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Posted: 15 years ago

#81

"Why she shud be FORCED to like Archana by holding her at gunpoint this way BEATS ME .So if Archana is the LIGHT of his life , why shud others too like her is his insistence ? And does forcing someone to like really yield results or shud u just let that person be and maintain ur INDEPENDENT relation ? Lets agree to disagree coz back and forth nowdays tires me ."

Kools, I am not here to dispute all your VPs. I see the situation as a very sad one with both Manav and Savita being at fault and again feel sypathetic towards both on some points. To me the story so fay, culminating in the present track, neither Manav nor Savita is all bad. I cannot agree or respect your ONE SIDED view FOR THIS TRACK. My apologies. The above lines that I quoted from one of your posts is something I am finding very very hard to digest! I want to ask the forum ladies here, married or in a commited love relationship..... IF in real life, your mom/dad hated the guts of the man you love what would you do? Not just dislike the person, but constantly curse, verbally abuse, call names ALL THE TIME ! Its one thing your parents don't approve much your choice, but another thing being so violent abt. it all the times. Given such a situation, would you girls be able to turn a blind eye to all that, and continue a happy, healthy relationship with your folks INDEPENDENTLY??

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: sindoorfan
"Why she shud be FORCED to like Archana by holding her at gunpoint this way BEATS ME .So if Archana is the LIGHT of his life , why shud others too like her is his insistence ? And does forcing someone to like really yield results or shud u just let that person be and maintain ur INDEPENDENT relation ? Lets agree to disagree coz back and forth nowdays tires me ."

Kools, I am not here to dispute all your VPs. I see the situation as a very sad one with both Manav and Savita being at fault and again feel sypathetic towards both on some points. To me the story so fay, culminating in the present track, neither Manav nor Savita is all bad. I cannot agree or respect your ONE SIDED view FOR THIS TRACK. My apologies. The above lines that I quoted from one of your posts is something I am finding very very hard to digest! I want to ask the forum ladies here, married or in a commited love relationship..... IF in real life, your mom/dad hated the guts of the man you love what would you do? Not just dislike the person, but constantly curse, verbally abuse, call names ALL THE TIME ! Its one thing your parents don't approve much your choice, but another thing being so violent abt. it all the times. Given such a situation, would you girls be able to turn a blind eye to all that, and continue a happy, healthy relationship with your folks INDEPENDENTLY??

You can say u disagree with me ..............is it really necessary to tell me that u don't RESPECT my views and that they are ONE SIDED ? Who is to be the judge of THAT ? For the x number of posts that disagree with me for this view .........like ur post or dew's post or Tanyas post ..........there r many who agree too .............so how is MY view ONE SIDED and not yours ? Who is to decide that ?

Inspite of all this I still respect your view , even if it is DIAMETRICALLY opposite to my View . I wouldnt ever dream of not RESPECTING it even if I didnt agree with anythinG . Its Your view , thats it .......its so simple for me .

You found THIS thread a Kools Fans thread , I am surprised u dont look around the forum and notice threads where ARMAN fans gather only to praise Archana and Manav ..the leads , whatever nonsense they do . How come u didnt spot dissent when Dew was arguiing with me , Bonny gave a neutral view , Tanya gave her view , Gene Nisha and naava gave hers ? How can u say this is a Kools Fans thread nowdays .........who am I , someone great ? No , Im a simple person posting MY views ..............thats all ! If people agree with me nowdays its not coz they r MY fans but bcoz the storyline SUCKS and their views co incide with mine !

People r Archanas fans or Manavs fans coz they are somebody ...........why wud they be Kools fans .............who is Kool ? They jump in the discussion with THEIR views given by their observations .............lets not dismiss them off as KOOLS FANS please ! Its discrediting their intelligence .

Why urge ladies to join in and oppose me ? Those who are interested will come of their own accord ...........u give ur views , simple !

Yes it IS possible to maintain relations independently .its not all that difficult is my firm view . Archana gave Haldi Kunku to sister Varsha who came to her door turning up her nose and refusing to enter her house that she compared with SERVANT quarters . She was INSULTING Manav very badly but I didnt see ANY effect on Archanas relations with her sister for THAT .............so why cannot it be the SAME case with Manav ? He neednt take Archana to meet Savita like he foolishly does , neither does he need to sleep there at nights , but how about going every day , spending some time , asking if they need anything , giving household expenses ?Whats so wrong with this and how does it TAX Manav and how is this HARD TO DIGEST ? Neither am I advocating they shud go back nor have i admonished Archana for RAISING her voice to Savita............infact I gave her KUDOS .

Let us agree to disagree . I stated in my commentary my views r controversial . My objection is to ur statement that this is a Kools Fans thread . This is an insult to the intelligence of other viewers .

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: sindoorfan

I do not watch the serial, just read Tanya's updates and Kool's commentary. I like how passionately Kool points out her POV and keeps backing it up with arguments and counter arguments. Not that I agree to EVERY single point, but I do see the situations from her POV quite often. Untill recently I loved the fact that Kool's commentary had people actually argueing their opinions, not just posting their support and confirmations. I used to enjoy the difference of opinions and the respect towards such difference. Unfortunately off late I am seeing only members who are in complete agreement with Kool's view, posting. May be a post or 2 from Tanya differing on some points. That too not as regularly as before. The thread now reads more like a Kool's fan page! Where are the healthy arguements? This post bringing out a diff. POV was like a breath of fresh air 👏

This statement hurt me the most .

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
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Hmmm . The question is where is this cold fury , hate and frstration when Archanas Maayka treated him worst than an insect that crawled out from under a stone . They treated Archna with scant respect too . He LOVED them like a SAINT inspite of it . That doesn't JELL .

Kool, Manav is not going to stay with what he said ..he was angry and frustrated .The minute he finds out his mother is not well , he will go running to her . I think he is a wonderful son ..of course we will agree to disagree here but I will say again .he is a wonderful son .....

People say things they don't mean in the heat of the moment ..

Did you see me saying even one bad thing to savita for slapping Archana ...I didn't ...because it was a typical heat of the moment thing ....

No one has faced his cold fury for a long period of time , the only one who faced it was Archana but then those were very different days..

I hope from next week onwards we start seeing things moving i nthe positive direction for the Deshmukh family and the other Deshmukh bahu taking charge of the house ....

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: sindoorfan
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I want to ask the forum ladies here, married or in a commited love relationship..... IF in real life, your mom/dad hated the guts of the man you love what would you do? Not just dislike the person, but constantly curse, verbally abuse, call names ALL THE TIME ! Its one thing your parents don't approve much your choice, but another thing being so violent abt. it all the times. Given such a situation, would you girls be able to turn a blind eye to all that, and continue a happy, healthy relationship with your folks INDEPENDENTLY??

It will be very difficult for me to turn a blind eye to all this .What they are showing now in this show is a very complicted situation and I think what happened on sat ....it cannot go worse than that ...I think it just cannot go any lower and now things have to look up and the two main people concerned here ( savita and Manav ) should control themselves ...savita should accept that she is not well and needs medical help and Manav be there to provide her that ..Then take it from there ..One step at a time ...

Of course savita will have to acept Archana as her bahu .She doesn't have a choice .If she does not wish to see her every day then she should tell manav to have a seperate home but even then some respect has to be given to his wife and his garhasti ..

His marriage to Archana was a love marriage ...he was the one who initiated the whole thing by getting sindoor and filling her maang ..

he is a big boy and his decision has to be respected .

He carried his responsibility with Shravani right till the end ...now he has to do the same for his wife ...She has left everyone for him ... he is legally married to her , He lives with her , has physical relationship with her , her parents have accepted him as a dammad ......how can he be expected to leave her now .....his mother has to understand this .

But honestly it cannot go on if the parent hates your life partner this bad ...Litlle bit problems and differences are everywhere but not this much ...

Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: goblue
Hey Kools,

Posting almost after two months. Was in India for most time but busy with my dad's illness. He is suffering from exactly the same problem: memory loss of abstract and sometimes on the logical side too. He had a stroke and after that did not recognize any of us for 2-3 days. He is out of the hospital now and taking care of him was an eyeopener of how lost and vulnerable they are.

I have not seen many of the episodes, just read updates, but did not have the mental strength to post.

Going by what I read, once Manav realizes the illness, it will be so painful for him. What you want him to do (respect and take care of his mom just because she is a mom) is right from an idealistic pov but life seldom is ideal. Believe me, taking care of my father on many days was very exhausting but I did do it but to be honest somedays I wished there were other siblings to share my load.

Thankfully he is better now and can move around in the house by himself now but my mom needs to constantly be around. He is 80 and she is 78. After two months no matter how much I love them, I had to come back to USA as I have a husband and kids to take care of too. I worry everyday and feel guilty every day, but sometimes life is not ideal and choices are not easy.

Take care..

🤗 Anjali firstly a hug for meeting u after so many days

Secondly I know what ur saying coz my mom had paralytic stroke when I was in US and I pretty much cud NOT do anything for her as my sister did

Thirdly Manav doesnt stay abroad or even in another suburb he stays at a distance 5 minutes away

Fourthly I insist he shud NOT take Archana with him for geting abbused or insulted but go alone , do duty and come back

My objection was to his SIMPLY not going .coz his parents dont have his brother any more to fall back on .Vandu is a married daughter living with a khadoos saas who wont allow her to take on the role of Manav in that house

So my point is ..keep Archu away , do duty and let ur mom come around on her own , dont force Archu down her throat .its driving her to crazy hate .

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
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So my point is ..keep Archu away , do duty and let ur mom come around on her own , dont force Archu down her throat .its driving her to crazy hate .

I agree with you here .I wish it was not the case but things have gone very bad now .Seeing Archana will make savita more sick so for the time being manav will have to shift to his house alone ...

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

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But he was trying to do that with the alternate night stay arrangement 😕 ...the whole idea was what yo uare saying ...Just let Manav go and let savita soften up to Archana on her own ..tha twas the thought behind it but it all back fired when savita , instead of softening up got even more charged and started to hate Archana even more .....

Sheessh ...let's see what happens this week ...I cannot think about this problem any more ...very very complicated situation ...

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#89

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
But he was trying to do that with the alternate night stay arrangement 😕 ...the whole idea was what yo uare saying ...Just let Manav go and let savita soften up to Archana on her own ..tha twas the thought behind it but it all back fired when savita , instead of softening up got even more charged and started to hate Archana even more .....

Sheessh ...let's see what happens this week ...I cannot think about this problem any more ...very very complicated situation ...

Tanya NOTHING I have asked for is in ANY WAY jeopardising your Archana .

1] He shud NOT take Archu with him but go alone .......INDEPENDENTLY is my demand , suggestion , whatever

2] He shud have NEVER agreed to alternate night arrangement ,,,,,,,,,if u note I had OPPOSED it the moment it was suggested by Archu

3] I wanted Vaishu OUT so ARMAN cud have marital bliss

4] I wanted him not to praise Archu on Moms face as it drives her crazy but to do duty and come back

5] Now in this whole thing why bring this that UNLESS u like my spouse I wont even do my dUTies , fails me , whats so terrible about my thought process I dont understand

6] I even gave kudos to Archna and said SHE is blameless .So Im like HUH ?????

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naava

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Posted: 15 years ago

#90

hey guys..in my back yard are 5 almond trees blooming...and they are a symbol of hope for us here. That spring will indeed come even though winter lingers on. Let's project that for our beleaguered families and friends on PR... that things will turn around and the beautiful scent of the almond tree will waft through minds of everyone on the set and us too....from the cv's to Manav, Archana, Savita, Damodar, The K's etc.all the way to Varun & Sachu and the bab(ies) incognito & to us the viewers...and bring some smiles and hope for a better week and future. eh what?

i had trouble uploading an actual picture but maybe this link will work.. if it doesn't i will remove the post..:) :)

https://picasaweb.google.com/lh/photo/VPmn5SntAqIz5V5hyUbQUkjOEG59pXTExpIBfWyuVBo?feat=directlink

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