You have had my sympathies earlier. For having to give up so much and hurting yourself along the way - your aai, your family, your love. However, you decided to let go of Arjun when you gave him a bolt from the blue at the wedding. Then you rebuffed him instead of showing some civility post that marriage fiasco. And now you decide to keep his child (I'm going with this theory, let's not nitpick) but not tell him. When your baby kicked, you missed your aai! What about the baby's biological father? Kindly spare a thought for him!

Arjun: Commiserations and a big hug is all I can say/do. I see you are trying your best with little help from any of the parties, especially since the baby came along. You grew up without your mother, had a busy father, the love of your life traded you, your wife will drive anyone up the wall with her tantrums and you're all alone. I hope that news about yours and Purvi's baby brings you some relief and joy. You deserve it.

Edited by peachesnplums - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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kudos shailee.. excellent post dear👏👏👏. u r our ⭐️
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shaile darling excellent post 👏 ⭐️ 👍🏼
What do i say about these 🤡 women in Pavitra Rishta. All of them need's to be dumped in a barrel and then roll them down a hill seriously.What was Archana ranting and preaching to Arjun for like women go teach your daughter some manners and respect before lecturing your damad. Cant this Holy woman see the frustration in Arjun??? lord have mercy😡 is she blinded by Ovi Obsession that she cant see the pain Ovi is causing others??? Today i feel like dragging Ovi off that bed and give her a good waking no joke she was literally making my blood boil. Her unborn child is feeling the heat cause she know's if she hurt the child it will hurt Arjun 😲where did this woman resurrect from is she actually human being??? She is complaining about pain cause pain is not a nice feeling right that child she's trying to hurt daily in her own womb is he not feeling pain too his own mother hate's him so much😲 God i hope he hate's her when he grew up. Ovi does not deserve anything in her life no family no love no money no husband and definitely no kids She needs a good couple of tight slaps and a good mental asylum.

As for Purvi she is grating on my nerves daily she need's to be taught a good lesson for ruining Arjun's life right now i have no sympathy for her let her suffer and realized the wrong things she has done. I hope she is not lying to Onir neither cause the little softness i have left for her will definitely turn hard. She is happy and enjoying even after hearing a frustrated Arjuns voice. She has no remorse for the things she done to Arjun all she thinks about is aai aai aai and even after doing everything for gracious aai people still thinks you didn't do enough foolish girl. Today i feel like smacking her as well. Poor Arjun has to suffer all his life with the most ridiculous disgusting selfish irritating mad heartless wife on planet earth can things get worsted for him??? And the lovely sweet Purvi he always loved and think about is very happily married and enjoying life with her husband 😡 Purvi i hope you pay for all the pain you caused Arjun.

Poor Arjun we all wanted to hug you today 😭 only if.
Edited by jonelle - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It is because he could not stand up for what he wanted - so now he just has to do what they all want.
The sisters were related so they could not think straight, but he could and he should have stood up for what he wanted.
I do not feel sorry for him at all.

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