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naava

@naava

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: jnawaz
The SOTD thread has been closed. The reason that the other threads were closed were because they had a lot of character bashing going on which is not allowed as per the IF rules. You are welcome to share your views and what not, but name calling and bashing isnt tolerated on IF. Many people have mentioned the Sharvni Hate Club, all i can say is that i was not here at that time. If i had been, i would have closed it as well. The two threads that i closed were because many member reported the posts and it was creating problems on the forum. The Archana Hate Club wont be opened. However, if you could please give me some time, i'll go revisit the Dhamodar thread. I need to read every single post indivudually. Everything happened so fast that I thought it best to close the topics before they got out of hand. Please bare with me for the time being. Trying to deal with everything as fast and as best that i can.

JAZ (PR Dev Team)

To the Mods... thank you for closing the two threads here and also the STOD from the 28th...they all got out of hand and i certainly hope you don't reopen the Damodar thread. When i see the posts calling for physical abuse of the characters and such crude language, i really wonder why i am on this forum. There are others this week that should have been closed as well, the EDT of this week (25-29) was ridiculous with people showing needles to stab Sulo etc. ...

There needs to be consistency...no bashing of characters or actors, period. I hope these people who are posting are being given warnings. Not only abusive language but there are some who purposely bait others to get into an argument rather than a discussion. You can tell from the first post if someone is trying to bait or taunt people..I've been baited a couple of times and always choose not to continue the discussion when it becomes obvious. .What's the point in doing all that? There is such anger on these forums, so silly. It is a show.

I pretty much just watch the show and read Tanya's excellent write up. It's no fun to discuss anymore.

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pallai

@pallai

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: naava

i certainly hope you don't reopen the Damodar thread. When i see the posts calling for physical abuse of the characters and such crude language, i really wonder why i am on this forum.

-- Damo thread is precisely opened for opposing what u mentioned "physical abuse of characters" .. the question is should a old women be shown as being threatened with a stick by her husband?that too was a filmsy reason like she is didnt feel like cooking for him...if u find a particular post in that offensive you may warn that member.. but why should the whole thread be closed down? most of the posts in that where condemning the Cvs for their crooked sense of Humor...

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@putturani

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Ugh ... I am getting sick of this. Can someone please explain the difference between "bashing" and discussing? Because it seems that there is a double standard. What is called "bashing" when it refers to certain characters is simply called "discussing" when it refers to others.

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

I wrote a looong post and before I submit I lost it 😭😭😭😭...I am going to try remembering and post it again...Had a lot to say.. 😃

yes ^^ agree some topics are considered to be fun to discuss and some are considered to be bashing some characters...

How convinient..😳

Hope topic is still open when I get to post my thoughts again..Right now I am ready to go out...Might not be until tmrw even..

Jnawaz I appreciate your efforts...

Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago

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sowmya

@Not_a_fan

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: naava

To the Mods... thank you for closing the two threads here and also the STOD from the 28th...they all got out of hand and i certainly hope you don't reopen the Damodar thread. When i see the posts calling for physical abuse of the characters and such crude language, i really wonder why i am on this forum. There are others this week that should have been closed as well, the EDT of this week (25-29) was ridiculous with people showing needles to stab Sulo etc. ...

There needs to be consistency...no bashing of characters or actors, period. I hope these people who are posting are being given warnings. Not only abusive language but there are some who purposely bait others to get into an argument rather than a discussion. You can tell from the first post if someone is trying to bait or taunt people..I've been baited a couple of times and always choose not to continue the discussion when it becomes obvious. .What's the point in doing all that? There is such anger on these forums, so silly. It is a show.

I pretty much just watch the show and read Tanya's excellent write up. It's no fun to discuss anymore.

Naava,

I don't know if you have followed all the posts, but there are several posts where people have talked about dragging Savita through her hair on the streets, baby Sachu slapping Savita and Shravani, even Manav slapping Savita. I read about Savita being a leech and a beggar and a bitch sucking the life out of Manav. I didn't see anyone, absolutely no one condemning these posts or reprimanding the people posting them. But now suddenly new rules apply when it is Sulochana or Damodar? Why such double standards? If somebody had stopped this behavior when it first started, it wouldn't have come to this stage. The rules are equal for everyone, and everyone must follow etiquette. These derogatory posts have been going on for a long time; it's just that now people are replying in kind so a huge hue and cry is being made about it. Reprimand the starters of this bashing first; the rest will automatically stop.

Oh yeah, btw, there is a reference to "barking dogs" in 29th April SOTD. If I wanted, I could have taken offense to it and made that thread a battleground. But I choose to let it go since the mods have already given a warning.

Edited by sowmya_jairam - 14 years ago

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dazzzling

@dazzzling

Inactive

Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Jesus Christ some ppl really seem to be angry these days. Hello everyone!This is a fictional show, the characters do not exist. Funnily i read somewhere that there are many vulnerable young girls/people who do take the show seriously and need an eye opener.
Why look far away? The forum itself is full of such people, some auto proclaimed intellectuals too who are supposedly here to "dissect the show in an objective way with no side for any character" n at the same time saying they hate such or such character with a passion🤣, ready to jump on each other's throat n argue like we are in a vendetta film. Open your eyes first buddies n look around, you will realise how toxic the atmosphere is on the forum. I visit almost every thread n some were complaining thers is no balance n oppositions. I see losts of thread growing like mushrooms now. No need to complain now.
I'll request mods to be firm and teach every childish and immature member a good lesson. Me incleuded. How far can this get ridiculous n childish i wonder. We must b ashamed of ourselves.😵
I always say maturity has nothing to do with age and some members are perfect examples. Chill pill guys, this not Jhalak forum though i see many of its mischief makers here. Peace please. Live n let live, my humble request.

Edited by dazzzling - 14 years ago

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dazzzling

@dazzzling

Inactive

Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: ayesha_angel
wenever shravani was called bitch , s**t , wh**e etc etc everything was tolerated
she was not at all like a typical vamp of other serials

& 4GET SHRAVANI , POOJA PIHAL WAS SO MUCH ABUSED OVER HERE

ATLEAST NOBODY IS ABUSING ANKITA LOKHANDE

so many posts & views are there on that thread & not a single moderator was there to close that thread

y such a hypocrisy & autocracy over here

then we better go to orkut , create a community or any other blog on net & discuss there

@ bold
Dear i would like to help you here. Why create a community. ______ has created one where everything is allowed there. You can bash characters and even members and call them any name you want. A real jungle, a heaven for all those who want to get loose.
You write whatever you want and then edit your posts later using smileys after you have vented your frustrations. Not to my taste, disgusting if you want to know what i think but you will like it may be . Check it out. Can give you the direct link but her friends will help you better. You'll know whom to contact i'm sure😉.
I've already sent the link to the mods too just to let them see how hate can consume people.

Note : Please do not bring the names of old members who dont even visit the forum anymore.

Edited by devashree_h - 14 years ago

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Wookie!

@Wookie

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: naava

To the Mods... thank you for closing the two threads here and also the STOD from the 28th...they all got out of hand and i certainly hope you don't reopen the Damodar thread. When i see the posts calling for physical abuse of the characters and such crude language, i really wonder why i am on this forum. There are others this week that should have been closed as well, the EDT of this week (25-29) was ridiculous with people showing needles to stab Sulo etc. ...

There needs to be consistency...no bashing of characters or actors, period. I hope these people who are posting are being given warnings. .

Naava I knw ur indirectly pointing to me !!!!!!!! As d needle stuff was made & damodar thread was open by me.

Yes i opened d thread & yes my language was abusive pardon me for that bt How would u react when a drunkard husband or say good for nothng husband picks up a rod & threatens his wife to cook for him. How would you feel? U guys think this is fun, Is it really? Threatening an old lady with a stick who almost spent half of her life with you is funny, Its for fun, eh?

Yes i suggested needle poking for sulo, whats harm in that? I hated the way she talked to savita Who is she to tell tat savita is not an aurat ?Who gave her the regards to tell so? Is this d way to talk wid an mentally ill patient ? Had she suffered what savita had suffered due to her devi daughter ? She was way out of her line that day to savita!

There are many abusive, disgusting comments made on savita in SOTD y don't u stop them Each & every single day tat poor lady is bashed. Arent we feeling bad for her. So can't we stand for her? n what physical abuse did i demanded for damo ? just a slap that too its our frustration tat we write all this stuffs Even i don't support domestic voilence bt d way damo treats his wife has provoked me to write this post!

Atlast Sorry for d abusive language bt this is wat damo deserves till he won't start respecting his wife.