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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: iamindian

Waah!!I DONOT BELIEVE THAT MY POST GOT MORE REPLIES THAN ARTI's😕!!!!!
Well,to Alllllllllllllll people who've Replied,I must say that your Replies are prrof enough that My Post had(n Still had a point!)
We're saying HI instead of Namaste(or even Hello that we'd learnt from the Colonists!)..... Yep,Nope instead of Yes n No😲We're giving treat to our Buddies(Not Dosts) at either Mac Donalds Or Pizza Hut instead of komalas who sell Dosa n other desi khaana.....we shop in Malls buying Foren Brands.... we cannot live Without MICROWAVES (As if humaari Mataji-Dadima khaana nahin banati thee😆)
we're watching Bay Watch(Specially In India!)we serve our guests red wine instead of Masala Chai-Madras Coffee,we're having Late Night Parties,having tatoos on our arms,.women have taken to Drinking,one night stands ,skimpy clothes and Boyfriends(you know..they're just freinds..we have fun with them ..Chill out!😉 india has to progress Yaar So if Patis are Soooooooooooo Closed minded how will Patnis progress?) to prove they're Progressing n Hence India's also seeing rising Divorce cases that was Unthinkable(And Toooooooooooooooooo Shameful) even few years back.... And WHAT's THE REASON FOR ALL THIS,Haan?? Andhon ki tarah Nakal karna...buss!! And no body can deny that! No matter how much people try to distract this Truth with other points, then what's the truth haan?? Where have we learnt these from?? These were never ever in India.....


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I dont think we should all just bash the poster who was speaking about american teenagers being forward. Its true that he or she was generalizing and maybe was a bit stereotypical in establishing a binary between american and indian teens. But, I think what he or she was trying to say was that american culture in general is more forward than indian traditional culture. Its a fact. In the states and especially amongst many white American, pre-marital sex is not a big deal. and clubbing, partying and drinking is just normal stuff. For sure, there are many americans who have strong moral values and respect their parents, just as there are many indian teenagers who dont have any moral values at all. I think the issue at hand is the culture at large, and the poster did not mean to imply that everyone in America falls within that culture. I dont think we should all just pounce on him or her, and step back and try to understand what she was really trying to say. clubbing, partying, boyfriends are NOT part of Indian traditions and its a fact. These things (regardless of whether they reflect the lives of ALL americans or not) have come from things such as satellite and american tv, etc.
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learn to use american words properly.
Now, I whatever i said in my post was not only from the view point of an Indian American teenager living in NY (who according to you only has indian knowledge from visiting india), but also from a view point of a premed student who has lived in America all her life and is currently majoring in Indian studies. I have read all the vedas, geeta, countless books on Indian civilization and I have both an academic and social point of view on Indian lifestyle. So don't think we are in any sort of confusion regarding India.
I live in American and yet I am getting a degree about India. How many of you live there and do that?? PS: If you have any literacy at all, you will know that if I fall down a well, you don't have to follow. If you do, that's your judgement, and you CANNOT blame any one else for that!

Also you cannot generalize American or Indian culture because both are extremely diverse. In India every state is like a different country with its own culture and America is a land of immigrans where you will find people from every signle country and cultures of the world. So because the palate of both the countries is soooo diverse, you CANNOT generalize.

PS: No one here watches baywatch any more... that is wayyyy tooooo old school

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: fabulous05



Great post! 👏 its so straightforward yet many people dont understand it.! well im glad that you are proud to be and american teenager that still has her indian values, because most of us do and honestly hun we dot need to explain ourselves to anyone on the forum, your true values will show in the future and as longg as your parents are proud that you are a good person, you will always have the most respect you deserve. Best of luck to you in the future 😃



thanks 😳
i dont care about what any of my friends do...im not gonna follow them either 😆
The thing is, i keep an open mind...i dont force my beliefs on others.

Plus, i know better than that ...my parents are just really supportive & they trust me so much
so that automatically makes me want to keep their respect



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: free2ryme



learn to use american words properly.
Now, I whatever i said in my post was not only from the view point of an Indian American teenager living in NY (who according to you only has indian knowledge from visiting india), but also from a view point of a premed student who has lived in America all her life and is currently majoring in Indian studies. I have read all the vedas, geeta, countless books on Indian civilization and I have both an academic and social point of view on Indian lifestyle. So don't think we are in any sort of confusion regarding India.
I live in American and yet I am getting a degree about India. How many of you live there and do that?? PS: If you have any literacy at all, you will know that if I fall down a well, you don't have to follow. If you do, that's your judgement, and you CANNOT blame any one else for that!

Also you cannot generalize American or Indian culture because both are extremely diverse. In India every state is like a different country with its own culture and America is a land of immigrans where you will find people from every signle country and cultures of the world. So because the palate of both the countries is soooo diverse, you CANNOT generalize.

PS: No one here watches baywatch any more... that is wayyyy tooooo old school



wow, thats great :)
im also thinking of going into medical 😛
Yep...there are manyy different cultures in US
The school i go to is very diverse and i have friends of many different religions/cultures
now how many can you actually generalize?
america isnt just full of club going, drunk, bad people!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jess.



wow, thats great :)
im also thinking of going into medical 😛
Yep...there are manyy different cultures in US
The school i go to is very diverse and i have friends of many different religions/cultures
now how many can you actually generalize?
america isnt just full of club going, drunk, bad people!



I know right?? but I guess some people just won't understand... their view of America is from movies and tv and myths... and since they don't actually live here, they don't know any thing other than what they have seen on tv or have been taught since they were kids!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Free2 Rhyme..I actually Live in USa.... & pleeeeeeeeeeeeease.... before telling me about how much Teenagers follow Traditions,its better if u please chang the tagline Of ur user name........ Sex is the word teenagers r crazzy after but they pretend they don't even know how to spell it/know anything about it..Uffffffffffffffffffff!!😲 & One last thing...If this line makes u Happpppppppppppy so be it..... In Foreign teenagers(allnot only Indian teenagers living in Foren) are Devissssss and Sanyasins😉.....Khush?😆
Edited by iamindian - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: iamindian

Free2 Rhyme..I actually Live in USa.... & pleeeeeeeeeeeeease.... before telling me about how much Teenagers follow Traditions,its better if u please chang the tagline Of ur user name........ Sex is the word teenagers r crazzy after but they pretend they don't even know how to spell it/know anything about it..Uffffffffffffffffffff!!😲 & One last thing...If this line makes u Happpppppppppppy so be it..... In Foreign teenagers(allnot only Indian teenagers living in Foren) are Devissssss and Sanyasins😉.....Khush?😆



spell it or know anything about it? :$
we are taught about it in like the 5th grade!
no one here above 5th grade can say they've never heard abt sex
well there are teenagers around the wholeee world
so they're all sex crazy i bet

and NO, not everyone here are devis and whatever
not everyone in india is either.
thats what we are trying to say




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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jess.



spell it or know anything about it? :$
we are taught about it in like the 5th grade!
no one here above 5th grade can say they've never heard abt sex
well there are teenagers around the wholeee world
so they're all sex crazy i bet

and NO, not everyone here are devis and whatever
not everyone in india is either.
thats what we are trying to say






talking about my username was a personal attack and I don't appreciate it.
India has the second highest population in the world and they did not all come from the sky.
Yes we know how to spell sex and we know all about it. As jess said, we are taught about it in 5th grade... for awareness not irresponsibility!knowing about sex does not make you a better person. Infact it is very impo*ntant to make sure human species does not die off!! 😉
the only thing we are all trying to say is that we should RESPECT cultures and traditions from both and countries and not judge either one. After all, who is to say one is worse off than the other?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Oh by the way, its free2ryme and free2rHyme!!
if you insult someone, do it right!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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" learn to use american words properly" What Do u Mean? U learn the Spelling of the Word Rhyme 1st!!
Was a Personal Attack ....& You have done it first!!
Practice what u preach..n by the way..What does Ryme mean? huh?? I know an english word called Rhyme..maybe U can tell me the meaning of the Word Ryme? And since when do you put a small letter before an country's name😆??
And as far as my post,I have posted my views in this Forum generalising the actual trend of Indian n Non Indian Teenagers..and nobody can deny that there's a lottttttttttttttttt of difference btween the Principles and Practices followed by people of these 2 countries though I appreciate many many things of foreign countries but I really cannot agree to the fact that % of teenagers having premarital relationship outside India is comparable with that in India nor is it that life of Teenagers is comparable and here I refer not to Desis living abroad.. Desis living abroad are NRIs,they're Indians after all,not natives of that country,so the Desi Teenagers abroad can not and they never may give a glimpse of how the 'real' picture of the society of that country is..
and Yes,there's a 'trend' to follow these foreign things nowadays as they're showing in case of Varsha in Pavitra Rishta..because nowadays some people do think these are 'better' and 'ways of enjoyment' as Varsha said the same too.....of course t nothing from the Disco that she'd been to,the Little black dress that she'd worn & her Dance moves and her dancing on the floor with the crowd were Indian....that's what my post was about that some Indian Teenagers DO feel an attraction towards the opposite culture & way of life.....and yes,speaking about the Western Culture/life of teenagers in Western countries,Indian teenagers living abroad can not really give an idea of how it is because they're Indians after all ..
And on top of everything.....I did not refer to any one/name Personally 1st..U DID!! U Did Directly Reply to My Post and you're telling me about Personal attack🤔?!
Edited by iamindian - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: free2ryme

Oh by the way, its free2ryme and free2rHyme!!
if you insult someone, do it right!



😆😆😆 soo funniii.and you know what there no point in arguing or speaking our minds to such close minded people. Its hard to believe that such people even live in america. If america lives by sex then its better they leave dont you think? You original post was really great and am glad that your respect and culture remains with u. Good luck to you in the future. 😊
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