Minnie's Father, From Ashok to HS - Page 5

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I love love LOVE this scene....PLEASE koi humein yeh wala HS lauta do yaar🥺

Uff! Me too, the way she crumbled and the way he couldn't handle his tears anymore, I fell in love with this bond.

I still remember the look on Babita's face when she realized that HS had managed to get her to open up and even later during the therapist appointment scene on the balcony where Babita tells HS that she knows Minnie confides in him regarding things she doesn't even share with her mother.

And the writers have the audacity to try and convince us that he was doing all this to impress Babita and didn't care about Minnie independently.

Originally posted by: inlieu

OMG, that would be an epic scene! I would totally love it if that were to happen, and to see him being overwhelmed that his wife is going crazy over him. I mean, sure every husband wants to be loved by his wife, but yeh kuch zyaada hi hoga uske liye, considering Babita is not overt in expressing her emotions. He doesn't even know what is brewing at the moment, so I really do hope he finds out that Babita just wants to drown in this love.

He won't be able to handle it, especially since he has always wanted her to love him shiddat se. This is not the kind of shiddat he would have wanted or expected but it's not necessarily a bad thing in terms of emotions.

And it's not like as a husband he can tell her stop going nuts being so in love with me. 🤣

I can't stop laughing after reading this post of yours!

He was so lattu over Babita sending him that one song over the phone.....he will totally PUFF UP with pride if someone tells him that Babita wants to DROWN in his love😆....quite a nice boost to his ego it will be😆

Yes, ab yeh bhi nahin bol sakta ki GET A GRIP, Babita ji....you can love me all you want but KAAM bhi kar lo😆......

Nope, he will instead be alternating between blushing and puffing up in pride....lol....ab nahin bol sakta Babita ko to show responsibility for her work.....lol woh koi aur HS thal.....haha

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah she said that day that she knows he loves her and she loves him too....but then as of last week, the words have been changed to "he CARES for me, I CARE for him"....makes me think the writers are trying to walk it back and temper the emotions a bit so that they can put HS-Mini on the backburner again in order to focus on dealing with Babita's issues again.

Yes, a hospital role reversal is very likely since the show does love to do throwbacks and all. Babita toh is anyways a constant mess.....lol she was a mess when Mini was in the hospital too but HS managed to have that seperate scene with Mini na? So I think Mini will be able to as well if HS lands up in the hospital.....the girl can multi-task....unlike her mom😆

HS-Mini deserve that one deep conversation focused only on themselves, what they mean to each other....without the crutch of Babita....someone needs to whack that away from them.....tell each other what you meant to each other first....and why.

I think she is cautiously using the word care because even though she began to believe in the romantic kind of love because of HS, her faith in the father-daughter type of love has been shaken since the wedding. I think she is afraid to use that term with him because she craves it but doesn't want to make herself vulnerable to being hurt again.

You guys know what I want? Babes to go on a catering business conference or something to Chandigarh for just two days.

Watch this dad daughter try to cook food and wake each other up. They're bound to have some form of conversation. Whether it's serious or them joking around like previously, I don't care at this point.

I miss their candidness and joyous nature around each other as much as I miss the emotional conversations.

Originally posted by: naq5

this will be epic. we dont get light hearted scenes between HS mini these days.

remember the live in comment mini got so embarrassed. i dont think she can tell HS ki my mother is lattu in your love that she has forgotten shop. she has to find a better indirect way to get he message across to him

So true....I want to see the old kind of lighthearted scenes between HS-Mini again....natural banter....not this thank you/sorry/formal handshakes wala.

That live-in discussion wala scene.....hahahahaha it still cracks me up....the embarrassment on poor Mini's face as she tried to explain to him ki live-in mein husband-wife wala romance bhi hota hai...and HS still remained clueless🤣

Originally posted by: AreYaar

He was so lattu over Babita sending him that one song over the phone.....he will totally PUFF UP with pride if someone tells him that Babita wants to DROWN in his love😆....quite a nice boost to his ego it will be😆

Yes, ab yeh bhi nahin bol sakta ki GET A GRIP, Babita ji....you can love me all you want but KAAM bhi kar lo😆......

Nope, he will instead be alternating between blushing and puffing up in pride....lol....ab nahin bol sakta Babita ko to show responsibility for her work.....lol woh koi aur HS thal.....haha

Maybe that ego boost is needed so he stops fearing that Babita will leave him at the drop of a hat and can feel that he's been successful at making her happy. Then he can concentrate on sorting out his issues with Minnie and doing some real work at the police station.

No, I don't think even the previous HS would be able to tell her not to let her love for him take precedence over her responsibilities towards her business. Seriously, I don't think any spouse can say things like that. How can you tell your husband or wife not to love you so much?

I am just cracking up thinking of the situation.

Originally posted by: tk2015

You guys know what I want? Babes to go on a catering business conference or something to Chandigarh for just two days.

Watch this dad daughter try to cook food and wake each other up. They're bound to have some form of conversation. Whether it's serious or them joking around like previously, I don't care at this point.

I miss their candidness and joyous nature around each other as much as I miss the emotional conversations.

Sigh...this would be ❤️.....I really want them to talk naturally too....as you said, their convos always flowed naturally with a balance of joyousness and candid/heartfelt things....it's been so long since we got that....

But Babita and conference? NOW?😆.....usko pati ke prem, pooja, vrat wagairah se fursat ho tab na....she won't go anywhere😆

Originally posted by: tk2015

You guys know what I want? Babes to go on a catering business conference or something to Chandigarh for just two days.

Watch this dad daughter try to cook food and wake each other up. They're bound to have some form of conversation. Whether it's serious or them joking around like previously, I don't care at this point.

I miss their candidness and joyous nature around each other as much as I miss the emotional conversations.

Oh yes! I love their banter and no problem if he cooks jali hui daal roti for her. ❤️

Par yeh to hone se raha. She doesn't even want to go to the shop, so I doubt she will even think of leaving the city and being away from him a single day.

Originally posted by: naq5

@ bold exactly not only that she literally had to pull her mother out of the house. She was the one who first realised that babita -ashok relation is not what her mother showed to her. I remember how broken she was at the gurudwara thinking where they will go as pinku mama too dint want to keep them at their house. Was a girl that age supposed to be worrying like that instead of her mother . was she supposed to be taking initiatives instead of her mother - No . yet she took them. I dont think mini can reverse these years and these experiences and become a child to her parents now. she is 18 anyway. She needs to accept that she cannot keep controlling all situations but this is something headstrong people take a lifetime to learn.

And why did she have to go through that? one of the reason is babita was not financially independent. If she wants babita to concentrate on the business which they both have established its not wrong. Babes is right now full with HS love. but remember no one came to support them not even Babitas own brother and wife who is now teaching babes how sindoor is so important to a woman and she was incomplete without it.

During the Gurudwara scene was one of the few times she cried for herself. The next time we had HS coax those tears out of her during the drug case against Ashok.

Next, it happened when she broke down under the pressure of being strong and not having the security of HS in her life.

All these times Ashnoor has made me feel so strongly for this character, it's amazing. 👏

But yeah, you're right. The headstrong nature won't go away so easily. I just want her to slowly understand to sometimes let things flow. To let life happen organically rather than force situations. She quite her mother's daughter sometimes.

I really hope the business doesn't go bust. It might be a necessary jolt, but it won't be good for Minnie. She has this one thing to her name and she has worked equally hard as her mother. It's hers as much as Babita's. Especially now that HS said the haveli is his and her mother's.

That Sindoor dialogue... I have no words. I'm just going to ignore this 20th century thinking.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Maybe that ego boost is needed so he stops fearing that Babita will leave him at the drop of a hat and can feel that he's been successful at making her happy. Then he can concentrate on sorting out his issues with Minnie and doing some real work at the police station.

No, I don't think even the previous HS would be able to tell her not to let her love for him take precedence over her responsibilities towards her business. Seriously, I don't think any spouse can say things like that. How can you tell your husband or wife not to love you so much?

I am just cracking up thinking of the situation.

LOL maybe....but with Babita, I don't think there is any such thing as permanent assurances.....he can't keep living in this fear.....her personality is volatile...it has to be handled....not constantly feared.

Haha I'm not saying he has to ask her to love him less....but if this is still the same HS who understands responsibility and discipline, then he should atleast say SOMETHING to remind her of her other responsibilities too beyond drowning in his love. Baat maturity ki hai....yeh nahin ki pyar kam karo ya zyada.