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Posted: 14 years ago
#51
Hai Kool Di,

Nice post. None of the K's sisters are true good mothers when their own baby is considered in true sense. Agree with that. And whenever Soham's issue is taken into concern then,
Archu was the one more at fault which cannot be resurrected as of now and she was at bigger fault. No two thought about her love for her sisters being more than for Manav or her own child.

And this is where I hate her and this CV's as totally killed my fav character. her love for her spoilt sisters had killed her character and I am also tired of seeing her making insensible horrible decisions for her spoilt sisters sake.

So I wasn't in defence of archu and agree with what you said about archu so far.Dont know why CV's are spoiling her this much.😭😭

But then the fact archu being more faultier doesn't resolve the fact that Varsha was downright selfish and too wrong in asking for her sister's child. Who gave her the right to ask for the child.ok if all the people in that family are fools then does it give the right to behave cruel and selfish and make them behave as per your whims.
With respect to yesterday's epi,I found her downright cruel and selfish. You took the baby as you wish,you development closeness,so you want to have the baby and separate the child's own from him.(I say she is trying to separate as still D's was not shown as given up the baby).
She just sees what she wants.

Varshu being a good mom cannot be said as she doesnt have an alternative. when her own kid comes,then it might be a diff issue.

So with respect to varsha,Nikki's thoughts are exactly mine.

And then Kool Di, a special note,My friend said your posts were superb and she liked it a lot
and she asked me to write that she too hates archu for what she is doing now and told me to write how much ever i could write against archu as she doesn't know that i am a archu fan.😳.
(And the credit of making my friends watch all this crap in PR goes to me. they aren't a PR viewer😃)

@tuh1: Hi, I didn't find archu as inefficient mother except that i too feel angry at her for giving soham like that.
And with respect to yesterday's epi, yes archu was slightly couldn't handle two at a time, but keeping issue of soham as being given apart, when we look at that situation, she wasn't too bad yesterday. she tried to stirke a balance. when 3 yr kid was crying and a school going kid ask for water,we will try to attend the 3 yr kid first, its not that we are ignoring the first one.its like,the first one is grown up and it can handle certain issues and wait for some time. she asked sachu to kindly wait and not how vaishu behaves indifferently to varun. so I think, if both soham and sachu were there with this crappy baby sharing track was not there, then archu behaved correctly and none of child will feel left out,if they made sachu take care of soham and made him realize he is the big one to shower love on soham and make soham realize ,soham should give the respect to sachu,that a brother should give to his elder.

@Sbs news: I am less interested in the lead's romance,when the CVs have killed the lead characters with these crappy tracks and the last horrible track of baby-sharing

Edited by umayal - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: umayal


And with respect to yesterday's epi, yes archu was slightly couldn't handle two at a time, but keeping issue of soham as being given apart, when we look at that situation, she wasn't too bad yesterday. she tried to stirke a balance. when 3 yr kid was crying and a school going kid ask for water,we will try to attend the 3 yr kid first, its not that we are ignoring the first one.its like,the first one is grown up and it can handle certain issues and wait for some time. she asked sachu to kindly wait and not how vaishu behaves indifferently to varun. so I think, if both soham and sachu were there with this crappy baby sharing track was not there, then archu behaved correctly and none of child will feel left out,if they made sachu take care of soham and made him realize he is the big one to shower love on soham and make soham realize ,soham should give the respect to sachu,that a brother should give to his elder.




Same here Umi. Yes, Archu couldn't handle the two children at one time. How does it prove that she will sideline one kid for the sake of another? She was having a problem managing both the kids, maybe cos she was 'out of practice' with handling two kids cos Soham had been away long, or maybe cos Soham was making things difficult for her, as he was missing Varsha. So she got a little involved in him. But its not like she deliberately ignored Sachu or was rude to him! Infact she realised she had ignored it and HERSELF made up for it, without anyone's prodding. In fact I don't even think it proved her as 'inefficient' in anyway. Every mother can have such problems sometimes- but that does not mean she is sidelining one kid or is not a good mother. With time, Archana can learn to manage two kids together. No way can I compare her with vaishu.
Edited by nikitagmc - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000


Did NOT see Archana managing two kids well AT ALL today . She neglected sachu like hell . She fumbled and bumbled .Seems like with Archana...it will either be bypassing Sachu for Soham or bypassing Soham for Sachu . .SHE WILL BE UNFAIR TO ONE KID IS WHAT CVS R TRYING TO SHOW .

Kool I agree with most of all you said here except the part of managing 2 kids...moms with 2 or more kids always do a juggling act, balancing all that she can...it is never perfect, but all mom with multiple kids esp. toddler do it...I didn't see Archana's neglect of Sachin and as doctors say in the West a skipped meal for a young kid doesn't mean a thing they will get they nutrient from the next meal...I have to juggle a lot too...both are my kids and in the process 1 is looked after a little else then the other one...this is natural...I don't think I am a bad mom in any way...
I think from soham's POV it is best he is with Varshea, firstly because, he is cared for well by him, it will prevent any future confusion and because more importantly I feel the D's and the parent failed him miserably ...which parent can give a kid for a day and live for 3 yrs without him...was Archu making the round to get him for 3 yrs...:)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Soham should most emphatically NOT be given to Savita. Savita is an old lady who could not even look after Sachu ...she had memory loss problems and was most inept in looking after him later on . She is aging day by day ...she may DIE tomorrow . Her prime period is OVER . She should not be given responibility of bringing up ANY children period ...be it Sachu or Soham . Her role as a GrandMa should be spending time with grand kids playfully ...and resting , while the mothers of her grand kids do the actual work ...Archu or Vandu .

Giving kid to Savita is OUT OF THE QUESTION .

Archana should NEVER have the kid . NEVER NEVER , NEVER . She gave it up ...She GAVE it up . Not for POVERTY . not for MAJBOORI ...simply coz she wanted to SPOIL her sister . This woman needs a PUNISHMENT , not PAMPERING .

The BREAST MILK point is what Archana should have considered MORE than Varsha . What would Varsha know about maternal feelings and milk surging through breasts ...Had she even become a mother ?But Archana was EXPERIENCING it then ...AND she chose to deprive her baby of GOD"S FOOD FOR HIM . And when her husband yelled , she said Wait ALL WILL FALL IN PLACE .

She was like the Cat who drinks milk with closed eyes . PRETENDING to be victim but actually knowingly allowing a crime .

Its Soham's LUCK that the one who stole him REALLY became attached to him and took REAL GOOD CARE of him . LET HIM GET AT LEAST THAT LUCK . Otherwise he is a MOST ILL FATED BOY as he has a mother like Archana . She GAVE HIM UP . Varsha's craving for a child suddenly got channelised and he tapped her maternal instincts it seems . She has not depended on Bhavna for rearing him ...she brought him up HERSELF . She kept him alive , and not with disinterest . She REALLY took an interest in him . He may have been her fancy but she looked after him .

A mother who IGNORED her breast milk and hardened her heart enough NOT to follow up and get him back DOES NOT desrve the child .

What sowmya said is 100 % correct . This woman may trade him again if Varsha falls sick or demands him and all that aint good for her child . Why shud Soham be put thru this ?

In Varsha and Archana ...Varsha is unwilling to give Soham up . THATS how a mom is supposed to be .

Satish is the Dad who opposes Varshas opinions . Manav has been reduced to a YES MAN while Archana takes stupid decisions .

The Joshis r excellent grand parents . Damodar is indifferent and Savita too had gone along with this giving up of Soham . She has my sympathy but facts r facts ...she spoke up too late .

Soham will have wonderful life there . Archana is not NEEDED ANYMORE .

I am willing to overlook her fumbling bumbling about two kids . Notice that I said CVS INTEND TO SHOW that she is gonna be UNFAIR TO ONE KID . And Let me tell u , CVS DO INTEND THAT .Who is it gonna be ...Soham or sachu , I DUNNO . Personally I agree that woman needs to get used to rearing more than one kid .

Varsha has not STOLEN or KIDNAPPED the child .She ASKED permission .EACH TIME it was given to her .EACH TIME .

What Varsha shud do is initiate legal proceedings to ADOPT .

But Archana Karanjkar shud NEVER have the baby back . She gives up marraiges , BABIES not BABY ...she will go on to create havoc if unchecked . its HIGH HIGH HIGH time message was given to her that she has to THINK before giving up Gods GIFTS . Be it MARRAIGE or CHILDREN . Each time HURT PEOPLE wont slink away licking their wounds and each time things wont become alright for her .

U give your baby AWAY after suffering a miscarraige ? I would have understood if u became possesive about that baby after that miscarraige ...What I cannot understand is u GIVE IT AWAY !

The abortion has made Varsha possesive about the baby . The miscarraige has made Archana MORE GENEROUS ????

Varsha is inhuman and selfish . What is Archana ? What humanity did she display while thinking of Madhuri's kids ? MY SISTER"S KID shud be legitimate , screw the other two WAS HER HUMANITY . Wasn't this SELFISH ?

Karma bit her in her butt . She destroyed life of Varun , she lost her kid to another woman . Her kid has LEGITIMACY but ANOTHER MOTHER . In case of Varun , his legitimate status was also taken away and he got ANOTHER mother too . Today in EYES of the world , ANIKET is legitimate . Varun has been ADOPTED .

SAME WAY , Archanas kid inspite of being LEGITIMATE shud be ADOPTED . KARMA . FITTING KARMA .

Just as Archana's WONDERFUL Capacities as a mother r exaggerated , Varsha's incapacities to be a mother of any kind r exaggerated to . She seems to have taken good care of Soham . I say what I see .

If they show her making mistake in future and SACHI MAA ARCHANA rising like BAT GIRL to SAVE , its PREDICTABLE . Wont say anything then , but will still say Archana GOES SCOT FREE ...just like Manju .

The LIMIT for me was POUTING that Manav has no TIME for her when she gave his kid away and deprived him of REAL FATHERHOOD . That REALLY pissed me . She wants ROMANCE when her kid is languishing with someone else ?

MANAV AAP MERE SAATH WAQT NAHI BITAATE is her silent COMPLAINT . He was coming home EARLY from office ONLY FOR KID . She GAVE up the ESSENCE of SANSAR away . Something that makes a man walk towards direction of home inspite of a workload and pressures .

She thought her BEAUTIFUL THOBDA and appetite for ROMANCe is enough to drag him home EVERY DAY . BACHA CAN REMAIN WITH SIS . This way I am also happy and SIS is also happy .

Sorry for sounding harsh but thats EXACTLY how I feel as I watch this track .

The majority opinion will be heard and U guys will be listened to , dont worry .But I am ready to stand ALONE on this ...just As I stood on Shravnis issue .

I would LOVE it if Manav came later and later from work and totally lost interest in her . Sorry guys . Mean Me .













Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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And then Kool Di, a special note,My friend said your posts were superb and she liked it a lot and she asked me to write that she too hates archu for what she is doing now and told me to write how much ever i could write against archu as she doesn't know that i am a archu fan.😳.
(And the credit of making my friends watch all this crap in PR goes to me. they aren't a PR viewer😃)

😊 Say Thanks to her umi . I appreciate that . So she likes my mean posts , huh ?😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have no words to express HOW DISGUSTED I am with this track but I will try. As long as I thought it was a baby loaning track I was forced to keep silent because I have seen two examples of that in my own family. How could I critisize that track as unrealistic then? But now, no more complulsions.
When I thought there was babygiving/baby-loaning track as compared to this so-called "baby-stealing" track (actually baby negligence track), I did not like Archana and Manav (mostly Archana). I thought her stupid. I thought she had made a decision - a stupid one yes, but MADE a DECISION.
Now with this baby giving track I think of her as weak, incompetant and impotent. Here the CVs show as though she half-heartedly wants the child back but is too powerless to get it back. Same for Manav - he too is rendered TOTALLY WEAK in front of his wife. HOW is it that if she TRULY wanted the baby she could not get it back in THREE years with two powerful and sane men (Manav and Satish) on her side? This only goes to show what I've been saying from t he beginning. Archana does not want the baby at all. At any rate, she wants it less than she wants her sister's smile.
I don't want Archana to have the baby. Nor do I think Varsha is going to be a good mother. That poor baby has two bad choices but I think the lesser evil is the Joshi house where at least the father and grandparents are better. Everyone in the D house is powerless beneath Archana.
I have totally lost my respect for this character today.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Putturani I agree qith EACH word in ur post .Couldn't have put it myself better .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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See Kools, that's how I usually feel for your posts. :)
I can respect Archana more for making a stupid decision than for letting the decision be taken out of her hands. Inaction is just as bad as stupidity. I don't know which is more dangerous. But see, none of the children in this show have a faimly which I would envy,
Punni and Ruchi - evil mother who teaches them bad things, runaway grandfather, weak father (let's not even talk about how bad a role model the aunts are!)
Aniket - mother who spoils him and parents who won't know how to teach him right from wrong
Varun - real mom died, illegitimate, ill-treated by stepmother
Vandu's kid - poisonous grandmom
Soham - we all know.
Of course no family is perfect but still...
Edited by putturani - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Archana's character is a JOKE🤣

A cruel, unusual, surreal JOKE🤣
A baby is taken for a day trip and not returned for MONTHS - and this DOES NOT raise alarms, debates, discussions.
Why???? - did Manohar run away with Archu's brainwaves like Dr. Evil ran away with Austin Powers Mojo? 🤣
I mean I know she was of average intelligence but now she is of negative intelligence🤣
Betcha Savita would be more concerned if her doggie did not return from his midday health break session🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have not seen much of PR in last two weeks. Just watched yesterday's episode and understood what has happened with soham and how he ended up with Varsha.
In my opinion Archana and Varsha both are bad people and mothers.
One killed her own baby and now is obsessively craving for one.
Another one lost her first baby being careless and uninterested in caring for the baby. 2nd baby she lost due to her weakness for love for her spoiled sister.
Even though Varsha is caring and loving mother to Soham, I believe she is attached to a baby she should not be. This arrangement is tooo close for comfort. Varsha's attachement to Soham is unhealthy IMHO. Soham is ArMan's baby POS. If she wants a child sooo bad than go out and adopt a needy baby.
Archana does not deserve to have Soham as she gave him up for silly reason and w/o Manav's agreement..But I blame all in D family for allowing Archana to go this far. Manav has gone back to being ULM again and Satish still acts like a wimp at times...He needs to check Varsha in with a psychiatrist as her obsession with Soham is not kosher.
This show has reached new heights of stupidity IMHO.
Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago

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