well then to each his own .But my POV is
Archana shames us women . Women r not kachra . She reduced herself to kachra . U wanna know why Shravni pulled her by the hand ? Coz Archna took it .Varsha wud have turned around and twisted Shravnis little wrist . Everyone blamed Shravni , no one blamed Archna .
May i ask why ? If Archu has guts to slap Ajit , why not shravi?
Archna doesnt stand up for herself , she did not slap Ajit even after knowing that he sent her to brothel . She even didnt want police complaint made against AJit so that two families will be destroyed ...see the understanding looks between her and her devta pati Manav the lallu . See the immensely stupid decisions Archna takes .Letting a demon like Ajit go free like this may lead to other women being abused coz Ajit has real bad blood in him . But Archna didnt think that way . Now when Vandu is almost raped she went and slapped Ajit , why was this slap not given when she understood that Ajit sent her to brothel ..........coz she gives no importance to her own self and this is supposed to be something GREAT for us women is the infuriating message in this serial .
She sleeps on the kitchen floor on a chaddar ? Boss , shes there on a court order ! If the court is notified that everyone in the house sleeps on a mattress and only she sleeps on a mat , they will put them inside prison for ill treating her . She eats food inside the kitchen and doesnt mind howmuchever she is pushed or shoved just so she can get few moments of boo hoo haa haa on that Manavs shoulder ?
What example does she set for her younger sis Vaishu or even Vandu ? To top it after doing all this BS she actually teaches her sisters to follow her GREAT path and become losers .......sell ur jewellery and give money to bro , become a bhikaari and stand there without anything in ur neck , ears [ like she is now] .....when u go to sasural be grateful u got that sasural , become shakkar .in other words , suffer abuse but dont go to maayka ?
Arre then why the hell did she go on the Satryanarayan day after seeing those pictures ? That too she shud have tolerated and stayed there na ? So what if pati is photographed with various prostitutes , do ur DHARMA and swallow even that BS , as it is , now she is tolerating even worse BS than that !Any logic there ?
She devalued education and is suffering all this voluntarily . Thats the reason I stopped feeling anything dfor her ......in my eyes God too cannot help those who dont wish to help themselves . For two hours in the evening she could not go to nightschooll or study quietly in kitchen ?No she is defending Shravni to chawl women inspite of Shravni telling her to butt out .
Today i felt real good when Shravni told her I dont care and I will go . She suddenly became silent . She has lost track of simple etiquette that HELP ONLY WHEN U R ASKED TO .Otherwise it becomes ANNOYING .
Archna shows WRONG path to women sso I dont feel for her .IF I worked in a center for abused women I wud show them Varsha , and when I show then Archu it wud categorically be to tell them NOW THIS IS SOMETHING TO BE AVOIDED . THIS IS HOW ABUSE INCREASES ...........by tolerating it , U encourage it .
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