Savita Vs. Archana - Page 2

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

But wasn't Savita having memory problems at that time? She used to wander into people's homes and yell at them for coming into her home. She was also spending money at the mahila samaj or something and Rasika was making a fool of her there. And yes, if Rasika had not tricked her that day, all would have been well.

No yaar Savita was miraculously cured by Dr. Archu waaay before this time..

Sulo might have gotten comfortable at Manav's and yes, I do remember Savita being extremely welcoming to Sulo in the first place but Archana never meant to hurt Savita or take away her status or money in any way. I remember when Manav bought the necklace and Archana says it is for Savita. They could have all been one happy family if only they had learned not to hide stuff about their hurts and had talked openly.

SW1 Nowhere I or anyone said Archana intentionally meant to hurt Savita. Yes they all could have been a happy, loving family if Archana knew to prioritize her married life with manav as a Deshmukh...Where to draw a line when it came to being or making Manav involved in karanjkar problems..ArMan's life revolved around Karanjkar problems...When have u seen Savita asking Manav for money to pay off someone's debt? Manav has paid 3 lakhs the money Mano lost around Varsha's wedding...1 lakh when due to vinod house was abt to be taken away by the bank...And finally 70+ lacs to buy house for Sulo to save the memories. All because Archana's tears asking "Manav aap kuchh kijiye na" last two time was while Manav was working in the office and she made him leave his work...

Married people should know what their prioritize are...Love your mayka but not at the expense of losing your marriage life and hurting ILs by keeping lopsided relationships...I dont blame Archana but Manav more for never taking a stand until pre 18 yrs leap...Sulo never had to live with Rasika or Ajit in Karanjkar home so she does not know what Savita has gone thru...😳

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I so agree with the part in purple, 100% 👏 I have a son and wonder too how I will be as a mother in law if I will be just as possessive as my mother in law was with her son. And though I used to wonder why she behaved like that before I had kids, I can understand much better now where she was coming from, so absolutely true what you have said. One's perception changes with life changes.

When we become MILs especially when son gets married we do not become Possessive by default...SOme do and some dont...Some remain fair but when they see lopsided relationships between the two family that is when the understanding part on boys parents (ILs) goes out the window...I blame sons before blaming the DILs...

Probably right about the second part too that if it had been Archana's relative, they would have probably been forgiven more readily. What is that saying, "a daughter is a daughter all your life, a son is a son till he gets a wife" not saying this in reference to Manav or Archana, as they are not bad children to their parents.

Daughters or Sons both love their parents equally...But daughters are allowed meaning SILs have no issue wife having overly relationships with girls parents...But Boys have to take care of their family...So they think by doing everything and than some for wife is being a good husband..Meanwhile they forget they have parents too..They over compensate in this process...Do what is right and fair by your wife and her family but never ever forget to be fair to your own family..

My best advice to parents of boys as when they get married we do "Putra Daan" is to let the birds fly...dont have much expectations so u dont get hurt...because u surely will...God forbid you end up getting Archana or Karanjkars as ILs than all I say "May lord be with you" always...

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

dabulls, agree with the first part of last para! Have to go, off to watch Teri meri kahaani! Hope it is as fun as discussing PR!😃

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Bhalla, Archana didn't give Soham away to Varsha, and yes, she was foolish to let Varsha anywhere near Soham as Varsha had already "kidnapped" him once before. Yes, Archana was wrong with the chawl case, but she was not giving Soham away on purpose to Varsha, in fact when all had agreed earlier to let Varsha adopt Soham, Archana was the one who had said no at the last minute. Even if I can stretch my imagination and say Savita had reason to protect her son (however misguidedly) from her bahu, as a mother myself, I still hold that separating little babies from their mom is the worst thing to do. I think Archana was totally senseless then and now but she is not bad, just plain foolish.

I vaguely remember Shibu. Where did Ajit get the money that Manav saw, was it gambling money?

Originally posted by: salvatore-nina

@Dabulls - I loved all your posts as well as Bhalla's and Jahnvi's. Watching PR in bits and pieces, I never got the full picture, but now I see what you mean. I have a question though, Varsha snatched money from Archana to buy herself jewelry? Wasn't Varsha married to Satish at the time, couldn't she have asked him for money? And didn't she have a job she was oh-so happy with that she aborted her child for it? So shouldn't Varsha have had money on her rather than taking it from her sister? I swear the CVs always do a terrific job in the destruction of all their characters. Varsha was pretty great until she foolishly aborted her child just to spite her husband (that's what I beleive). Poor Satish deserved better.

Thanks S. Nina for appreciating my posts...I try writing the facts as I dont follow any particular actor or character...mean fandom for any one..Story and facts..

Varsha was married to rich satish and had a job too...But but on that particular day was a some holiday...banks were closed and her card was not working...Jewelry was on sale but as usual what Varsha wants Varsha must have...She went to Archana and saw the money Archu was abt to give to Vandu but but Varsha just snatched it from her hands and said thanks for giving me the money as jewelry is on sale today and satish is out of town, her card is not wkng and banks are closed...She needs the money now to buy diamond jewelry right now...

Now remember this woman can afford to wait until next business day to buy the same darn jwelery on reagular price as she has ample money for luxuries..

on the other hand Vandu wanted 35000 so Ajit can start business...This was supposed to be genuine business and he was on deadline to pay that money...Nice of Vandu not to take offense twice in her life she asked for money to her bro and was not given..This is where Archu should have used her brain to make a right judgement instead of emotional one indeed..

@ Jahnvi - I agree that if in this show, people communicated more than things would have been much better. Archana is usually doing foolish things and when she needs to speak, she just keeps her mouth shut and makes lame excuses. I also felt very bad for Savita when Archana handed the money to Sulo and said things about Savita that weren't meant for her ears but she was pretty loud in a packed room and in the end it did reach Savita's ears.

@ underlined...It was Manav 's hard earned money...And not Vinod's...Archana speaking loudly and in a casual non challant manner was hurtful to Savita...She is old and vulnerable...That night Savita looked so devasted, alone, and depressed...She needed Vandu to listen to her...how sad...Sorry to answer which was for SW1...😳

Originally posted by: apalepu

Ok, Can anybody tell me...? Why does Savita hate Archana again?

Ok, First I remember she used to hate her when Manav and Archana first got married because Sulochana slapped Manav during their wedding...

Then, She hated her even more when her son Sachin died because Archana's vohni called the cops on Manav family.

Then, She started liking her again when Shravani was pregnant and Archana and Manav were getting a divorce for Shravani.

Then, She started hating her again when Archana and Manav finally decided to stay together and Shravani decided to leave home with little Sachin.

Then, She got Sachin but still kept on hating Archana.

Then, They got rich and She started liking Archana again.

After this is why I don't understand why she started hating Archana again.

The whole chaul incident... causing misunderstanding... custody problems... convincing ovi, teju, and sachu to hate her... WHY??? Does she have a valid reason?