1st Oct Discussion - Ajao Saray - Page 35

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

The only time I can think of is when Naeem scolded her for not sharing the same room with HS and Babes was about to walk away from her. But other than that, I can't remember much else. 🤔

That being said, I think it's only with Naeem Bi that she had been this open with her emotions. If she doesn't like what she says or can't understand it fully, Naeem Bi knows. Then there's the matter of Babita sharing her confusions, or seeking advice like a daughter does with a mother. I doubt she did any of this dil khol ke with Beeji.

@bold: She tries to walk away to ignore as to not introspect her own feelings at that point. I didn't think she was being rude there. When NB stops her, she does stop and listens to NB.

Yes, I think Babita sees a mother in NB. NB is the mother figure that she needs in her life. They actually have a relation of a mother-daughter. Both say their feelings openly with each other. NB bhi kitni daant karke samjhati hai... and kabhi kabhi Babita ruth bhi jati hai like when NB was trying to explain to her before that "pyaisi hun mein" song... but she never takes it to heart. Isn't that what most mother-daughter relationship is like?

That scene when NB-Mini were trying to instigate Hanita and when Hanita have that fight regarding his alcohol addiction and her SM addiction, I love how Babita tells NB "aap toh apne bete ki pervi karogi na" 😆... I want a scene where NB gets put in the middle of some silly fight between Hanita and both expect her to take their side 😆.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

LMAO, logic se koi allergy hai kya? 🤣

Yes. If your logic has Mini mahaan conclusion fir soch sakte hai. End result should be Mini right and Babita stupid.

Baki sare logic invalid. 🤣

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Ashnoor is the most popular of the trio. She gets 100k likes for a single post. So much higher than Anirudh and Paridhi combined.

I was just wondering, could her popularity be the reason that Mini gets max screen space and that she is never proven wrong?

I could be totally wrong but I have seen popularity affecting the writing so was just trying to figure out consistent imbalance in character growth.

If this is the case, then that's just not fair. Personally, I like Anirudh a lot better than Ashnoor. There's still a lot that she needs to learn and after that whole crying / smiling thing she kept doing, I can't stand her.

Also, actors will only get more popular depending on the amount of screen space they get. So if Anirudh and Paridhi don't have that screen space, then how will their characters or the actors themselves grow? And if her popularity is the reason why she is being shown as always being right, then that's just plain wrong.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Forget the romance.

Why should HS have them in his day to day life. Kya lagte hai uske? Humanity ke naam pe he should bring all of abandoned Patiala’s oldies then.

Seriouslyyyy ab yeh maa-beti kaam the kya HS needs to take care of oldies too... Jaldi koi permanent solution nikalo for the Khuranas. I don't wanna see them in Haveli for too long. Haveli should just be occupied by HanMiTa, Hanita's future kids, NB and maybe Lala 😆

Wese Mickey Preet se bada affectionate ho raha tha. Pehle to ni dekha aise.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Feel free to share what's on your mind. I've found it helps to talk it out no matter how complicated the emotions are on the inside.

Thanks, it’s all good now, just didn’t like the episode today, similar thing happened to my friend she got married at very young age also, her husband died at young age n she suffered a lot due to in laws and she has similar SIL worst than lovely, my friend was so strong in college days, don’t know what happened, I don’t blame Babita as I have seen my friend in same situations when she wanted to say something but couldn’t. I was just thinking about her. She has son, very understanding just like daughter, I usually tell her he’s not your son he’s your daughter the way he takes care of her. He knows everything about her situation. She’s independent now but spend 16 years with in laws.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

NB gets through Babita more than even Mini does. Since day 1.

I also don’t remember Babita ever disrespecting NB. She would never do that. She listens to everything that NB says.

When Ruksar told her aapse bahot kuch sikhna hai. She pointed towards NB and said mein Khud sikh rahi hoon apne bado se and then looked at Mini - aur apne chhoto se bhi.

NB sure has her utmost respect as a wise elder lady. The only elder that she learns from.

I love their interactions. All of them. The ones on NB’s terrace have been my favorite.

Naeem Bi is a true rockstar. She understands everyone's positions and tries to guide them to the best of her abilities, while also giving them the space they need to grow on their own.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

If this is the case, then that's just not fair. Personally, I like Anirudh a lot better than Ashnoor. There's still a lot that she needs to learn and after that whole crying / smiling thing she kept doing, I can't stand her.

Also, actors will only get more popular depending on the amount of screen space they get. So if Anirudh and Paridhi don't have that screen space, then how will their characters or the actors themselves grow? And if her popularity is the reason why she is being shown as always being right, then that's just plain wrong.

I like all 3. Mujhe tino bade talented lagte hai. Perfect casting! Can’t imagine anyone else playing their respective characters as effortlessly as these 3 do.

I was just thinking out loud. I could be totally off the mark.

But Ashnoor is really popular on social media. Her popularity surely brings in viewership I guess. I don’t know.

Mujhe ni pata why Mini is always proven right. HS was also butchered during CD fiasco but Mini, never. So I was trying to figure out the reason.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

HS has already put bringing them in Haveli as a solution in her head yesterday. He dismissed her other suggestions. That’s going to be on her mind the most.

And knowing Babita, apne se decision lene ka confidence usmein kaha se hai. Aaya bhi tha to Mini ke outburst ke baad, it’s shaken. Self doubt again.

Situations affect your decisions and past 2 days will have impression on her mind. She won’t disregard HS and Mini while taking the decision.

Ufh! This is what I didn't want. >.<

All the progress (however little it may be) would be completely thrown out the window. Once again, she's been made to feel that she's incapable of making her own decisions. And despite HS saying, the final say is hers, it's really not since he had shot down all her other ideas and planted this own instead.

There has to be SOMETHING in Babita's life where she can practice making her own decisions and build that self confidence. I had hoped that her catering service will be that but Minnie aisa thodi na hone degi. 🤔

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Seriouslyyyy ab yeh maa-beti kaam the kya HS needs to take care of oldies too... Jaldi koi permanent solution nikalo for the Khuranas. I don't wanna see them in Haveli for too long. Haveli should just be occupied by HanMiTa, Hanita's future kids, NB and maybe Lala 😆

Dekho abhi biji kya karti hai. 😆 Biji ke liye to kuch bhi hoga, Mini Bechari and evil Hs - Babes.