Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #211 - Page 26

Originally posted by: sillysatchel

Somehow when it's Raavi's faults, it's 'fault in writing' and 'makers are spoiling'. When it comes to Shiva, he's a 'real husband' who 'has to be perfect all the time'

No harm in admitting two characters are a product of bad writing. But defending one and bashing other, real mature 🤣

I admit, I defended some tracks I wasn't supposed to. But learning from it is important. You either call out bad writing or don't defend just one.

You can't have made up rules according to convenience because there's no one to call YOU out 🤷🏻‍♀️

Nice. Very unbiased opinions I can see

So true

As if shiva's writes his own lines and that's why he is always wrong na

Originally posted by: Goodluckok

KD himself said it is Shiva's EGO in the intv then why are people making a big fuss about it?

I feel this is not his Male ego but frustration of everything that has happened during past few days which is clearly shown by his sarcastic comments.

There. You said it! ITS HIS FRUSTRATION NOT EGO. nor he's an MCP. I've seen my parents being sarcastic with other that doesn't mean they didn't deserve eo.

just because Raavi ended up telling Shiva & the family doesn’t mean she wasn’t keeping it a secret for the time being lol by definition her not telling the family is secrecy

as for the matter being dragged, I agree

however both of them are dragging it, not just one of them

Originally posted by: Roohani27

There. You said it! ITS HIS FRUSTRATION NOT EGO. nor he's an MCP. I've seen my parents being sarcastic with other that doesn't mean they didn't deserve eo.

Exactly. Frustration does NOT equal to ego or being MCP. And no couple is perfect. Do they expect Shiva to fall at her feet?

I mean, you wouldn't like it if the FL did that, so what makes you think an ML should cave?

That's not equality and that's definitely NOT FEMINISM.

And if parents being sarcastic was the basis of a relationship, then lord save the person who is my partner because I'm hella sarcastic.

Originally posted by: Roohani27

See you're not getting the point here and that becuase you're only looking at and giving attention to one side of the coin. Did you even consider to think from his point of view? Before making such huge statements? Then it's unfair. He's wrong when he's wrong and even I've called him out many times but here HE'S NOT and if you still feel that he is then Raavi is equally WRONG. you should call her out too.

What is his side?

He is mad at Raavi for what lying to him about the shoot. She herself said that she thought it was a prank and that is why she didn't tell anyone.

He wanted his wife to stop him and ask him about where he is going but when she was calling him he didn't bother to stop, just left. That is his side.

He wanted to make sure his wife is safe but when she was leaving his home yesterday he couldn't bother to go with her. He was more concerned about his bhabhi that is home now. That is his side.

He wanted his wife to call him but didn't think to call her himself. That is his side.

He doubted his wife AGAIN. That is not right. That is his side.

This is another example of Shiva playing the victim because he doesn't want to admit he was wrong in how he behaved with his wife and that he doubted her. He once again wants Raavi to make all the adjustments for him because he doesn't want to do anything for their relationship.

I did call Raavi out in yesterday's episode when Shiva came out of the house both wanted to apologize to each other and ended up fighting. Both of them are at fault but the last few scenes have been about only Shiva being an absolute douche and not trying to even have a normal conversation with his wife. They could easily sit down and have a normal conversation but they are stretching it.

Originally posted by: Kdice.Is.Love

He meant it in some other way

And people here are taking it in a very different way

Surely there are times when shiva is wrong and has ego problem

But this time it wasn't shiva's ego but Raavi's carelessness and attitude issues

I won't say about who is wrong and who is right, and also I don't think that Shiva has problem because raavi is earning more money. I am not buying this. But raavi's attitude issues is my real question.

I don't think raavi hiding the fact has some other intention other than surprising him.

I won't say who is at fault because it is just the condition. All I want is when they fight Shiva doesn't yell at her face and break cup. I would like if he keeps his questions across in a more nicer way.

I did not even like when suman banged the table.

Originally posted by: Pixierocks

abruptly the track closes without a proper realisation.again some lollipop Romance ke baad the cycle continues

pixuuu 🤗 aaja

thank for sharing your opinion, I too have a lot of hopes for the growth of ShiVi and can completely understand why you feel the way that you do

I think the above line is a perfect example of how Shiva’s inconsistencies are a product of bad writing, not bad intentions of his character

Originally posted by: Kdice.Is.Love

He meant it in some other way

And people here are taking it in a very different way

Surely there are times when shiva is wrong and has ego problem

But this time it wasn't shiva's ego but Raavi's carelessness and attitude issues

Now she has an attitude because she asked her own damn husband for a glass of water, good job, put the entire blame of Shiva's doubt and him not trusting his wife on the wife, good job. 👏

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe

I would be pretty irritated if someone asked me for a glass of water as they are passing by the kitchen and I’m already sitting down.

Raavi asking for a glass of water isn’t wrong but from the precap it looks like she asks for it as soon as she sits down which is annoying.

Well I wouldn't be irritated if my husband ask for a mere thing like glass of water but I can understand some people might be, if they are not in good mood.

But if I see that bcz of my bad mood my mother or someone else took advantage of that situation to demean my husband & start humiliating him, I'll immediately say that it's not a big deal, I was in not a good mood so I snapped, it's not a big deal.. I'll never allow my bad mood or whatever to be a topic to get my spouse get insulted. Ever.

Not just spouse but even if my sister, brother, friend whoever gets a treatment like that I'll immediately stop the situation saying, it's not a big deal.. I was just irritated. When I can clearly see that if my husband/ sister/ friend whoever is feeling insulted bcz of this!!

It's basic human decency

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe

pixuuu 🤗 aaja

thank for sharing your opinion, I too have a lot of hopes for the growth of ShiVi and can completely understand why you feel the way that you do

I think the above line is a perfect example of how Shiva’s inconsistencies are a product of bad writing, not bad intentions of his character

There you have it! But unfortunately it's a point not everyone is able to understand, or either they ignore conveniently :)