Deconstructing Arjun-Purvi-Ovi

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I only saw Arjun's segment in today's epi because as much as I used to love Arman, it is highly painful to watch them happy when the other pair that I loved so much is in a miserable state.

Arjun and Purvi remembering each other, their words, which from Purvi;s side now sound all hollow, her promises to him and her faith and love all seems like a load of crap right now after her disastrous decision. Either ways I was happy at least they were thinking of each other.

But then, Ovi madam comes in and has the nerve to tell Arjun " I am helping you forget Purvi". Ovi;s character is getting on my nerves so swiftly that all I want is for them to show her dead or something, because that is the only way everyone will agree to Purvi-Arjun back together. The guts the woman has after destroying his life, to help him move on with her.

Arjun gives her a little racking up and then suddenly remembers mahanta devi jr's dialogue that " If you have ever loved me, give Ovi her adhikaar" so he comes back to his mush puppy self and decides to be nice to Ovi. His dialogues gave me a glimpse of despair for the ARVI track because he said he doesn't know how long it will take for him to forget her. Maybe Sameer Rane's entry will be the nail in the coffin for his love. :((( 😭

But, what I have come to understand is that ARJUN should simply leave both girls and run away. Ovi has imbibed some amazing values from god knows where, maybe her blood ( archu) maybe her upbringing ( Savita), but all she ever does is ASK people for what SHE wants. Just go, beg, ask, whimper and she HAS it all on her silver plate. She asked Purvi for Arjun , then she Asked Purvi for Archu and I am sure in the future she will BEG arjun for consummation of her hopeless marriage. So Ovi is selfish, not giving a damn about Arjun;s feelings and his misery, just wants that he is with her, shops with her, pays attention to her and roams around the city and parties with her. That is the end goal of her life.

Purvi on the other hand only asks OF arjun. She first asks him to marry her sister, then she asks him to love her back and give her adhikaar. I won;t be surprised if next she asks him to FORGET her and even ATTEND her wedding with Sameer Rane as her brother-in-law. EEEKS. So All Purvi ever does in lvoe, is ASK the other person for whatever SHE wants. The only difference is Ovi asks for herself, Purvi asks for others. But who is the loser in between = Arjun.

Hence, since one wants to control him and one wants to demand of him, he should leave both of them and probably pick a new girl who loves him, UNCONDITIONALLY. BOth ovi and Purvi have way too many CONDITIONS in love and that;s not how unconditional pure love works.

P.S - arjun could do a little hunt on the forum and he may find lots of suitable unconditional lovers for him :) 😉

This is just my take, so please don;t take offense anyone. I love ARVI and started watching the show only for them, so it kind of gets super frustrating when they just kill our hopes and disregard our opinions as fans and decide to show abosolute nonsense.

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ameilia thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Absolutely agree with u pari except for Ovi being dead part.As much as i hate her she is still Arman's daughter
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Posted: 13 years ago
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absolutely agree with u pari/pooja (i guess ur name is pooja). I m feeling really sad/bad for arjun. If he is ready to leave both of them i m ready to marry him 😳 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Seriously Ovi is getting under my nerves I wanna slap her shake her vigorously and say Arjun doesnt love you WOMAN arghh . Though I loved Arjun & Purvi scenes today not in one frame but still it made my day :) And yes it gets super frustrating when they keep playing with us they have destroyed Arjun-Purvi already and yet we fans have kept our fingers crossed in the hope of Arvi being together again... Sad!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ameilia

Absolutely agree with u pari except for Ovi being dead part.As much as i hate her she is still Arman's daughter

Even if she is not Armaan's daughter, I would not wish that. I know Pari, you had just said it out of frustration, so I understand. How low is Ovi's self-respect that she wants Arjun who is in love with someone else? Doesnt matter which man...WHY? Is she really a woman of the current times? Please get some back bone, have a care for your own sanity, happiness, and self-respect. Why does any woman have to fall so low for a man? Even if it is Arjun. That baffles me..Why do these writers persist on demeaning woman so much?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@angel Ekta loves to caz heartbreaks and our heartbreaks brings money in her pocket.She makes us fall in love with a pair only to break them up.That's just sick.🤢 Arjun was too nice to Ovi today.He shouldnt let Ovi off the hook so easliy.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pari87

I only saw Arjun's segment in today's epi because as much as I used to love Arman, it is highly painful to watch them happy when the other pair that I loved so much is in a miserable state.


The only difference is Ovi asks for herself, Purvi asks for others. But who is the loser in between = Arjun.

Hence, since one wants to control him and one wants to demand of him, he should leave both of them and probably pick a new girl who loves him, UNCONDITIONALLY. BOth ovi and Purvi have way too many CONDITIONS in love and that's not how unconditional pure love works.

P.S - arjun could do a little hunt on the forum and he may find lots of suitable unconditional lovers for him :) 😉 🤣

This is just my take, so please don;t take offense anyone. I love ARVI and started watching the show only for them, so it kind of gets super frustrating when they just kill our hopes and disregard our opinions as fans and decide to show abosolute nonsense.

👏👏👏 Pari,
Really wonderful post, says it all! Superb, especially loved the parts in bold and good job putting across the feelings of us ARjunpurVI lovers and how 🤢😭 we fell (and feel i guess)...THANK U...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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agreed..purvi is not even realising her mistake...doesnt she remember all promises she made to arjun..doesnt she remember what not arjun have done for purvi to be with her..doesnt she remember all the pains and sufferings they both have gone through just to be with each other..to marry each other...
doeant she remember dat she loves THIS man...
how can she do dis..??
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: PariD

absolutely agree with u pari/pooja (i guess ur name is pooja). I m feeling really sad/bad for arjun. If he is ready to leave both of them i m ready to marry him 😳 😉


Hi Deepika :)

Yeah my name is pooja :) I agree with you. It was completely heartbreaking to see him so sad :( Purvi being sad for him doesn't evoke any sympathy in my mind. I was sad for her yesterday when she said bye to her aai and her aaji did not even give her two words of comfort. But her being sad for Arjun did not make me feel bad for her at all. She threw this away with her own hands. So many epis they showed her aaji telling her that true love is hard to get and she should keep it with her forever, They showed so many times when ARVI was regarded as pavitra rishta and so many SBB segments touted them as the new Archana-Manav. All in the dumps now. They simply ruined it :(

We were alll ok until the ruining, but now they are trying to KILL it. So ridiculous that for 7 months I was glued to my TV for the show, only to see ARVI, through their hate (office), their misunderstanding (Vinay), their love ( confessions), their misunderstanding ( Ovi engagement), their love (confessions), their separation ( archu;s challenge) and finally their triumph together ( engagement and wedding plans). And now, they have absolutely butchered everything :(

I always knew Armaan would be together despite Manav having run away from Archana, despite Shravani, despite Archana having gone away for a year, despite Jaywant because they were not MARRIED to anyone else then. But this OVI has shattered my hopes :(

I just hope Arjun takes a little hint, comes to the forum and decides that we are all way more in love with him than anyone else on the show :P 😉

And ofcourse can't ait for RD and Asha to quit and start a whole new serial togetehr which is based on love and positivity :P 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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today arjun said to ovi that he doesnt know how much time he will take to forget purvi means he is trying to forget purvi... then why he remembered what purvi said to him that 'if he has ever loved her then he will give all rights of a wife to ovi' and then he was suddenly nice to ovi... if he really hurts and want to forget purvi then why he is trying to do that what purvi wants...as now there is no need to arjun to prove his love for purvi ...i dont understand what really arjun wants to do...

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