Kool's Commentary : 6 April PR - Page 4

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Looks like All Izz Well with Girish Ji ......

Koolsadhu,
You have a great sense of humour. Love the way you rip through the saccarine sweetness that envelopes Archana. I am so not for Savita's turnaround because of Archana's niceness. I think the whole premise of Archana is that she will be nice even to the worst person in her husband's family but will not tolerate anything against his family. The adarsh bahu who will take all pain but radiate only happiness like an overzealous room heater. This probably works for the show and there are enough fans of this character to prove it does but its often very dangerous advice to someone in her condition. Any woman whose MIL harassed her for more dowry, was kicked out repeatedly, downright ignored by her husband, treated like a doormat all the time - is no Devi. She needs help. Women who are in similar circumstances and watching all this may be tempted to emulate her to their detriment. The fact is, real life bullies like Savita dont change overnite and the circumstances in this serial which have prompted the 'change' are simply not real. This fails on so many levels - all characters are mockeries of real life situations.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Tanya wat the hell was all that about ............why is no one asking Girish about the garage ? Can u believe it ?

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

As a woman , I wud never condone Rape .And on a serious level , I Dont , even for revenge . But I also feel equally horrified as a woman to see such callousness from two women ..........Rasika and Manju towards Another woman ..........Vandu , for marital rape . The way Rasika unsympathetically told her it will get better with time and the way Manju is STILL blood thirsty about Manav inspite of she and her mom DESTROYING the DEshmukhs ..............is UNFORGIVABLE. All others r getting poetic justice so why is Manju scot free and being fed fruits and milk like a queen !

The biggest source of pride and arrogance for Rasika and consequently Manju is Rasika's wealth. Looks like Ajit is steadily chipping away at all that - hence the scene today. It would be nice if Rasika went dirt poor and Ajit was sick with some incurable disease. Should serve all egos right.

Originally posted by: tarantulla_p

The biggest source of pride and arrogance for Rasika and consequently Manju is Rasika's wealth. Looks like Ajit is steadily chipping away at all that - hence the scene today. It would be nice if Rasika went dirt poor and Ajit was sick with some incurable disease. Should serve all egos right.

Originally posted by: tarantulla_p

Koolsadhu,
You have a great sense of humour. Love the way you rip through the saccarine sweetness that envelopes Archana. I am so not for Savita's turnaround because of Archana's niceness. I think the whole premise of Archana is that she will be nice even to the worst person in her husband's family but will not tolerate anything against his family. The adarsh bahu who will take all pain but radiate only happiness like an overzealous room heater. This probably works for the show and there are enough fans of this character to prove it does but its often very dangerous advice to someone in her condition. Any woman whose MIL harassed her for more dowry, was kicked out repeatedly, downright ignored by her husband, treated like a doormat all the time - is no Devi. She needs help. Women who are in similar circumstances and watching all this may be tempted to emulate her to their detriment. The fact is, real life bullies like Savita dont change overnite and the circumstances in this serial which have prompted the 'change' are simply not real. This fails on so many levels - all characters are mockeries of real life situations.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

tarantulla , infact forget changing overnite , women like Savita don't change AT ALL . Inborn nature goes only when the body is cremated .....its an old Hindu saying . So this show sends a wrong wrong message to women like Archu and Vandu out there ..........instead of telling them that get out ASAP and save ur lives they tell them to continue there , suffer abuse , have romantic expectations that sasuralwallahs and abusers change with niceness and drive urself to suicide .

So true!! Something that jumps to mind is when Rihanna was abused by the sicko Chris Brown last year, the entire country (US) leapt to advise her to get out and abusers never change. This is my problem with this. I dont know where these creatives get their dumb inspirations from. If you think there are countless women suffering circumstances like this, show them plausible solutions to their problems. Empower them, why show junk? I so badly wish we could have a dialogue with these idiots.

Kool, you are right .. Why is no one asking Girish Ji about the garage . Him and his daughter are allowed to get away with murder . Archana takes lift in a man's car and immediately it is considered that she is involved , she is working in her boss's office and she is called charitraheen........

I am not going to be angry with Savita here . Her purpose in life was to find faults in Archana and put Shravani up so she did this . But what about the so called lover boy ......

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Kool, you are right .. Why is no one asking Girish Ji about the garage . Him and his daughter are allowed to get away with murder . Archana takes lift in a man's car and immediately it is considered that she is involved , she is working in her boss's office and she is called charitraheen........

Then Shravani gets pregnant before marriage and that is called sacha Pyar ( didn't even last 4 months before she fell for the sacha pyar's big brother ) .

And now Girish Ji ....no one is asking him about the illegal construction of the garage .

I know Archu too is responsible for the bakri behaviour but at least she is paying for her mistakes by the way she is getting treated .

What about Manav, how come he lets this father daughter team get away with murder .

That is what has put me off him so much ..