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Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam
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Tanya, frankly, I believe in communication in a relationship; especially in a marriage. And it has to be a two-way street. if the kids hate her and manav is responsible for that; then archana should tell him that's the reason she wants a divorce. If he wants her back, he will get the kids to love her. She can then decide if she wants to reunite with her family. If she tells him the reason clearly and he still doesn't do anything, believe me, I'll support archana. If she tells him she's divorcing him because sachu asked her to, and he didn't talk to sachu and got him to withdraw his request; I'll blame him for the divorce. Like manav told her clearly that she shouldn't force him to participate in purvi's wedding; that's communication. What's archana doing? She doesn't open her mouth; when she does; she says the wrong things.you are right about this .Communication was always the problem in Arman's relationsip and that is why I guess they are on theri way to the divorce court ..I think Archana has given up that manav will understand her pain ...she did tell him once that he has changed and is not the same Manav who understood her ...She is wrong in keeping that brat sachin over and above everyone else .For that I will never defend Archaan .Sachin to me is extremely selfish and he is a dodgy lawyer ...Archana should have told Manav that he is supporting forged documents .
When archana told manav first after the 18 year leap that she did not send the divorce papers, he immediately went to talk to her asking her to come back; not caring that he was gatecrashing punni's engagement party. That was communication-- she told him she didn't sign the papers and he asked her to come back with him if she didn't. He reciprocated when she told him the truth. He didn't stay quiet and sign the divorce papers either way. Mind you, he could have. They were separated for a very long time and did not part in the happiest circumstances. But he loved her and immediately tried to rectify the situation. Does that seem like a man holding grudges? No, he's a man who doesn't know all that's happening around him and who doesn't know the decisions taken for him by others; including his wife and his mother. He will and can react only when he knows the truth. If he doesn't reach then, we can blame him all we want. Not now when he doesn't even know what to react to and how.I think he did hold grudges for a good 18 years ...Never did he ever remembered one good thing that happened between them He never even told anything good about her to her daughters and that was the worst ever cruel thing he did to her ...For the past 6 months he is seeing how much she loves her twins , how much she olerates the abuse from his mother and sachin and how she is trying to hold a difficult situation with Purvi ...she did not even fight with him when he hit her .For his sake she does not even lets him argue with savita because she knows how much Manav loves his mother .For 6 months , she has served all of them , taken care of them , sleeping i nthe kitchen , taking abuses ...and one thing he is sure of and that is that she is not after money ..I am shocked that he has not figured it out that her children's hate is the reason wh yshe cannot come back .
😲 Hope your back gets better soon. ANd no more debating from me for now, have to get back to my work!Oh that was a joke ...I was just tired of sitting upright for so long .You hardly come o nthis thread so it is always a pleasure interacting with you ...
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