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malinn

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Posted: 15 years ago

#51

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: carpe-diem
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i agree with almost all the parts. i strongly disagree with the following

Look at it from the BABY's angle . The baby will grow up one day . If he finds out that HIS dad was a millionaire and cud have given him a bETTER LIFE and his mom egoistically refused financial help and didnt even BOTHER asking the Dad if he wud provide , he may get WILD with anger . He wud ask perhaps , Why did u screw MY FUTURE for ur ideas of SELF RESPECT ?Why did u bring me up on a meagre salaried income when he cud have afforded the best school , engineering or doctor admissions and university educations etc ? Who ARE u to take decisions on MY BEHALF ?

if the child is raised properly he or she will not question Vaishu, rather the child will be proud of the mother who sacrificed so much to give it a proper upbringing. The money will come with strings attached...

You mean to say the children who grow up and counter question the single parents who raised them and walk off to the parent who clearly earns MORE MONEY so they can get a better future prospect or education are NOT PROPERLY RAISED and HENCE THE FAULT of the MOTHERS who raised them ? How did you come to this conclusion caspie and on what basis ?

I find this conclusion of yours naive and inexperienced . Is there any way of knowing how your child will turn out as an individual when he or she enters youth ? Look at Sulochana's two daughters ........Archana and Varsha . While Archana adjusts in every walk of life , Varsha rebels in every event and even aborted the child on a whim or fit of anger . Were they sULO's famous sANSKAARS ? I dont think so .........coz Sulo SLAPPED her hard . She abhorred her daughter's deed .

The reality of life is CHILDREN r individuals in their OWN RIGHT and don't necessarily behave or react tHE WAY U EXPECT THEM TO . It SHOCKS parents many many times .........thats the tragedy of the parents all over the world . They naively and proudly believe AFTER ALL I RAISED HIM , HE CAN NEVER DO THIS . and Lo behold , the boy marries and starts listening to a woman who never ever raised him but comes from a totally different background .........HIS WIFE . Or a daughter may suddenly start EXPRESSING HERSELF by getting various TATTOOS and wearing short skirts and insist on PARTYING although the mom is simple and traditional ....why ???Coz she meets such a group in school and forgets all her mom's ainstakingly taught sanskaars by geting brainwashed . She then turns and tells mom , THEY ANYWAY STIFLED ME .

The boy I mentioned was very nice and he even loved his mom . She had raised him with solid middle class values . But he wanted to be a doctor .His Dad cud pay his hefty fees ........so he apologised to his mom and went straight to his Dad . HIs priority in life was becoming a DOCTOR . He felt his Moms personal fight with his DAD shud nOT HAMPER his future . The Mom did NOT talk to his DAD and they had a bitter divorce coz he left her for another younger woman . She had refused to take a single penny from him out of pride as she had a job .

Was that boy wrong ? I dont think so . Evaluate . It was HIS LIFE as against his mom's personal principles which were part of HER LIFE .HIS LIFE and HER LIFE cannot be the same .

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bee5

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Posted: 15 years ago

#53

Very well written, Kools. There are many many paragraphs I liked.

Yday, I also wanted to add about the part - Vaishali needs to fight so that it is deterrent for him not to continue with his acts further. It was too late in the night and I couldn't write that part until I get on to the forum now. You have written everything so in detail and so well.

There is no Self-respect in:

- being dependent on others for self and child [even though one has rich and decent bro/sis-in-law(s)]

- acting foolish

- not even trying to get justice for your own self

- taking wrong decisions for self and your child(ren).

I needs to be really strong to raise above those pettiness/foolishness and will not make one mercenary or materialistic if one is successful and be able to live with head held high.

It is too stupid if CVs are going to drag Ajit back to his bad-habits.

Archu is Mahaan, so she doesn't get a slap from Sulo.

How can CVs pair-up Shibu with Vaishu? He has referred to her as 'tai' (sister) more than once until now.

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#54

There is no Self-respect in:

- being dependent on others for self and child [even though one has rich and decent bro/sis-in-law(s)]

- acting foolish

- not even trying to get justice for your own self

- taking wrong decisions for self and your child(ren).

yes bee . I too agree .

Being practical shud not be confused with ZERO self respect . There r situations in life where u need to get a good grip on FACTS . The facts r That Vaishali will now live at Manjus expense .

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: malinn
Hey Bhallarox..... I know this is a nice forum.... And I too like Kool's commentary...... I truly hope that I truly hope I am not bad simply for not agreeing with Kool on some points ..... In the end, that's all it is...... Nothing serious and nothing personal.....

bhallarox and malinn, no offence taken dears .😊😊

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bhallarox

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Posted: 15 years ago

#56

Hey Bhallarox..... I know this is a nice forum.... And I too like Kool's commentary...... I truly hope that I truly hope I am not bad simply for not agreeing with Kool on some points ..... In the end, that's all it is...... Nothing serious and nothing personal..

No you are not bad and don't think you are. I never meant to hurt you in any way, and yes if you disagree with anyone that's ok. Everyone has their own opinions and point of views. I hope you don't feel offended by what I wrote, if you feel offended I do ask for forgiveness.😊

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bhallarox

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Posted: 15 years ago

#57

Thanks Bhallarox

No problem.😊

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@putturani

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Posted: 15 years ago

#58

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Look at it from the BABY's angle . The baby will grow up one day . If he finds out that HIS dad was a millionaire and cud have given him a bETTER LIFE and his mom egoistically refused financial help and didnt even BOTHER asking the Dad if he wud provide , he may get WILD with anger . He wud ask perhaps , Why did u screw MY FUTURE for ur ideas of SELF RESPECT ?Why did u bring me up on a meagre salaried income when he cud have afforded the best school , engineering or doctor admissions and university educations etc ? Who ARE u to take decisions on MY BEHALF ? [/quote]

I have seen this exact same case happen in real life Kools so I do not think you are being materialistic at all. Vaishali needs to hit Dharmesh where it hurts and get the best for her child. But knowing Ekta Kapoor, Creatives will show Vaishali giving her child to Varsha.

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viram

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Posted: 15 years ago

#59

Hi Kools. Cudnt post my views yesterday. Phew!!! Relieved that the Batats bahndaphod fiasco is done with> How they had dragged it for months. !!!

One would have expected fireworks during such a fiasco. But waht a damp squib it was. I suppose Sulo can return the unused pumps to the medical shop now that she has toughened up a lot. 😉😆. I expected Batats to be slapped by Sulo ,Varsha or Vinod ( I dont know if he was present on the scene). But nothing seems to have happened.

Vaishu is in hot waters .She had been acting like a moron all these days. In fact as we discussed earlier looks like CVs want to show it as a karmic punishment for her for being so rude to Arman. She saw what was actually not there(in manav's case : the theft ,Arman's elopement etc) .She was as blind as a bat when it came to batat's true self.She was totally blind to every thing that was happening right under her nose.

I also strongly support you that she should make Batat's pay for the child's upkeep.(let me make it clear that I am not blindly toeing your line nor am I supporting you becoz you are Kools or that I am afraid to upset you !!!! You know how I differ from you on so many issues. ).

If people like Batats are allowed to go scot free imagine what the world would be like. !! If a woman is not supposed to take any financial help from her ex -husband what would happen to all those women who are divorced due to their husband's fault and abandoned by their husbands ????We let such men off the hook and they go on ruining many more lives.? ? Who wants to wait for nature to take its own course ? Batat needs to be made to realize his mistake of ruining two women's and two children's lives.

The question of self respect doesn't arise at all. She anyway cannot live with this bigamist again. But she must get her child what is due.

It was really hilarious to read that Archu was stopping Vaishu from removing the mangal sutra. Does Archu have Alzheimer's or short term memory loss???😆.How can she forget how she removed her mangalsutra when her mother was not happy with the marriage with manav the first time??

And why does she talk as if she wants vaishu to go back to batat?? Sickening !!!

Wish they end this misery of Savita and vandu. Let them see good times.Put an end to their sufferings CVs