1st Oct Discussion - Ajao Saray - Page 33

Originally posted by: tk2015

I know you must already be doing this, but please vocally stand by him. Let him know you're there for him. That verbalising of support goes a long way.

Also, I completely agree. If I can't handle myself, mentally, emotionally or financially, how can I be expected to deal with another completely separate and different human being + their family? Let me learn who I am first.

I am and so are my parents. They know what it takes to come to a new country and start a life from scratch. It's not easy. So whatever he needs to do to set himself up first, he should it. Besides, my Chachaji isn't the type who can be easily pushed around or pressured into doing something. He's quite sensible and more than understands all the family politics that people try to involve him in, but he doesn't fall for their tricks easily.

Originally posted by: inlieu

You never know. I have a feeling, based on Khatri's words, that she will have to choose between HS and her grandparents, and by extension, Ashok too.

Hmm, if such a situation does crop up, then I hope it's handled sensibly. I don't want a repeat of today.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Because of today's episode or yesterday's?

Because of Friday's episode. And then it got worse on Saturday.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold l🤣

Mangal abhi bohot door hai, dost.

I am even expecting a "You're not my father" outburst from her at some point, where she breaks his heart and does indeed lose him because he decides to step back completely.

Then weeks or months or years later she realizes her mistake, comes running back into his arms.

Omg, itna bhi torture na kar HS ko. Pleeejjjjj. 🙏🏼

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Given her anger, I don't really know what to expect from her. But what HS said was true. She can't get what she wants via violence or being angry all the time. She needs to learn how to approach things calmly. I get that all her buttons were being pressed and she lost it, but she can't get violent. It'll only do her more harm in the end. As we saw, her violent approach did nothing to Khatri. He laughed it off as if it was nothing because those few punches were painless given the pleasure he got from riling her up.

Naeem Bi is HS' mother but Babita has her own equation with her. She has her own rishta that's stands independent of HS and I think that's the most important thing for her. It's not a zabardasti ka rishta that was thrown upon her when she married HS. Whatever it is, however it is, it's all on her.

Thanks for saying this. I absolutely adore NB-Babita's dynamic. I don't know where this is coming from but I have never noticed Babita misbehave with NB. I thought she was always good to NB. She seeks NB's advise and actually listens to them as well. Unlike Beeji, NB is the mother that Babita never got when she married Ashok and when her own mom died, and she doesn't even share this relationship with NB because of HS. Her relationship with NB is her own. Babita can share whatever she wants to with NB, and not feel judged for it. Yes, sometimes Babita hasn't understood NB's advise but I don't think Babita has ever been rude to her. Also, absolutely love how NB daant karke Babita ko samjhati hai and Babita never takes it to heart. I loved how in yesterday's epi Babita was telling HS that she wanted to make NB happy unke beta/bahu ke khatirdari karke. I loved how Babita was thinking about NB's happiness.

HS of course shares a closer bond with NB... she's his mother after all. But I absolutely love NB-Babita's relationship too. I want NB to give Babita all the love that the she deserves from a MIL ❤️ .

Originally posted by: Roopb

I am kind of sad after watching today’s episode. Don’t know what to say, just shocked from few dialogues... 😭

Feel free to share what's on your mind. I've found it helps to talk it out no matter how complicated the emotions are on the inside.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I want Minnie to be put in a position to choose between HS and her grandparents, especially after Khatri's taunts to her yesterday about duplicate vs. asli family.

Let me see if she will ever choose HS.

Given the recent times, she will not chose HS. She is in her Khuranas mode.

But she will someday. I think we might be heading towards that. Let’s see!

So, these Khuranas are actually gonna live in the haveli? Permanently? How is this a solution? 🤔

Originally posted by: inlieu

They will, you will see. And the day this happens, Minnie will start respecting her as a mother and understand her limits and boundaries as the child in the relationship. Babita gave her a good dose of this once upon a time when she didn't wake her up or make her breakfast. Her reaction? Throw a tantrum and go to university hungry. These are the things that need to be curbed and we need HS for that.

Agree. HS keeps saying Mini khara bolti hai. Which she does lot of times. But she is also a control freak in some ways.

Babes can never be that strict with her. Doesn’t have it in her. And in her head, Mini is always right. So even if Babes point out Mini tu galat hai, Mini has no regard for that. Fathers bring that discipline lot of times. Moms do too but Babes hai hi nahi strict. Kaun believe karega.

Mini surely needs that from HS. Given the recent scenarios, Khuranas are there and if this were to happen now, there’s lot of blame coming HS way.

But I still want him to being strict and disciplinarian that he is. Don’t budge. No matter what.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

So, these Khuranas are actually gonna live in the haveli? Permanently? How is this a solution? 🤔

😆 Insaaniyat.

HS ko biwi mil gai. Beti mil gai.

Ibb Dadu - dadi bhi milenge.

Parivaar Pura ho raha hai uska.

Siyape hi siyape hai. Ek din HS Haveli chhodke nikal lega.

When writers said abhi toh shuruaat hai. They meant that Babita will again start from scratch and go thru those 17 years. 🥳 Hum log yeh message samaj nahi paye. 😉