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Posted: 13 years ago
#81
yes we are seeing more of the flashbacks n dream from purvi's side,she is deffo going throught the realisation process... i think cv's wants us to show that arvi will never get together..
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Posted: 13 years ago
#82
Fantastic Kools, kalapi, dabs, Sherma.👏


I am surprised as well as shocked after reading few posts, referring 21st century to justify their points...interesting i must say

From when did being in 21st century mean treat our loved ones like commodity, buy & sell them in the name of love & sacrifice, completely turn insensitive towards others emotions has become the norms of 21st century.

Arjun played with Ovi & Purvi's emotions at his own convenience, when he was busy two timing them. Both the girls retuned back the favor by doing the same thing to him. Arjun dumped Ovi mercilessly and Purvi did the same to him. Arjun & Purvi did not care for Ovi's love for Arjun, so Ovi also didn't care for their love. Ovi married Arjun in spite of knowing that he did not love her, so she is facing the tune. As Dabs said, karma is the big B, the trio is paying for their own karma.

What I don't understand is when Ovi is constantly been called as selfish, spoiled brat etc. etc, how come Arjun & Purvi are sanctified as sacrificing & hopeless lovers.

No offense to anyone, to me Arjun is a big time cheater, nothing he did so far can be categorized as done for the sake of love.

He committed to Ovi, few weeks down, he fell for Purvi, he could have told Ovi that he moved on, he didn't, and he did not tell the truth to Purvi either, oh I forgot, Ovi is his childhood friend too. He gets engaged to Ovi in spite of being in love with Purvi, few days later, he dumps Ovi to return to Purvi, only to marry Ovi, because Purvi asked him to do so. So, this is 21st century love. Is it?...I felt the whole thing being so ridiculous, while just listing it down, I simply don't get how the Cv's had the nerve to show all this in the name of love & sacrifice.

Back to the topic, does Purvi love Arjun?, No, Simply Not. Had she been in love with him, she would not have asked him to prove his love, when she knew very well, he did. She just took advantage of his love. She knew, he would do anything for her, she used that to get what she wanted, which no true lover would do. It was simply cruel of her to ask him to go through a loveless marriage. Her love came with conditions, he met all her conditions, but she only wanted more, ultimately, she made his love for her into his greatest pain & weakness. Is this love of 21st century. My love to my loved ones should become their strength & happiness, not pain & weakness. If it turns into pain & weakness, then what is it worth for.

Coming to Ramayana & Mahabharata, well, my dear forum friends, would appreciate if u give a reading to both the epic before u resign that both belong to the oldies or the previous century and nothing to do with 21st century. Thy r not just epics but way of life, thy tell that be it God or human, all r bound by their own karma, one can not bend karma to their convenience, ultimately, one gets only what he/she deserves and it's in one's own hands to make them deserving.

Dasharath, the noble king, gets the pain of loosing his son because, he gave it to to the parents of shravan kumar. Barath returns back the favor to his mother kaikeyi, for what she did to dasharath & Ram. Ram had to choose between his wife & his duties, he chose the later, so his wife, Sita chose not to return, when he wanted her to. Each and every character in the epic, be it human or god in human form, goes through this cycle of karma. So what is told in the epics is no only applicable to Tretha Yug & Dwapara Yug, but is also very much applicable to Kal Yug.

Did not intend to give any discourse here, just wanted to tell that don't refer the epics for wrong reasons. .



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Posted: 13 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: jonelle

Since when jealousy became love??? Why some people talk about love when they them selves don't know what love is 🤢 kill me.Can someone tell me if Ovi love anyone other than herself??? And please don't tell me Arjun cause you will be lying to yourself.


Back to Purvi i will say she dose love Arjun and she always will i am not saying this because i like her i am saying this because i know what love is and its sure not jealousy.

Just because she was defending her brother dose not mean she don't love Arjun just because she was not feeling jealous dose not mean she don't love Arjun she is trying her utmost best to stay away from Arjun cause she knows that he is married to her sister.

And as for Ovi if she was so in love with Arjun why cant she see him happy she knows that Arjun is unhappy in this marriage cause he is in love with Purvi yet this obsessive little B___ is not letting him go. This girl don't even know what is family and what hey mean to you let alone love.People who thinks Ovi loves Arjun and Purvi don't also believes in obsession, manipulation, suside, blackmail, jealousy and all the other negative things that comes under these.

Please note that i did not mean to offend any one with this post its just my POV just as everyone is entitle to their POV i am also entitle to mine.

Violation of Rule 7 Do not try to bring in the members in your post, as u said, they r entitled for their opinion, u r entitled to yours. No need to drag the members by using sarcasm to such an extent
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Posted: 13 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: archverma10

JHANVi👏...a big AMEN to that. Just amazes me how we can bash Purvi and justify Ovi in the same breath.


I'm also mighty sick and tired of rehashing this farce of an engagement. Ovi was never Arjun's and to hell with the previous commitment. It's the 21st century and in today's modern world, face it folks, not everyone always ends up actually marrying the first person you date or have a relationship with. Now u can quote the Ramayana, Mahabarata, Maharishi Valmiki all you want to...and carry the "Sanskrit torch"...but reality is reality. It simply is not like that in today's generation. Do we wish it was? Sure we do. But it's not and we have to pipe down and face it. India also...along with the rest of the world. Abhi, Aaj, zamana badal Gaya. It is was it is. Like it or not. Arjun agreed to marry Ovi despite not loving her. He did not anticipate falling in love with anyone. However he fell in love with Purvi and it changed him, his views, and his life forever. It happens. Purvi is his soul and his life. She always will be. That is not going to change- ever.

As for Ovi...You reap what u sow. It's as simple as that. As far as playing the "wronged wife?" well boo-hoo-hoo...cry me a river. You wanted a man who clearly loves someone else. You emotionally blackmailed the love of his life into giving him up and now that you got what you wanted you want to own his soul too??? Well payback stinks doesn't it?? You can take away a persons food, clothes, possessions, freedom---even their life. But the things you cannot take away: their mind, heart, and soul. That belongs to them hands down.

They say..."be careful what you wish for, for you may get it"... So it is in this case. Ovi had a choice. Victim or no, wronged or no is irrelevant. The fact is the fact. He fell in love with someone else and does not love her. Either mourn, grieve, and walk away with dignity and grace...move on...---or make the devil's deal and reap the consequences. She chose the latter. As humans we have the ability to choose. She chose to marry a man who is in love with someone else...knowing what she was risking. Nw she is seeing the proof...and reaping the consequences of a choice she herself made. Arjun and Purvi are both paying for their stupid mistake. It's about time you all face the fact that Ovi should too and quit this "she is his wife trying to make her marriage work BS". If she really wanted to do that she would not be suspecting and trying to destroy Purvi. That is gong to backfire in her face big time.


Violation of Rule 7 No need to get so sarcastic while posting, its clear opinions which r getting expressed
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Posted: 13 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: vgiri

Perfecto.. Arch..
You have told us once and we are well aware of how you feel. There is no need to attack every ARVI thread out there. We are not deaf. We heard you the first time.


Kalapi, Varsha & Kool..Looks like our ARVI is being hammered here..We want to enjoy the forum, allow us to have our say..Dont criticize every word we utter.. I dont think we do that to you.. I love KC's Daily WU.. but I have stopped commenting that thread..it's like territorial dispute here..I used to start and end the day with IF discussion..I have lost that interest now..
We may never support Ovi.. plz accept that and move on..I started watching PR from ARVI time, so we love that couple just like you all love ARMAN..YES Purvi does Love Arjun. But Arjun or Purvi respect each others role in the family and trying their level best to accept the situation..but We want our Arjun and Purvi back together..what to do..Dont know who is delusional here..😃
Am I going to be reported and get some violation rule..go for it.. very biased anyway..😡


Yes you are violating Rule no. 3, There is absolutely no need to drag members here in your posts, they are saying their opinions, you are saying own, no need to bring any member here per say.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: archverma10

Wow...kalapi, and gang...didn't realize you all were so highly sensitive. Oh but of course...,ur bashing of Americans and some of the rather distasteful sarcastic comments and attacks u just made weren't at all a personal attack either. You all are just perfect after all. The idea of agreeing to disagree does not seem to appeal to you all I see. Well so be it then.


Also the term "21st century" seems to have hit a rather sensitive cord. That was actually not personal. As I said, whether we like it or not, times have changed. It's no longer as it used to be. I've heard numerous arguments that because of that ridiculous surprise engagement sprang upon Arjun by Ovi ma'am Arjun was supposed to be hers from then, and was labelled a two timer and cheat for the crime of falling in love. This was to clarify...to be honest Kools...I find some of your commentary actually quite hilarious and spot on (not the parts bashing "Prince Arjun" and "Sanskari Purvi" of course..,absolutely and very much am not at all on board with that part)...but the rest of the satire is actually really funny.

Now that being said, i definitely disagree with the opinion of Sherma being neutral (if i am at all allowed to have my own that is according to you all) and you all being wronged victims (who still seem to get a weird pleasure out of blasting the kids on this forum, who are just ARVI fans expressing their distress and disappointment with the current track...hope this does not lead to me being reported for violation for daring to have a difference of opinion) reminds me of why I no longer bother with the forum much anymore. If you want to use the terms "healthy discussion and debate" you should have the decency to live up to them. There is absolutely no need to be rude. Yes, I think we all are aware that you cannot stand Arjun and Purvi and could care less about them. (did u hear that bachas...just want to make sure in case any of you were wondering how they feel)

This will definitely be my last post in response. I have neither the time or inclination to keep involving myself in this vicious cycle. I would rather respect the opinions of others and the way they express them, as this is supposed to be a FORUM...meaning a place where people should be able to do just that. If you do not care about Arjun or Purvi and cannot stand them, so be it. We respect that. You have told us once and we are well aware of how you feel. There is no need to attack every ARVI thread out there. We are not deaf. We heard you the first time.


In violation to Rule # 3, no need to drag other members in your posts, opine what you have to say, its a free forum, no need to bring any member in the posts to prove the points.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#87

Originally posted by: sherma

the way purvi has behaved wid arjun,clearly states she neevr luvd him

she wld have been equally upset if her arrange marriage wld have been broken(i am not tlking about vinay,cause he wasnt evn engaed to her)if she wld have,she wld be tat sad only
when u luv sum1 u cant see that person with any1,here purvi got ovi married to him
evn arjunwill be big time jealous if he sees her wid any other guy,cause he luvs her
ovi is jealous wid any girl with arjun
archu was jealous when she used to see manv wid shravni,she had evn cum to stop manav-shravni wedding
manav was jealous whn he used to see satish and archu together,or evn jay wid archu
evn today the way she was defending soham was ridiculous,hw cld she forget soham shot arjun twice,and he was hospitalised too
if vishnu is soham,it doesnt chnges the fact wat he did
i really liked teju stand today,let him live his life and we live ours
ovi tooo cant forgive soham cause he shot arjun-this is luv
evn i will or wld never forgive the one who will try to hurt my luvd ones
if that makes me bad,or evil-i care a damn



jelousy doesnt define love dear...

even i love a guy who loves sum1 else , & d guy is my vry gud friend 1st so i evn discuss wid him abt his plans to impress d gal he admires & i always wish dat he shud get his love, & i feel a lil bit sorrrow but i m nevr jealous of dat gal neithr i bcome jelous seeing dem 2gethr...

love is always not equal 2 jelousy if u r mature enuf to handle urslf, good enuf to think abt othr's happiness u'll b nevr jelous.

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