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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anand has never seen or heard about his mother. Diwans are at fault completely. he should have been told. However, Siddhi is a mature woman. She needs to understand that a child, esp, this spoilt will need time, patience and love to come back on right track.

Im a mother and know pouncing on child never works. how can she pounce on him for everything... try to drag him to leave the house, question his report card. She should be patient, earn his trust, be loving. She seems to think she can dive into his life and take control (literally).

I feel she is being very unrealistic. This way she wont get Anand to do anything her way.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think you have made a very valid point and it is something that has been on my mind too. Anand Jr. hadn't seen, met or even heard from his mother in the 9 years of his life and she suddenly rocks up one day to claim her parental rights then obviously he is not going to let her do that so easily. Children are very sensitive and considering how much Suklekha and Abhay have tried to fill the void of a mother by spoiling him rotten, Anand Jrs. behaviour is well justified. But in a way, it is hard to blame Siddhi in such circumstances. She comes out of jail after 9 years and her whole life is a havoc with her assuming that Kunal has moved on with Richa and no one in the family has any regard for what happened to Anand. At the moment, she has absolutely nothing in her life that she can call her own, her own brother and sister are not in touch with her, Chopra's + Kunal are nowhere in sight, so at the end, all she knows is that she only has her child with her. I think this is what is driving her to try and force her way into his life and take control of him, its too bad that she doesn't yet understand how hard she will have to work to actually reach out to him. At the moment, I find both Siddhi and Anand Jrs. behaviour justifiable. It will probably take time and patience on Siddhi's part to learn how she needs to handle her kid and for Anand Jr. to let down his defenses and come to accept Siddhi. It will be interesting to see how they go about exploring this angle so I hope the creatives do a good job.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I actually like the Siddhi and Anand C track. Its something that appears realistic. Both mother and son are justified in their positions. Siddhi for being eager to be a part of her son's life and Anand C for being skeptical of her.

I am sure once they begin to bond they'll have an awesome mother-son relation :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hi

this is one track i am looking forward to

yes siddhi needs to give AD time, he is just 9 yrs old and he has never seen his mother so for him to accept her will take time.

right now we are seeing the extent of AD being spoilt, ie not studying, being rude etc,hopefuly from next week we will see further progres on to how siddhi will start to make a place in AD's heart

it should be shown gradually

norzar




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Posted: 13 years ago
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exactly my point too...but i didn't raise it as most of the forum members are against diwans and abousing anand D as spoilt...for me i don't say diwans spoilt him...he is a typical child of rich father and grand mother...in fact i can say anokhi look like a spoilt brat to me in spit of belonging to a middle class family...

coming to siddhi...i can say 100% she is unrealistic...when anand.D was trying to move the table...she came running from no where and started telling not to move and trying to stop him physically too...i was like...what? why she is messing up with that kid?...in this age all the kids do this type of things...because of her he became wild...and it was very funny to blame the boy...😆

about report card...she was telling oh! your dad is a gold medalist...i was like...🤣 she should have prefixed useless to gold medalist...and at the same time anand C report card shows he is just pass and the so called gold medalist did not react as she did...😆

any way it is my POV...😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shumi.

exactly my point too...but i didn't raise it as most of the forum members are against diwans and abousind anand D as spoilt...for me i don't say diwans spoilt him...he is a typical child of rich father and grand mother...in fact i can say anokhi look like a spoilt brat to me in spit of belonging to a middle class family...


coming to siddhi...i can say 100% she is unrealistic...when anand.D was trying to move the table...she came running from no where and started telling not to move and trying to stop him physically too...i was like...what? why she is messing up with that kid?...in this age all the kids do this type of things...because of her he became while...and it was very funny to blame the boy...😆

about report card...she was telling oh! your dad is a gold medalist...i was like...🤣 she should have prefixed useless to gold medalist...and at the same time anand C report card shows he is just pass and the so called gold medalist did not react as she did...😆

any way it is my POV...😃


@bold...Shumi..that is so true 😉 😆 kids should be told the truth about their parents, glossing over won't be helpful 😛 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rainbowgirl

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@bold...Shumi..that is so true 😉 😆 kids should be told the truth about their parents, glossing over won't be helpful 😛 😆

exactly😃...btw i see you always agreeing with my POV even though it is bit different from others😉...thanks for the same.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shumi.

exactly😃...btw i see you always agreeing with my POV even though it is bit different from others😉...thanks for the same.


Jo sahi hai usse galat kyon bolu? sach sach hota hai aur jhoot jhoot 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rainbowgirl

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Jo sahi hai usse galat kyon bolu? sach sach hota hai aur jhoot jhoot 😉

Absolutely right Ramya!😉 And yea the whole gold medalist cracked me up! Does she even know her ex-hubby!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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will kunal meet siddhi are not please tell me

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