Kool's Commentary : Sep 15 PR - Page 6

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

{ My dear Jay , thats what she expected from Shravani when Shravni was yelling and yelling that go away from our lives ........she expected Shravni to tolerate it and LIKE HER .}

Archu looked unconvinced . { She WONT break with Manav } Sulo heard her DEVI DAUGHTER"S KARTOOTS WITH A CHUBBY THUDDING HEART . NO CONTROL OVER DEVI DAUGHTER .

My comments : Jay was PERFECTLY right and so was his mom . Its Archu who is totally WRONG . What the hell u mean he is ur DOST ? R u still harping on ur stupid PAVITRA RISHTA ? Then why r u marrying ? Go , be his MISTRESS ! When Shravni said these same things , people HATED her coz they felt Shravni was in no position to demand even the most normal of emotions .....like wanting her fiancee all to herself , that his EX shud be out of the picture .Today Jay is saying SAME thing . This is what i ALWAYS said .........that No hubby or wife will LIKE THE EX HOVERING IN THEIR LIFE AS ARCHU MANAV R DOING .To become EX instead of HUBBY WIFE VIA DIVORCE was THEIR DECISION .So why not HONOR IT ?Neitherdid they honor their MARRAIGE , NOR THE DIVORCE , nor THEIR PLEDGES TO NEW LIFE PARTNERS . Their rishta is not PAVITRA , its SICK .

Originally posted by: Arien_03

While I and almost everyone agree 100% that Archana and Manav should stay away from each other after divorce but when you draw comparison between Jaywant and Shravani saying that Shravani was equally right in her expectations, there are some subtle differences between the two and their approach in this matter.

Jay took matters to his fiancee, he didn't go to Manav to tell him to stay away from Archana, neither did he display any jealousy towards Manav. Jay spoke to Archana in such a dignified manner without a hint of accusation in his tone. On the other hand Shravani seldom confronted Manav but she called Archana 'the other woman' and not so nice denominations and that too when Archana was the legal wife and not even an 'Ex'. Let us see how long this continues .It wont be long before he talks to Manav , and very sharply too . No one can tolerate the type of nonsense that aRMAN try to sell under the name of Pavitra Rishta . As far as Shravni goes , she lived in the same house and saw the Raas Leela daily under her nose when both were promising something ELSE . And thats precisely my point , why the hell promise if u can't deliver and r soooo much in love ?Raas Leela continues even after divorce btw . And ur so right Archna was the 'legal wife' .........never a real one , Manav NEVER gave her the status , EVER after she came back and told her , ur the legal wife on paper only . I am marrying Shravni .

Jaywant knows Archana and Manav's relationship and reason for their separation and he respects their feeling, even though their sacrifice has nothing to do with him and that's why he spoke so judicously. Shravani also knows everything and she herself is part of the reason why Archana and Manav had to separate, yet she has no compassion for Archana whatsoever( and no gratitude for ArMan sacrifice). Why should Shravani ignore what Archana and Manav have done for her/Sachu and only focus on being Manav's fiancee and being possessive about Manav? Why should she be GRATEFUL FOR ETERNITY and worship Archanas feet as the DIVINE EX Forever either ? Coz this Manav Archu jodi seemed to expect just that ! That fling a marraige on her face and expect her to UNDERSTAND THEIR PAVITRA LOVE .......to allow Archna to waltz in and out whenever she pleased and to LOVE IT ! That she lOST the right to be possesive about Manav or feel jealous coz his ex wife Archu was a dEvi and she herself was entering a compro marraige is beyond me Arien . Feelings r feelings they dont go away just like that .Armans FEELINGS r still there , post divorce , why wud Shravnis go just coz she became unwed mom or coz she entered a compro marraige ?

After divorce Shravani was right in not wanting Archana and Manav to work togather but she was wrong in going to Archana and asking her to sacrifice her job to fulfill her wish.Yes and Archna rightly refuted her there . Supported her there . Wont be long before Jay tells something similiar to Manav too , ARMAN push people to these extremes by acting totally unreasonable . Like today Archna said Manav is My DOST . Which fiancee will like this answer ? Jay will see to it that Manav gets kicked out , women like Shravni throw emotional tantrums which r far less hurtfull , when it goes to the level of men , they r far more ruthless when jealous .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Originally posted by: vidyasu1

saffy i am a female like most you. I came in only because the soap brought up social, livelihood issues, and I was dismayed by the majority reaction to these issues.I seen an ideological gulf between people like me and the younger lot who have obviously grown up without seeing hardships. I guess that is natural. Sass-Bahu stuff does not interest me. And yes, why are females portrayed as either totally dumb or totally wicked on most soaps? Why can't we have an intelligent female lead who is sensitive and yet thinks clearly and is able to formulate mutually acceptable solutions? I have not heard one intelliegent syllable from archana whose idea of work is merely to hold a folder.