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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhallarox



I agree that Arjun and Purvi love each other and Arjun does not love Ovi. In Arjun-Ovi relationship the love has always been one-sided only. And I also agree that Arjun had not told Purvi about Ovi he was very wrong there once he fell in love with Purvi he should've broken his engagement with Ovi immediately so that Ovi's hopes of getting Arjun would not increase by the day it may not have been so bad right now if Arjun told Ovi right then. I can understand Ovi's pain but even at this point I would rather have Arjun be with Purvi and not Ovi. It would also be best for Ovi to move on and forget Arjun she is thinking of him all the time when Arjun doesn't even care for her one bit.

Sad situation and unrequited love must indeed be painful especially for someone like Ovi who already bears the brunt of being bereft of a mother at a tender age. She of all the Deshmukh kids seems to have felt the loss the most and probably that is why she hates her mother the most.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Good observations Jhanvi ..

I also noted a few today .
Soham is not at all educated .He told Manav on phone .But even I felt that Purvi is somewhat a bit more safe with him than Chenu or someone else .
Arjun was actually right when he said to call in the police ..This situation needs the police but I guess Manav got scared because of Purvi's security .
The friction between Arjun and Soham has started in a big way from today ...see how hostile they were with each other on the phone .

Tanya, I do not like that guy, Chenu, he scares me. He seems volatile and about to do burst every time he opens his mouth.
Wonder why there has to be friction between Arjun and Soham? I remember that article that talked about Soham either being the one responsible for breaking up ARVI or bringing ARVI together. And certainly, the police need to be called in but can understand Manav's reluctance, he has a valid reason to abide by what the kidnappers want.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Wonderful observation Janhvi dear😊.I think Arjun was thinking practically,Manav was thinking emotionally.Logic goes off the bit when emotions take over, Manav was getting really scared here and I think the ransom wont reach the kidnappers.At that time Police intervention with Arjun coming there and chipping in during when Manav tries to negotiate might happen.

I think Arjun might sneak behind Manav ,may be Manav might want to go alone but Arjun might sneak behind n cops might sneak behind Arjun or anything can happen.I think somewhere Arjun will be involved with Manav along with the cops in the rescue mission.Every Hero has his day..😉
I think this kidnap mission might bring some closure to challenge fiasco(Arvi relationship approval too) and many others for the doors to open for the major Soham track.

Agree, Jai. It will be Arjun who will save the day! 😆 The major track is the Soham track, his disappearance is the reason for all events post leap so the kidnapping hopefully will come to a quick close.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kalapi

I am not sure why everyone is blaming so much on the way Ovi reacted? How was she to react? Purvi isn't someone that helped her in anyway, rather she 'took' away her Arjun. Purvi isn't related to her yet (it will only happen if and only when she accepts Archana as aai and she could forgive Arjun for what he did to her). Besides, Purvi has the mom she herself never had. Who knows what the story could have been if P urvi wasn't adopted by Archana. The story might have been very different then. Archana in her loneliness could have (maybe) reached out to Manav for her kids in these 18 long yrs. Purvi did fill the vacuum left by Archana's biological kids. Purvi does represent to Ovi the things she never had or will have..

She is only 18 and we expect her to be a symbol of forgiveness. She sees her mother showing more concern for Purvi then her. Am yet to see Archana making an effort to win her (Teju seems ready to give Archana the benefit of doubt). Arjun and Dk who showered her with love and affection at one time, isn't showing any towards her anymore, (especially DK).Manav/Savita/Teju all showing concern towards Purvi. Ovi is bound to feel alone in this situation. It is only natural to feel jealous and helpless. Poor girl really, I don't see anything here in her behavior linked to getting bad sanskar or anything. Actually how many of us could be cool and carry on life as usual when all around our loved ones seems to have changed sides? Could we really wait and be logically and that from a 18 yr old girl?? Could we be cool if our love (even one-sided love) shows concern for another girl??? Jealousy is a natural reaction to me...

Kalapi, no fingers pointed at her sanskars at all. Yes, her jealousy is absolutely warranted but her voicing what she did saying let anything happen to Purvi, why should you help, was not a very nice thing to say at all. She is 19 and hopefully has enough sense of the world and morals to know that one does not let even one's worst enemy languish like that especially if you were meant to be the victim. We might understand her pain, her isolation, her jealousy, but we should not condone her reaction. I can empthaize with what she is feeling and that is why ended my post the way I did that beneath all that anger and hurt is a festering void, a void caused by the absence of a mother. But she is old enough to rise above it at least on this occasion.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nicely written- I thought Arjun's stumbling off yesterday was premature, but I understood it when I saw him fumbling around with Purvi's photo asking if anyone had seen her- he went off gut instinct, and his gut instinct wasn't that she's been kidnapped but that she has to be found.

I also didn't think Archana's reaction were inappropriate either, Archana may love her biological daughters but the truth is she does love Purvi more- its just true, and has to do with having raised her- there is a bond there that will not be built with Tej and Ovi- maybe the bond could be built eventually but that would require both girls removing the chips on their shoulders in regards to their abandonment.

Soham/Gang- I really hope that Soham protects Purvi, because that Chenu guy- terrifies me, within a few minutes he'd already slapped Purvi? I think Chenu has something to prove and doesn't like taking a backseat to Soham- so its highly possible that he actually could hurt Purvi.

I was flabbergasted by Ovi today- I have had some measure of sympathy for her, I understand that her heart was broken, but her accusations of Purvi stealing Arjun are unwarranted, and her reasoning for not wanting Manav to help Purvi were honestly just disgusting and I really couldn't believe it...It will be interesting to see how everything plays out as the police are suspicious that something is going on, and they are planning on following the family...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Tanya, I do not like that guy, Chenu, he scares me. He seems volatile and about to do burst every time he opens his mouth.
Wonder why there has to be friction between Arjun and Soham? I remember that article that talked about Soham either being the one responsible for breaking up ARVI or bringing ARVI together. And certainly, the police need to be called in but can understand Manav's reluctance, he has a valid reason to abide by what the kidnappers want.



Hei..i agree with that Chenu guy..i have a feeling that tom when manav and arjun goes to pay the ransom, the goons will realize a cop is following them...most likely the cop will wear his uniform and not undercover clothes because it is a serial and not reality...when this happens the goons will not take the ransom and might to something to purvi to make manav understand no cops policy..soham/vishu has said he will keep her safe as long there are no cops involved..i have a feeling that chenu might decide to hit purvi when soham stops him..hopefully😊

My opinion on the article is this..if/when soham is arrested arjun will identify him as the kidnapper but Purvi will not (hopefully by then she has seen varsha with him- she will not sent her own brother to prison). As PR custom made track purvi will not tell arjun soham is her brother. A shocked soham might befriend her to ask why didn't you sent me to prison...she might give him some lame excuse and they will become close..in her effort to change him, she will spent more time with him, which will make arjun jealous as he can't understand why she will want to spent time with a kidnapper..and this in my opinion will start the first misunderstanding between purvi and arjun.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Inkpen4877

Nicely written- I thought Arjun's stumbling off yesterday was premature, but I understood it when I saw him fumbling around with Purvi's photo asking if anyone had seen her- he went off gut instinct, and his gut instinct wasn't that she's been kidnapped but that she has to be found.


I also didn't think Archana's reaction were inappropriate either, Archana may love her biological daughters but the truth is she does love Purvi more- its just true, and has to do with having raised her- there is a bond there that will not be built with Tej and Ovi- maybe the bond could be built eventually but that would require both girls removing the chips on their shoulders in regards to their abandonment.

Soham/Gang- I really hope that Soham protects Purvi, because that Chenu guy- terrifies me, within a few minutes he'd already slapped Purvi? I think Chenu has something to prove and doesn't like taking a backseat to Soham- so its highly possible that he actually could hurt Purvi.

I was flabbergasted by Ovi today- I have had some measure of sympathy for her, I understand that her heart was broken, but her accusations of Purvi stealing Arjun are unwarranted, and her reasoning for not wanting Manav to help Purvi were honestly just disgusting and I really couldn't believe it...It will be interesting to see how everything plays out as the police are suspicious that something is going on, and they are planning on following the family...



My sentiments exactly, I had written on Shyamala's thread that Arjun stumbling off yesterday was at odds with the rest of the scene but it made sense today. Also, about Archana loving Purvi more, I have said it too umpteen times she shares that bond (nurture, belonging, just being together as mother and child) with Purvi that unfortunately she does not share with Ovi and Teju. It might come in time but is not there currently. Purvi is aware of this too, she is supremely confident of her mother's love, the look she gives Archana when she is dressed in that purohutin's sari, so sure of her mother telling her she looks good, that certainty only a daughter can have of a mom. We on the forum may have given Archana grief over the fact that she chose Ovi over Purvi in the Arjun matter but Purvi not once has had any doubts of her mother in that regard. She knows her mother loves her, period, whether Archana supports Ovi or not on the Arjun issue. Ovi, alas, for all her looks and wealth lacks that backing of a mother's love and is perhaps vulnerable and mentally weak because of that. Psychoanalysis apart, there is still no excuse for the way Ovi behaved today. We agree on that too :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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SW1...this is what I wrote in another thread...

Ovi's reaction was the only sane reaction.

Manav has been ridiculed for his wealth by Archana who called him 'ambitious' in court and Mr . Manav Deshmukh the business tycoon who was not 'her' Manav anymore just because he was wealthy .

Now the question I want to ask is will Sulo's great sanskaars 'save' Purvi or this ' bad ' wealth ? 😉

With what face is Archana asking him to 'save ' Purvi with Manav's money if she called him 'ambitous' in court ?

Very frankly it is ' Manav aap kuch keejiye na ' all over again . Each time it is given the name of humanity or ' insaaniyat ' but the bottom line is Manav is made to spend crores on HER family when crisis strikes but the same wealth is called 'inhuman ' later on and he is given zero value .

Ideally DK or Arjun should spend this amount with sanskaari Sulo looking worriedly on . This is not the time to be true to Archana's silly challenge . It is time to use bad wealth 😉. After all Purvi is gonna be THEIR bahu . After Arjun wins Archana's silly challenge of course . She loves being poor but ends up extracting lots of money doesn't she . 😉

It is Manav's goodness that he is willing to pay at the drop of a hat . Otherwise reality is Purvi was adopted and raised without his consent or knowledge both .

What Savita should have said Ovi said . Thats all .

Weak Manav of course refuses to let DK pay and gallantly rushes to the rescue bcoz beautiful 54 year old Archana wept on his chest😆😆. Any other man would have thought ' My money for MY children . Anyways this woman is divorcing me and demanding so much monetary compensation . The divorce is yet to happen ...let DK pay . '

But that is too practical for a Pavitra Rishta .

Archana wanted Manav to remain poor [ he was justtt not her pooranewalla Manav after he became rich . She even made Arjun give up his wealth . So much in love with poverty she is . But as such the kidnappers LOVE only money . Not ...er ...sanskaars . 😉

Archana is so used to Manav bailing out her family isn't she . Well well , they say na , old habits die hard . 😆 😆😆

btw Purvi will ' change ' Vishnu's heart with her toofani sanskaars . Ultimately the great Sulo will win . So I guess Archana and through her the grand matriarch of sanskaars Sulo will win after all . The kidnapping is for this purpose . Manav and Archana will get together , Soham aka Vishnu will grow a soul [ with fluttering wings due to Purvi's sanskaari spirit ]and be re united with his family , Manav and Arjun will forget their differences in their hunt for Purvi and when asked ultimately what changed him the answer will be

'' That girl . What great sanskaaars she has . I wonder where she got them . ''

Now where did she get them? From her Aai . Which in turn got them from her great , sanksaari one and only mother . Sulo .So what if poor non-existent father was ready to pay 3 crores for ' insaniyat ' .

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dear Kalapi,

I simply loved the part @ red. Also, I had forgotten all about that 'ambitious' stuff in court, it was so long ago and shortly after Sushant left PR, so did I.

Moreover, I do not understand why Manav is made to say that Purvi is as important to him as Ovi and Teju,a ridiculous statement if ever there was one, and well calculated to alienate his daughters. I also agree with you about Archana's fluctuating attitude to big money.

I do not agree with all that you have said here - nor is that necessary - but what I do appreciate a lot is your readiness to march to your own drummer, for I do the same at times.

I am dropping off the forum radar till the last week of August; see you again then.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: Kalapi

SW1...this is what I wrote in another thread...

Ovi's reaction was the only sane reaction.

Manav has been ridiculed for his wealth by Archana who called him 'ambitious' in court and Mr . Manav Deshmukh the business tycoon who was not 'her' Manav anymore just because he was wealthy .

Now the question I want to ask is will Sulo's great sanskaars 'save' Purvi or this ' bad ' wealth ? 😉

With what face is Archana asking him to 'save ' Purvi with Manav's money if she called him 'ambitous' in court ?

Very frankly it is ' Manav aap kuch keejiye na ' all over again . Each time it is given the name of humanity or ' insaaniyat ' but the bottom line is Manav is made to spend crores on HER family when crisis strikes but the same wealth is called 'inhuman ' later on and he is given zero value .

Ideally DK or Arjun should spend this amount with sanskaari Sulo looking worriedly on . This is not the time to be true to Archana's silly challenge . It is time to use bad wealth 😉. After all Purvi is gonna be THEIR bahu . After Arjun wins Archana's silly challenge of course . She loves being poor but ends up extracting lots of money doesn't she . 😉

It is Manav's goodness that he is willing to pay at the drop of a hat . Otherwise reality is Purvi was adopted and raised without his consent or knowledge both .

What Savita should have said Ovi said . Thats all .

Weak Manav of course refuses to let DK pay and gallantly rushes to the rescue bcoz beautiful 54 year old Archana wept on his chest😆😆. Any other man would have thought ' My money for MY children . Anyways this woman is divorcing me and demanding so much monetary compensation . The divorce is yet to happen ...let DK pay . '

But that is too practical for a Pavitra Rishta .

Archana wanted Manav to remain poor [ he was justtt not her pooranewalla Manav after he became rich . She even made Arjun give up his wealth . So much in love with poverty she is . But as such the kidnappers LOVE only money . Not ...er ...sanskaars . 😉

Archana is so used to Manav bailing out her family isn't she . Well well , they say na , old habits die hard . 😆 😆😆

btw Purvi will ' change ' Vishnu's heart with her toofani sanskaars . Ultimately the great Sulo will win . So I guess Archana and through her the grand matriarch of sanskaars Sulo will win after all . The kidnapping is for this purpose . Manav and Archana will get together , Soham aka Vishnu will grow a soul [ with fluttering wings due to Purvi's sanskaari spirit ]and be re united with his family , Manav and Arjun will forget their differences in their hunt for Purvi and when asked ultimately what changed him the answer will be

'' That girl . What great sanskaaars she has . I wonder where she got them . ''

Now where did she get them? From her Aai . Which in turn got them from her great , sanksaari one and only mother . Sulo .So what if poor non-existent father was ready to pay 3 crores for ' insaniyat ' .

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jhanvi, nice post and analysis after a while. I am waiting to see how Soham's truth will unfold to ArMan, and ArVi union. Chhenu will also create a trouble for Soham.

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