No, no, you have got me wrong on the Vishnu part. It is not a criticism of her there, not at all, as I had explained earlier.
About the Arjun part , I am afraid I do not agree with your explanation that "She refused to bless him at that point of time because she KNEW what he wanted was at variance with what she wanted or thought was right.".
Now, she challenged him to do that, with the full knowledge that he might win it, right?
If she had clearly felt what you attribute to her, she should have refused flat, not offered a challenge.
Having done so, with the implicit assurance of her consent and approval if he
did succeed, it was churlish of her not to bless him when he sought her blessings. Dronacharya even blessed Arjun before the Kurukshetra war, knowing full well that he was in the opposite camp to his, in what was to be a do or die battle, simply because Arjun sought his blessings. So why not Archana, when the battle was one of her own choosing?
Shyamala B.Cowsik
Originally posted by: vishwap
How is Archana supposed to be aware of what is going to happen?
As far as Arjun is concerned, was she rude to him before the engagement fiasco? The only time she was rude to him was when he dismissed Purvi from her job. And she apologized to him later because after all, he WAS the boss.
She refused to bless him at that point of time because she KNEW what he wanted was at variance with what she wanted or thought was right.
All I want to gently point out is that while finding faults with what Archana does, it would help to remember times when she supported Purvi too. And Arjun need not necessarily be the reference point everytime.😊