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Kool reporting from base , The Second Half of the Dhamaka Party .
Guys guys much as I dislike the Shakkar philosophy , It was a very mindblowing perfomance by Miss Shakkar . A standing ovation to her right at the outset .👏👏👏
The Gunda deserved a dressing down and boy Miss Shakkar gave it to her . She blasted her left , right and center . She even slid the blasted ghungroos on that smooth tiled floor in such a way that they went right to the Gunda's feet .😆😆😆😆 The Tiger noticed that , aghast .
But before I begin today I wanna give some adjectives for the characters in this Show
The Men , especially the Deshmukh men .............IMPOTENT .
Manav .................Truly Impotent . In the real sense . He watched his mother dance and curled his fists and got stopped by Kaka !!! ????
Kaka .............USELESS . Why the hell did he stop Manav ? Any explanation ? That was Not a rational mind , it was COWARDICE .
Damo ............Only one expression on his bearded ape like face ..........even apes emote more and this was HIS WIFE whom he had promised to protect in the saat pheres once upon a time
Vandu ..........Ekdum Useless Girl . For The stupiddd decision I took , get slapped Dada Vahini , Now Mom u dance like a prostitute ! I am In depression boo hoo hoo ! Will some one please slap Vandu to snap her out of that depression she has supposedly sunk into ? I understand suicide victims r emotionally fragile and I have full sympathy for her but this is your Mom dammit ! Girls will commit suicide if they see their moms dancing like this , not beg them with tears to continue dancing so that they can have a marraige !
Manav disappointed me the most today as creatives made Archna mahaan at his expense . They honestly butchered a very nice character they themselves came up with . Am 😕
The most tragic and unbelievable part was when Savita put the ghungroos on , walked slowly and danced , crying all the time . Guys , it was obvious to ALL that Savita was dancing out of coercion , not by will . She was sobbing , dammit and yet no one spoke ? It is UNBELIEVABLE ! In Maharashtrian functions or any other too , IMMEDIATELY people will speak up and that too publicly ! What Maharashtrian culture is Ekta Mai showing ...........has she even been to any Marathi function to witness how these people talk or react or what their sensitive points are ? Marathi people are very sensitive about such issues and will walk off with their daughter ..........they dO NOT believe Marraige is the end of Life , even the lowest strata are more spirited than this and go in for Kaadimod or divorce ! Amchi porgi amhala jad zaali naahi is a common famous Marathi dialogue ,,,,,,,,,,,meaning , Our daughter is NOT a burden to us ! Ask anyone please !
About Archana only 3 things did not jell .
1] Did she realise that perhaps Rasika got this emboldened as she requested Vandu to slap her and took those slaps and didnt squash this naked arrogance right at the root itself ?
2] Does this mean that an aged woman dancing is more humiliating than getting slapped like puppets and clear evidence of every night marital rape still being done ? Coz Archu has kept quiet about the rape , and had been the one to suggest that the slaps shud be HIDDEN . So what exactly is the boundary to define 'HUMILIATION ' ? Getting slapped is not , marital rape is not ..in which a tender body is subjected to vilest of abuse , but dancing of an aged woman is ?
3] Her telling Rasika that learn to be a saas by observing my saas .....she is sharp tongued but will rush ahead to defend her bahu if needed . When did Savita ever do that ? Why did Archu falsely glorify her own ma in law ? Savita too had done vile abuse on her . It is a different thing that Archna DID NOT MIND that abuse . Does that reduce the horrific nature of that abuse ? Rasika unsympathetically , to save her own butt applied meds on Vandu ...........Savita too had inhumanly remarked that now we will only have to look after this useless girl when Archu had fallen off the balcony and was brought up by people .She had not felt a trace of any emotion as a human being at that point . The way she had put water and wiped Archus sindoor ...........was not that INHUMAN and didnt it desrve rage ?
And to top it all , Archu and Savita.........two women who by now KNOW of the marital rape , walked out WITHOUT TAKING VANDU .
Interesting points :
Rasika told the waiters to give The Duffers plastic cups as they are cheapos and canot handle fine glass ware . Stll the Duffers did NOT stage a walk out .
Manju was clearly uncomfortable with her mom's uncontrollable and blatant arrogance and tried to warn her that it was HER status that would ultimately get affected . She tried telling her sibling too , but the Tiger , after one look at his moms face signalled to Manju NOT to say anything as he knew it was pointless . He knows his mom more well than Manju it seems .
Chubby Face told the Laughing Wimp in a side whisper that The Gunda had planned this all along only to Insult The Duffers and The Laughing Wimp , who was not laughing today , shushed her to be silent . He then stood there stunned and silent with his mouth open .
The Sleepy Wimp watched Satish and Varshu dancing sleepily and indulgently , with full blessings to the couple while Bunface smiled uneasily . She is always uneasy when she watches how smitten her son is with Varshu .
Satish and Varsha had a moment in which we saw the tigress shy with her man ! Awww . 😳 Satish took her so like a man to the dancing floor ! The Sanskaari Ullus watched with indulgence and smiles .
The Gunda pulled Manav and Shravani on the dance floor and Manav , uncomfortable coz Archu was watching , walked away . Makes any sense ? He had put sindoor when Archu was watching and had gotten engaged when Archu was watching so why this drama now ? { Guys , Guys , The Gunda is playing the Divide and Rule policy between the two wives scenario and having a blast . She will endear herself to Shravni soon with her tactics !]
Shravni GLARED at Archu when Manav walked away as she is fed up of Archu's weepy helpless face in the background and then Manav's cold indifference .........it has become a modus operandi kinda thing .
The Tiger asked Vandu to dance ! OMG ! He first asked her politely by offering his hand and vandu looked foolishly away ..........she shud know him by now that he DOESN'T take well to rejection AT ALL . Guys , that is so NOT the way to handle THe Tiger . He then forcibly took Vandu on the dance floor and made her dance , and touched her with sexual force on her waist and back to enjoy her scared shrinking . Guys this is the second time I have noticed this , that He gets irritated when she shrinks away and avoids him as a man .His Ego gets ruffled .😆 Even in the kitchen she had shrunk away and he had grown irritated . I feel that anyways if Vandu has embraced this life with her own will , why doesnt she study him as a man and please him so that things get easier for her to survive ? Yucky though it sounds , isnt it better than enduring marital rape ? What Vandu needs to do is to get UNDER THE TIGER"S SKIN . She has to UNDERSTAND Ajit The MAN .
Vandu looked fab in that red , green and gold designer sari .
The Sleepy Wimp and Bunface were highly embarassed to see Savita dancing and didnt like it A BIT .
Archu told The Tiger that he shud feel ashamed to see his wife's family harassed this way . The Tiger was slightly taken aback , did u guys see that moment ? He hadn't thought of it from that point of view ..........it hasn't sunk in his brain yet that VANDU IS HIS WIFE . He thinks she is some prize object he has picked from the street ! He gets taken aback when someone calls Vandu his PATNI . 😆 Btw , how come Archu never asked Manav this question ...........that how do u keep quiet when ur own wife is harassed in front of u ? What a hypocrite !
Archu's voice softened when she started questioning Manju . May I know why ? The fire that was there while blasting Rasika and Ajit mellowed when Manju came in the picture ..........why ?Coz she is Archu's brother's wife !
In tomorrows's precap we see Shravni blasting Archu and Archu LISTENING . Shravni is way out of line , and Savita tells her U shud have defended me . Although I dont exactly agree with that , it will be interesting to watch as now Shravni will turn VAMP .
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