đSigh...This show really irks me. I think I should be happy that right now I don't have ZTV on my service. Does Ekta even realise how many twisted, redundant and extremely conflicting sides of human nature she is portraying?
I completely agree with everybody's posts, how can I not? The evidence speaks for itself. Sulochana has always been an obstacle in Archana's happiness. For the smallest things, she has hurriedly attacked Manav. Yet, everytime she needs his help he has been there for her. He was the one always receiving the insults and problems meant for the K family. Yet they never respected him. All they have done is taken advantage of his subservient nature. Yes, I do believe that she always has and always will consider herself better than the "poor, under-educated mechanic, , turned business tycoon" Manav. Why is he so respectful to her? She has never done anything that benefitted him. She used his money with her left hand, while slapping him with her right!!!!! And all he said, everytime, " Aai, aai, aai", and then looked down with tears in his eyes! A grown man!!!
Yet, when Savita insulted the K family, Archana usually found the mouth to put up some sort of defense. Even if we forget that, we still cannot forget the way she reacted when Savita accused her of trying to take Manav's money. đ
But the issue at hand. Sulochana's behaviour towards Sachin. No matter how wrong she might have thought him to be she had no right to insult him, no right to touch that boy. He is her daughter's son, he was a part of the family. However, Shravani only gave rights to Archana, how then can Sulochana do such a thing when her own blood grandchildren she can never do this to? This is beyond all limits. Not only did she insult a younger individual, but she disgraced elders everywhere. Shouldn't elders be capable of controlling their emotons and actions? Are they not supposed to be good examples? How then can this being of a bat treat someone's child like this?!!
But, why am I surprised. We have all seen the manner in which she emtionally blackmails and hurts her own children. The ones that she should reproof and guide are the ones who she constantly ignores. Why" Because they have the ability to stand up against her. While I don't approve of their actions,we must admit that without her presence and constant influence they had done better. It's unfortunate that they were unable to get rid of the selfishness they learned from her though. That is constantly the toxin that kept and keeps destroying their lives. How can a mother see her child in agony, better yet her "favourite mahaan beti" and emotionally manipulate her? This was the time to sit with herur daughter and finally understand her, instead she manipulates the moment. To make it worse she exhibits her control by dragging her grown, married daughter (who is also a mother), of 50+ years to angrily rant at her damad. What?!!!! This is the time for calm, logical discussion.
And yet we see "innocent little Archu" stand by while her mother drives over her husband and son in her incorrect self-rightousness. And yet Archu says she wants her family back. Really?!!!! This doesn't strike me as the mentality of someone who desires the treasures that she lost. THe CVs are feeding us utter bullscrank!!!!
I can't even begin to look at Archu's behaviour over the years. Psycho-analysing her family would run even Dr. Phil insane!! All I can say that these people cannot have love in their hearts if they are incapable of trusting the ones they love, and if they are incapable of being selfless. This is why their marriage broke, immaturity and trustless thoughts. There is no foundation. What marriage? Even I, an ardent Arman fan am beginning to lose my temper thinking of those two back together. It would be extremely toxic for those three children. Not to mention Purvi's influence on them?đ¤˘đ¤˘ I end here for now.
Deedi, excellent recap!!!! Kool Di, brilliant post as usual. Hbrk, you are sooo evilly funny!!!! Uma Di, I love your insight!!!! All the names I can't remember, mujhe afsos hai, laiken aapka post bahot excellent hai!!!!đđđ