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Originally posted by: attiya1.3

So we all agree k highlight of the episode was HS run towards minni..🤣😂...

It reminded me of my run towards notice board when marks are displayed🙈🙊

I used to run away from the notice board.

Katha Kottage tweets...👍🏼 Upon analysis, you would get in depth meaning of what she is trying to say!

Maybe Babita is going to face strong emotional pressure. On one side, she would be lost in Hanuman's thoughts and on the other hand she would face societal challenges and family pressure. Let's see what's in store for them and us....

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Many myths to be broken in this phase. Mini's conviction in her Babe's absolute innocence and Ashok's absolute demonization to be challenged. Life is not black and white. Resides in grey. Challenge is to color it with hope. #patialababes

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Financial independence only external factors. Real emancipation of woman happens when she stops feeling guilty of her own desires. Will Babita get matured emotionally? Will Mini's finally provide her the wind beneath her wings before her flight? #patialababes enters a new phase

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Mini's Babes agrees for second marriage but is she ready yet? Mini to realise a second marriage is no fairy tale. Requires constant jugglery of emotions. Maturity to take at least part responsibility of own past. #patialababes

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When a marriage fails both parties play victim. Often angry feminists don't tackle d real issue. Male bashing becomes norm. But what is hidden may be more complex than what is obvious. Hidden needs to be confronted and defeated . vicious cycle be broken. #patialababes

Oh I am loving this! This is exactly what I wanted to see. Now I understand why the cast keeps saying it's just the beginning.

We are going to get into a lot of these complex issues and not have a mahaan FL. Minnie is going to realize it's not a fairytale wedding where they live happily ever after, and that love is not enough to make a marriage work. Also, it's great if they show Babita taking some responsibility for the failure of her marriage at some point. HS has hinted to some of it in the past and he won't give her a free pass regarding her past. I just don't want him to be hurt because of her after the marriage, please. I can't take it. The last few days have put us through an emotional wringer.

Also, HS is going to have to deal with all of this. As some of us were saying the marriage seemed rushed, so this seems like a deliberate move by the CVs to point out that things are not so straightforward.

Thank goodness HS has the maturity to deal with it, but I think Minnie will also see him struggle. That's probably why we got some hints from Poonam that things won't be perfect in the second marriage but compromises must be made. Also, I really like the tweet about Babes coming to terms with her own desires. HS is just the kind of man who can help her open up, but I hope his desires and dreams aren't forgotten.

I am hoping the challenges are with her previous marriage and not in this one. We were wondering if they are indeed right for each other or if the timing is right.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Oh I am loving this! This is exactly what I wanted to see. Now I understand why the cast keeps saying it's just the beginning.

We are going to get into a lot of these complex issues and not have a mahaan FL. Minnie is going to realize it's not a fairytale wedding where they live happily ever after, and that love is not enough to make a marriage work.

Also, HS is going to have to deal with all of this. As some of us were saying the marriage seemed rushed, so this seems like a deliberate move by the CVs to point out that things are not so straightforward.

Thank goodness HS has the maturity to deal with it, but I think Minnie will also see him struggle. That's probably why we got some hints from Poonam that things won't be perfect in the second marriage but compromises must be made. Also, I really like the tweet about Babes coming to terms with her own desires. HS is just the kind of man who can help her open up, but I hope his desires and dreams aren't forgotten.

Actually this concept is amazing! Concept of second marriage! This is something that the society has always looked down upon, and when it is happening, it needs to happen with some encounters. How an inspector would deal with this concept and how a woman who has always been betrayed in life, when gets to live her life the way she wants to, would face challenges in a not-so-rosy-relationship. Because according to Babita, love means romance. But reality is something totally different from romance! Let's wait and watch....

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

Actually this concept is amazing! Concept of second marriage! This is something that the society has always looked down upon, and when it is happening, it needs to happen with some encounters. How an inspector would deal with this concept and how a woman who has always been betrayed in life, when gets to live her life the way she wants to, would face challenges in a not-so-rosy-relationship. Because according to Babita, love means romance. But reality is something totally different from romance! Let's wait and watch....

I am so so glad to see this. Also, I know they will handle everything with a lot of sensitivity and care. These things are not just hard to discuss but also to explain to people who have no idea about such things.

HS had always said that their relationship was complicated. I think he knows Babita enough to know it won't be straightforward. Same thing he had told NB about Babita's concept of a prem ka rishta being quite different from what it should be, i.e. she's a bit in la la land. We've always said that she needed to step up to be worthy of him. I guess all that stuff is coming up. She has some growing up to do, especially in the department of standing by her partner like a rock.

I am wondering if HS will discover some traits of hers that he had previously not seen, though I doubt it. He knows he strengths and weaknesses very well, and I think the anger management issues are going to come up. I also think there might be conflicts when parenting Minnie.

Gosh, I am even more excited for this now.

Sounds interesting , I don't think anything bad will happen. I guess it's going to be emancipation of Babita in the end...her coming to terms with her sexual desires inspite of being a mom to teenager.. then her teenage daughter will may be find some faults of her mother too in failed marriage of their parents.. and yes Minnie needs to also understand that her babes is not a child but grown up woman who has flaws and has her own feelings.

Inn Sab mein HS hi mature lag rha hain iss phase mein..I hope they don't make him cry anymore...bas!

Uff yes. HS ne to shaayad Babita se bhi zyaada aansoon bahaiye hain.

Also, I will give myself one more pat on the back for having said a few times that Babita is not over her past yet. 😆

I think this is going to be a great learning experience for Minnie. The more she sees the more she learns.

I have a feeling there will be some kind of reconciliation with Ashok. Perhaps I will get my dad vs dad track after all where Minnie consciously chooses HS over her father but does not kick Ashok out of her life or anything.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Didn't mind it one bit as children are always first for parents. The immediate thing that must've struck him was Mini ❤️

And waise bhi, now he knew what she felt.

Also, remember the time when Babita said something along the lines of Minnie ne is rishtay pe sawal uthaya tu seh ni paon gi... I felt, Hanuman was closing in on that front...

I know, both of them individually knew that Minnie knows and accepted it... but I felt it was closure, a conversation between all three of them on the topic, for the first time.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Uff yes. HS ne to shaayad Babita se bhi zyaada aansoon bahaiye hain.

Also, I will give myself one more pat on the back for having said a few times that Babita is not over her past yet.

Yep! I guess, most of our guesses were right! She is still that immature woman. One thing is for sure! Babita would be having these desires (attraction) towards HS, and he being the mature man that he is, would not always give in. This may irritate her! And maybe, this would lead to conflicts! Now how they tackle it, all depends on them and not Mini. And obviously Babita would have to face more challenges after getting married to HS! There exists people like Khatri in the society. Let's see how Hanita officially start facing problems together without anyone's interference....

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

Yep! I guess, most of our guesses were right! She is still that immature woman. One thing is for sure! Babita would be having these desires towards HS, and he being the mature man that he is, would not always give in. This may irritate her! And maybe, this would lead to conflicts! Now how they tackle it, all depends on them and not Mini. And obviously Babita would have to face more challenges after getting married to HS! There exists people like Khatri in the society. Let's see how Hanita officially start facing problems together without anyone's interference....

It's gonna be awesome! Finally a PH that has the guts and the drive to tackle such important topics. We've seen enough of financial emancipation stories on ITV, time to look at the mental and emotional side. I have a feeling they might bring up the topic of Minnie's depression.

@bold do you mean what I think you mean here? 😲