Good morning from my end of the world. I read your post yesterday as soon as it was posted (like i usually do with your posts, and as usual, I choose to like and appreciate without commenting). However, this morning I must do so, because i feel very strongly about the Ovi-Purvi scene yesterday and must say so.
The big question i notice, is who will Bhappa choose and a whole set of views to that point. How much I do sympathise with and for Ovi, I cannot and at THIS point will not feel for her. Why, u ask? Simply:
1. I do not believe that when u want something u can just ask for it and its urs... not matter how long u want it and how much u want it.
2. Ovi has never turned to God before (prior to the Shivaratri scene) and even after, and now that she suddenly WANT (not need) she has faith in the lord. I believe that u have to thank him before u should ask him for anything.
3. Purvi rightly said that those who asked kindheartedly will receive their wishes. And even though I can see Ovi being in some pain and asking for something, I felt her plea to be selfish, she has never considered anyone outside of herself and she does not look to be changing anytime soon. Although i certainly hope she does.
With that said... I would like to join with u and say that no matter what Dk says, Ovi will not understand and will not accept. Time and Distance is what she needs. So if you will start a support DK group, please know that I will be the 1st on the band wagon. I truly think DK is a good father. Ovi has her own father that is there supporting her along with the whole "Ovi is our Princess" fan club. So, it is only fair that Arjun has HIS dad to support him as well. Was it wrong what Arjun and DK did, with holding the truth so long - YES. But do I need to "hang, drawn and quartered" them? Certainly NOT!!!
lastly, I prob missed it or cant recall. But what is APP? I know PAP is Protect Arjun Project, of which i have always been a silent supporter.
Wonderful post and analysis and looking forward to another one later today 😉 👏.
Btw... 2 more things... as I'm on a roll, I might as well get it all out.
1. I can also feel the storm coming... lovely description by Laurie, and for that I'm can only hope and pray that ArVi weathers it together and not Arjun and Purvi.
2. I really really really miss Arjun Kirloskar and hope to see him again soon. Actually, i want some of the boss mixed with the naughty and jovial chawl guy and he is pretty much perfect 😳
AND ur beautiful quote of past days reminded me of one i loved and represents Purvi's love for Arjun, taken from one of my fave authors Nicholas Sparks:
"her love is like the wind, u cant see it, but u can feel it!!!"