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I skimmed through this thread now ...i had totally forgotten about it .
Would like to say something here . It maybe my last post on this topic as frankly the topic of Arjun Purvi and Ovi bores me . They can get divorced , married have children i honestly don't care . They can even have triple divorces like ARMAN and yet claim of love for seven births ...i honestly am indifferent to them ...i neither like them nor hate them .
I watched this show for Archana Manav's story and all the rest that follows is a sequel for me .
I read comments of how Ovi should walk away from this marraige . Why , are Arjun's legs broken . Is he waiting for Purvi to give him some divine sign . Ovi wants him , she won't walk away ...but he doesn't want her so who should be filing for divorce ...him or her . Whats this rubbish of staying in a loveless marraige and being loyal to his ex . Do honestly 21st cty people fall for this nonsense . No . in the 21st cty people take divorces .
Why is Arjun not taking then . Let us not talk about God , morality etc let us talk only of the 21st century . Times have changed is it . Its all about love now to hell with marraiges is it . Well lets talk the language of 21st century then . There is such a thing as divorce and it is taken by the one not wanting the marraige . There are spouses who cling on and there are spouses who walk out realising they made a mistake . If the clinging spouse is Ovi why Arjun is not walking out . Anyone stopping him ?
I never admire clinging to a man personally and have mentioned it many times as i was asked this question that no man is worth it . In this serial , Arjun is definetely not worth it . Man who two times you within some days of going to a foreign country can do it later too so these efforts , these plottings are not worth it . Learn to get over him .
But she wants him . If Purvi thinks he is a banana who can be traded Ovi acts as if he was a diamond . Arjun is neither a banana nor a diamond . He is a very common 21st century guy who needs to rectify his mistake with a divorce that he is just not filing .
Why ?
Anyways he is not gonna consummate , have children . So why not divorce ? Still children are not there . Easier to divorce without custody battles ...children make divorces so complicated .
I am sure Arjun doesn't care about the alimony or the divorce settlement . He will be ultimately paying his wife off with his father's wealth ...that is extremely unfair to DK as honestly he doesn't deserve halving his hard earned wealth for the whimsical last minute stupid decisions of his son but hey thats 21st century language for you ...the wife walks away with half of what belongs to the husband especially if he is the one asking for a divorce .
The 21st century alas still believes in the institution called marraige though it has made allowances for divorces unlike the old ages and these divorces come with a price . With live in relationships there is no such problem . As most say that Ovi doesn't love him there is very little chance that the divorce will be with mutual consent .
Why did I make a case out for Ovi then ? Simple . I liked it that she bent to touch Archana's feet after getting her way as thats exactly what we have been subjected to in this serial since day one . Why Archana even touched Manav's feet outside the court on the day of the false court case ...a case that would have destroyed him if the verdict had not been hung . She did a sanctimonious little aarti of her souten Shravni but ultimately told her that she wanted Manav back [ this after making her wait for 2 years .]
Ovi touched her feet after snatching Arjun away from her beloved Purvi . For me , that was the most classic moment of the serial as Archana got a taste of her own medicene . We have beeen subjected to this hypocisy for 3 years now and its time she understands what it feels like to have the rug pulled off your feet while doing a namaskar . This namaskar brought a chamatkar too . Since she has pulled off many such chamatkars it was refreshing . She and Sulochana could have gone and got Purvi married off quietly but no they chose to rub and rub in the Deshmukhs face under the pretext of some bullpucky ' farz ' . Well , as a viewer i felt they deserved this tough fight .
Same way i expect Soham to give some hometruths to Archana who is currently bubbling with Maa ki mamta and if he does it will be another classic moment for me . But i won't talk about it as this thread has another topic .
If Ovi and Punni are scheming cunning girls who need to fall flat on their faces i hope Purvi falls flat on her self righteous , sanctimonious face too as this conception of love where u dump ur fiancee at the altar , join his rival company and make him lose a tender , expect him to stay put in a loveless marraige for life and refuse rides with him when company is present but accept rides when ur alone after hemming and hawing ...is frankly beyond my understanding .
Also i don't understand why in the 21st century she boasts of satyayuga sanskaars .
Also i don't understand why it is explained to us this is the 21st century as if we don't live in it or are terribly aged and out of touch or something . It is one hell of an assumption and my request is please if such assumptions are made don't make them as nothing is known of our age , sex ,status , contry , occupation etc .
I also read a comment about Ramayana , Mahabharata . Valmiki and us carrying the sanskrit torch . This thread does not even mention these epics so i assume some other discussions unrlated to the topic here are being quoted here . Then i thought back . Varsha , Kalapi , shymala and myself had some interesting discussions on these topics recently . Neither were we carrying the Sanskrit torch nor were we boasting of sanskrit knowledge ...we enjoyed a spontaneous discussion thats all .There was absolutely no reason to taunt us so . It spoils the flavour of the discussion in my opinion .
My comments on jealousy were i believe in general . Whether Purvi was jealous first and purposefully not jealous now and whether this is a big tyaag holds no interest for me as i beleve she insults Arjun far too much and i don't agree a man should be treated so shabbily . So do some others . And i am entitled to this opinion . I will never say Purvi is the best thing to happen to Arjun ...my opinion always will be that even if he divorces Ovi he should never go back to this girl .
Why did i comment then on the Ovi Arjun Puri triangle ? I must be free then with nothing to do so thought of airing my opinions for timepass . Besides it was sherma's topic and i consider her as pretty neutral .
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