Kool's Commentary : 1 April PR - Page 5

The only thing I think he should have done is honestly let know shravani about his feelings.

I feel his wife-to-be deserved this much honesty from him.

She asked him thrice about his love,he remained stubborn....for a mature,responsible guy like Manav,he behaved a bit childishly.

In giving happiness to his mother and family,he forgot he's putting shravani's future at stake...I had expected more maturity from him.

One thing Manav seriously needs to rectify is ...stop hiding things from the right persons

Hail Hail Hail Gen. Kool's for notttttttttttt bashing Archana....thanks so much...I agree with ur points..eulogizing Sav aai was too much...leaving Vandu behind...huge blunder but after watching the video...I have to salute my gal...RA got one verbal flogging today...she had no response for my gal......as one person described it.."RA was annihilated"..ha ha ha...when she shut up ajit the second time...oh lawdddddddd..loved it....and as I mentioned before, it was a Kodak moment when she flung those ghungroos at RA feet.......all were shocked...

Now for serious points, I am totally amazed at the shock and dumb expressions of all in attendance when Sav aai was asked to dance and was dancing...and when Archana was blasting left, right and center....They almost looked frightened..I cannot imagine such a thing happens in reality....How can this President of a Women's Club could behave in such a dishonorable manner and her guests remained mute....scandalous. Not one of her high society guest said anything...Am I to believe they were too stunned to react?

The men were weak..Manav is being portrayed as a spineless guy but this time I am happy that he did not create a scene....it would have justified RA's ridicule about their low class status...for me, the tables turned and she seemed to have a cheap mentality. I cannot imagine what she achieved by talking about plastic cups...pure crap...

Sav aai is not my fav person...way down on my list...but felt really bad for her..I hope she learns a lesson about how not to degrade ppl especially archana..

Vandu....what can I say other than the Lokhandes have her looking like Royalty..ha ha ha....but sad they left her there..cause we know how RA can get even.

Archana not blasting Manju...Kool's u said it....Manju looked embarrassed and uncomfortable...I wont blame her too much...for this particular incident.

My take on the whole Manav/Shravani dance floor fiasco is that he did not want to dance with her…period…...no doubt he loves archana but the guy cant stand her....I was sooooooooo proud of him for doing that...she was humiliated....thank u manav ..ha ha ha..

I laughed so much on ur take about Ajit thinking vandu is his prize possession and not his wife.....ha ha ha...hilarious..

Ya, thinking what Sav aai means by saying u should have defended me..but I hope Shravani is belittled further tomorrow...she was so excited to be in manav's arms but my guy (for that moment..lol) walked off the dance floor.... I already posted my take on that gal...

One thing for me that stood out was after blasting everyone left, right and center then saying aai let's go....and aai stood stilll....my gal went into low tone and said...do what u want to me at home..but lets go..ha ha ha....she was prepared for aai's backlash...poor gal...

And I really hope Ekta did not pull an April Fool's Joke on us and everything gone back to same.....

Maybe its my personal opinion, but how much more maturity does Manav have than Shravani regarding love and marriage?

Arey, the guy thought of love and marriage for the first time when he met Archana. He had never thought before it at all. Getting mature due to poverty and responsiblities or due to age and getting mature in a relationship like marriage are two very different things is what I believe. Otherwise those who marry late would be the best husbands and wives in the world.

As even shravani rightly said to Manav once- "Umar mein choti hun main apse. Duniya maine kam dekhi hai, par pyar maine bhi kiya hai."

There was a film, 'Cheeni Kum' which portrayed this thing very well. A 64 year old guy falls in love, and is not mature or sensible about it- he is kiddish, wildly attracted and egoistic in front of his loved one- simply bcos this is the first relationship of his life.

As such, I really don't expect Manav to think, shravani is younger and doesn't understand, I know more about marriage and love- she has needs of a woman and one day she will fall out of love for Sachin and understand that. How can Manav even think of this thing when he himself is going through a similar phase- thinking that his life is over with Archana gone, and now he won't be able to love anyone else at all. When he hasn't given this consideration to himself, then how would he give this consideration to someone else, seeing how committed she was, and still is towards Sachin, and even having his child. He must be feeling, when I can't imagine my life with someone else, inspite of the fact that I hate Archana, then how can I expect her to forget Sachin so easily when they loved each other so much and is now going to be the mother of his child. He could in a way, identify Shravani's pain, cos they were both going through the same thing- heartbreak.

I'm not saying Manav is right, but I frankly feel we are expecting too much, keeping in mind his circumstances. Laying all the blame on Manav saying he was elder, and should have thought and exonerating Shravani saying she was younger and immature is not correct in my opinion.

Plus, what would be the age of Shravani by estimate? 24??? Then shravani is as mature as Manav, cos it is a medically proven fact that women mature much earlier than men, almost five years earlier. That is why in olden days, people looked for elder matches, about 5 years elder for their daughters. (not the most important reason, but one of the important reasons)

Ali

Education HAs nothing to do with experience and maturity .If that was the case , many young giels studying here in highschool wud not have gotten pregnant . Manavs less education cannot be an excuse for him being immature . Circumstances make a person mature and he became very mature at a very early age due to responsibilities on his shoulder and he nEVER takes any decision emotionally , but has learned to control emotions very well .

Secondly I am talking here of the experience that has come to Archu and Manav both due to circumstances in life . They both shouldered responsibilities early in life and matured early as they both compromised on many private dreams , feelings . So u see they learned what COMPROMISE means .

Shravni didnt .She said yes , right , but till that point she had NOT compromised on any aspect in life . Being young , getting carried away by sentiment and saying YES is one thing and really understanding what the word Compromise entails is another thing . Manav shud have understood that .When he went to talk to Girish to plead him to forgive Shravni , he was talking as an elder as someone who UNDERSTOOD .

Whatever she has done for him , Maanv and his wife have done 10 times more in every way ...Still she does not think of these people as her well wishers ..

I know no one will agree with me just as no one had about sulochna at one point .

Addenise how r u feeling now dear ?Loved ur response ........please take plenty of fluids .