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Dabulls23

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Posted: 15 years ago

#171

Tanya she is in love with the misery her so called balidaan....She does not think @ realistic or logistic level...Her decisions are based on Manav and emotional level...She is into self destructive behavior...No one in a right mind would make decisions as ArMan made...There were other options they had available but chose to pick disasterous ones.

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toothbrush13

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Posted: 15 years ago

#172

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
WHY IS ARCHANA SO DESPERATE TO GET MANAV MARRIED TO SHRAVANI....?????

Because that's what Lord Shibu instructed her to do. 😆

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#173

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Tanya she is in love with the misery her so called balidaan....She does not think @ realistic or logistic level...Her decisions are based on Manav and emotional level...She is into self destructive behavior...No one in a right mind would make decisions as ArMan made...There were other options they had available but chose to pick disasterous ones.

Pleasy varsha , explain the black part ..I didn't undesratnd what yo uare saying ...

I undersatnad that yo uare calling her a person who is on a self destructive spree... so that means that she is an emotionaly unstable person..If that is the case , why has this not been told to us ..I mean how come her family has never seen this potentialy dangerous trait in her ....

Is she on a self destruction trip because she is guilty about sachin's death ????

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#174

Originally posted by: toothbrush13

Because that's what Lord Shibu instructed her to do. 😆

AS always you make pefect sense ....😆

Would love to get this answer from Lord Shibu ....

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#175

Originally posted by: Arien_03

I wonder if Manav ever pondered over this question himself or if he knows the reason already.

If this is the reason ( that she wants sachu to have Manav as a father as she feels that sachu lost his dad because of her ) then yes , manav knows the answer ...he knows that she is guilty an that is why she wants to do this for his brother's baby ....

Maybe that is why he has used this to convince her to marry ..he knows this will work ...

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 15 years ago

#176

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Pleasy varsha , explain the black part ..I didn't undesratnd what yo uare saying ...

I undersatnad that yo uare calling her a person who is on a self destructive spree... so that means that she is an emotionaly unstable person..If that is the case , why has this not been told to us ..I mean how come her family has never seen this potentialy dangerous trait in her ....

Is she on a self destruction trip because she is guilty about sachin's death ????

Tanya I did not watch the show when Sachin died so dunno how she felt...These behavior is portrayed after her marriage so there was no indicator prior to that she was on self destructive mode...She did make many decisions or conclusions w/o thinking...Not trusting Manav Initially..Not standin upto Savita's abuse, Hovering over and imposing on Shrav, Than making decision to divorce for her so called love for Manav...Rest is history post leap she has demonstrated very delusional behavior talking abt her ILs, Her husband, her baby etc...Dont remember exact words...She was divorced yaar....

If she loved Manav than she should not have agree for Divorce last time...Whole situation could have been sorted out w/o Manav marrying Shrav...They both made wrong decisions...

ANyone in a right state of mind would not have made the decisions she has made...Again her mother is not a good role model...Father does not have much input either...K family considers her the most mature person which is an amazing in itself...I think she is an emotional fool who does not make practical or logical decisions...

And If she meant the decisions she made (Divorce) she should have totally stayed away from Manav...That was another wrong behavior...Kaho kuchh karo kuchh aur...She needs a serious reality check...She has potential to be a well rounded person...she just has to let the 2nd half of her brain do its part...At this point she has used on emotional side of her brain...and heart...

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#177

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Pleasy varsha , explain the black part ..I didn't undesratnd what yo uare saying ...

I undersatnad that yo uare calling her a person who is on a self destructive spree... so that means that she is an emotionaly unstable person..If that is the case , why has this not been told to us ..I mean how come her family has never seen this potentialy dangerous trait in her ....

Is she on a self destruction trip because she is guilty about sachin's death ????

Yes she is . They r BOTH on a self destructive spree coz they hold themselves responsible for a MOTHER"S GRIEF .[ Here I mean SAVITA}

I always said in each post ..............This tyaag is not for Shravni AT ALL .they lie when they say that .Manav said its for 'saving' Shravnis honor ............giving baby legitimacy . Nope . Its about GIVING SACHIN BACK TO SAVITA. His Part remained in the form of the baby and they wanted her to have it and ease their own guilt .By then .both , Manav and Archana had realised that their marraige was more destructive in nature , not constructive .

Look at Archnas statement to Sulochna while leaving there for the 3 month stay . I HAVE TO DO THIS FOR MYSELF mORE THAN ANYBODYELSE ...........FOR THE GUILT I FEEL . I DONT KNOW OR CARE IF tHEY ACCEPT MY APOLOGIES OR NOT , I MUST DO IT FOR MY ATMA .

The complaint came from HER maayka .Her vahini did it .Her Mom did not give her manavs crucial phone from the jail .

She immediately shared the responsibility of that guilt with Manav .

Manav on his part felt tremendously guilty for marrying Archu by then . That marraige to his dream gal had plunged his family in grief and his bro had died BLAMING ARCHANA .Just before he left the house in that half drunk state , see what he said to Manav .Dada , Dada .......Vahini ...Vahini is responsible for all this ,\.She destoryed my dreams . What had i done to her Dada . Then he walked off , never to return .

So he gave up on his dream gal .Even after she came back , he didnt allow himself , as a prayaschitta , the thought of ever getting back together .

She on her part understood the guilt perfectly , shared it .And with an unspoken tacit understanding they gave Sachin back to Savita . For that .both placated Shravni .Therein lies ur answer .

In a sense they were right . Savita Is happy with Sachu . She sees Savchin in Sachu .ARMAN"s kids r never gonna have that importance . Sachu has it coz his father DIED . Its not about Shravni at all , its all about dEAD SACHIN AND RELIVING HIM . Shravni is just an excuse , a way to hol;d on to the baby . They give a damn about her , all of them .

Since they r human , at times the mask of perfection slipped and we saw some moments between them . But they both know they r finished .Their marraige never took off .

If CVS show ARMAN marraige they better pull it off credibly . It wont make sense now .

If they show Jay marrying Archu , at least show Manav kicking the job and give him some self respect .Why shud he stay in a scenario where BOTH aRchu and Jay r his bosses . Its bad enuf that he gets licked in front of Dharmesh or Satish .

Also I hope the Jay Archu marraige is a happy one like the Kabhie Kabhie marraige .........not an unhappy one .Otherwise show Archu single but happy , chalega .

What I dont want is GRIEF for Archu or MANAV .

And I say this again ...........Savita broke them up . A mothers uncontrollable grief broke them up . Savita tried to bring them back by saying U both be Sachus parents .Archu refused .Its one of the few right things she did .She didnt take the sin of seperating a son from his mom yET ONCE AGAIN........this time , Shravni and Sachu .Instead she only moved out .

There is no end to this story .sachu is a permanent factor in this story now , so is Savitas craze for him .The CVS damaged the story with the death of Sachin .

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 15 years ago

#178

Can someone tell me what had happed that sachin drank and said those words abt Archu Vahini to Manav b4 leaving the house and died in accident...

I know ArMan both are living in self imposed guilt which has turned into this turn of events

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#179

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Can someone tell me what had happed that sachin drank and said those words abt Archu Vahini to Manav b4 leaving the house and died in accident...

I know ArMan both are living in self imposed guilt which has turned into this turn of events

He returned home heavily drunk coz his visa to US got rejected due to a criminal record ....the jail sentence . Girish left in a huff . and phoned to say he is calling the marraige off .Sachin went in that drunk state to talk to him and while returning , walked in middle os the road , and was hit by a truck .

In that scene .........when Manav asked Sachin why he was drunk [ just before Girishs phone call i think ] Sachin told him haltingly .........Dada , Dada , Vahini , what did she get by doing that complaint and destroying my life .U shud have seen Manavs face then . After that he left and never returned . He asked something to the effect of .Why Vahini took this badla or sumthing . Or why Vahini did this Dada .

The Sachin who loved Archu in his lifetime , died blaming her . This is a fact . These were his last words to Manav . [ besides I have to go and talk to Shravni now]

Manav never allowed Archu in his life after that . NEVER . He killed his personal dream right then . And Archu understood it and both decided to make Savita happy by somehow giving her Sachin .[ The baby .]

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#180

You make good sense

Kool , my best friend from school , she got married 2 months before I did , she was pregnant with ehr first baby , newly married ...madly in love with her husband .

He brother was driving the car . Her brother made a mistake , it was his mistake and there was a horrible accident . Her husband died on the spot and she lost her baby ...She herself was in the hospital for mental treatment for months ...

I have met her many times after that ...Not once has anyone ever made her brother made to feel guilty .

Not even the boy's parents , Rani's husband was their only son ...

This is it ...

That is why they are called accidents ..It is no one's fault when they happen ...

Sachin's death could have been blamed on many other things also...most important that insensitive and ill timed telephone call from Girish Ji where he in a cold manner broke off the engagement after seeing what a sad condition Sachin was ....

Or manav for letting his brother go out alone in an intoxicated state ...ans most important sachin for not looking when crossing the road ....

But look like it was archana who was balmed for sachin's death because of manjusha 's complaint ...

If manav knows that she stil is doing all this because of somewhere she feels guilty for sachin's death then I am surprised at his so called love . How can he let her live with a guilt of something she did not even do ......

I have a tendency of feeling guilty very quickly , my loved ones are always tellign me ...forget it , let it go . it's not your fault ..Even if the mistake is genuinely mine even then they say ' big deal so what ' , stop saying sorry .....

I think Archana has got a pretty rough deal from Manav ..At least once he should have said ' Sachin's death was not your fault ' but looks like he will play that card again ...this time to convince her to get married again ....

Manav has allowed her to live in this guilt . He is older than her ...she follows his with whatever he tells her . it was his duty to relieve her of a guilt of a mistake she did not even commit ....

Anyway , thanks for making it clear . I have no idea what will happen in future . If what yo uwant is shown ( the Manav Shravani and Archan jaywant marriages ) there could be a serious threat of very low TRPs ...

Espacialy with the manav Shraavni marriage ....that is why this marriage keeps getting delayed .. writers are clearl y worried to show what they have always wanted to show ....a happy content marriage between Manav and Shraavni , with Archana's blessings ...so Sachu can stay with Savita ..

I believe this is what the writers have always wanted to show but just couldn't.....

Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago