Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #211 - Page 25

Why is this "ek glass paani ki kimat tum kya jaano Shiva babu" chal raha hai har jagah

Ohh god🤣🤣

Wese ab itna bawal machaya hai makers ne ek glass paani ke liye... Toh I want a scene jaha Raavi ko chakkar aarahe ho aur Shiva uske liye bhaag ke paani leke aae par woh peene se mana karde.. aur behosh hojae...

Lol,i am sadist🤣

It's not if what he has done all day. But this is very basic tum agar Chalke aare ho toh khud lete ho paani.

Kisi aur jo already khana khane baith gaya hai uske thodi uthaoge yaar.

If Shiva ki jagah raavi hoti to mai raavi ko support krti.

But that was wrong on Raavi's side.

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe

I don’t agree with the sarcastic taunts especially Suman jumping in with her archaic ideology but to fault Shiva for everything that goes wrong?

The root of this miscommunication is Raavi this time & her wish to keep her activities a secret. I understand her intentions & that she wanted to keep it a surprise but she should have told Shiva the truth when he asked her about to. At the bare minimum, she could have said it was a potential ad offer.

just as there is no room for ‘ego’ in their relationship (which I don’t think exists), there is no room for secrets as well

Somehow when it's Raavi's faults, it's 'fault in writing' and 'makers are spoiling'. When it comes to Shiva, he's a 'real husband' who 'has to be perfect all the time'

No harm in admitting two characters are a product of bad writing. But defending one and bashing other, real mature 🤣

I admit, I defended some tracks I wasn't supposed to. But learning from it is important. You either call out bad writing or don't defend just one.

You can't have made up rules according to convenience because there's no one to call YOU out 🤷🏻‍♀️

Nice. Very unbiased opinions I can see

KD himself said it is Shiva's EGO in the intv then why are people making a big fuss about it?

I feel this is not his Male ego but frustration of everything that has happened during past few days which is clearly shown by his sarcastic comments.

Originally posted by: mkc12345

What has Shiva done all day that he couldn't get up and give his wife a glass of water. It is a glass of water nothing else. Can't a wife, who is tired after working so much, ask her own damn husband for some water. Shiva has been home all day because of bhabhi but he has the audacity to show attitude to Raavi who has been working and is tired. So what if she asked for some water when she got home.

See you're not getting the point here and that becuase you're only looking at and giving attention to one side of the coin. Did you even consider to think from his point of view? Before making such huge statements? Then it's unfair. He's wrong when he's wrong and even I've called him out many times but here HE'S NOT and if you still feel that he is then Raavi is equally WRONG. you should call her out too.

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe

I don’t agree with the sarcastic taunts especially Suman jumping in with her archaic ideology but to fault Shiva for everything that goes wrong?

The root of this miscommunication is Raavi this time & her wish to keep her activities a secret. I understand her intentions & that she wanted to keep it a surprise but she should have told Shiva the truth when he asked her about to. At the bare minimum, she could have said it was a potential ad offer.

just as there is no room for ‘ego’ in their relationship (which I don’t think exists), there is no room for secrets as well

Raavi wasn’t going w/ secrecy, she wanted to keep it surprise as she herself thinks she is ‘dobi’ and cannot get such high offer for shoot!

If she wanted secrecy, she wouldn’t have told family about it & not given every penny earned to Suman!

She wouldn’t have talked about Dhara or show anchoring gigs in front of Suman, Rishita!

Yes, She should have known Shiva is not the kind of person who would like to digest surprises! So when he asked should have told him surprise hai, kal bataaungi or something! but that whole matter was for less that 12 hours, should have been done & move on!

Not dragged to this ‘angst’ at every step of the way.. that’s when it starts getting toxic

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe

I don’t agree with the sarcastic taunts especially Suman jumping in with her archaic ideology but to fault Shiva for everything that goes wrong?

The root of this miscommunication is Raavi this time & her wish to keep her activities a secret. I understand her intentions & that she wanted to keep it a surprise but she should have told Shiva the truth when he asked her about to. At the bare minimum, she could have said it was a potential ad offer.

just as there is no room for ‘ego’ in their relationship (which I don’t think exists), there is no room for secrets as well

I respect your POV aashu.

But after the disha track and IVF track i don't connect with shiva much. I search balance in a love story. Ek baar shiva gussa ho to raavi manaye, raavi stand le. And ek track mai raavi gussa ho to shiva manaye.

His anger,taunt and mistrust is becoming very repetetive.upar se suman being harsh to her doesn't help.abruptly the track closes without a proper realisation.again some lollipop Romance ke baad the cycle continues.One and half years mai pehli baar do dlgs mile jahaan par woh raavi ko support karta hai and then again it's back to square one.

Junglee saandh and markundi gay mai koi difference nahi hai. But raavi has shut down her maasi time and again. Shiva most of the times khada rehta hai corner mai.

I want to see a passionate husband in him.

I want to see for once his anger directed at someone else for protecting raavi instead of at raavi.

I am waiting to see how this track will end. I will be the happiest if his character grows.

Good to see your post here after days ❣️

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe

I don’t agree with the sarcastic taunts especially Suman jumping in with her archaic ideology but to fault Shiva for everything that goes wrong?

The root of this miscommunication is Raavi this time & her wish to keep her activities a secret. I understand her intentions & that she wanted to keep it a surprise but she should have told Shiva the truth when he asked her about to. At the bare minimum, she could have said it was a potential ad offer.

just as there is no room for ‘ego’ in their relationship (which I don’t think exists), there is no room for secrets as well

Why else would Shiva have a problem with giving his wife some water if it wasn't his ego?

KD himself said that ego has gotten in between their relationship and that because Raavi is earning more so Shiva has a problem. There is ego because for the first time Raavi is doing something for herself and Shiva can't handle that. He wants Raavi to put him and his family first above everything else but won't do the same thing in return. When Shiva comes home work and is tired, he asks Raavi for some water she gets it for him right or does she start taunting him like he did? He is playing the victim right now because he has the biggest ego there is and because he doesn't want to admit he was wrong in doubting his wife.

Why are you making a big deal about Raavi keeping a secret from Shiva. She didn't tell him because she herself thought the job offer was a prank and didn't want to tell anyone because everyone would make fun of her. She wanted to surprise Shiva and the family if the job offer was true because she thought everyone would be happy, she thought wrong because Shiva showed how happy he was for her not one bit. Also she didn't tell Shiva about it for less than 24 hours. Shiva immediately thought she is having an affair because she was talking on the phone at night, so much for I am always going to be by your side and I trust you.

Shiva only has that she lied to him, which is the most hypocritical thing to get mad at because Shiva has lied to Raavi way more than Raavi has lied to him. Him and his family did a full on YKB when she was kidnapped, did they not eat food then because they sure as hell weren't worried about Raavi then. His bhabhi leaves the house after telling everyone that she is going and they still run around finding her like she is lost. But Raavi being kidnapped was not that big of a deal for them.

I agree with you there is no room for ego in a husband wife relationship and there is no room for secrets either but both of them exist in Shiva and Raavi's relationship. Raavi kept a secret to surprise him but it was to spite him. Shiva has an ego about his relationship with Raavi because he has never worked on his relationship before this and now he wants Raavi to work on it again so he can continue playing the victim without apologizing. Shiva has kept secrets from Raavi in the past, paper heist anyone.

Originally posted by: spdp

Wish he learns to sort those out in room, with Raavi directly.And not through Bhabhi/ Maa/ family!

That’s the problem! He always runs away and hides behind Maa or Dhara to solve his marital problems and in the end Raavi ends up working her butt off because the so called mothers keep taunting her for what’s happening between them.
It us like he doesn’t want to put any effort but wants a happy marriage and want Raavi to be his wife and Kandyas bahu, that’s all.

About hiding things from him, where was his gyaan when he hid the loan paper stealing kaand from her. It’s not they were not talking to each other, neither were divorced at that point. She was almost going to lose her life, didn’t know anything about their plan, went on her own to get Rishita back. What happened he coolly turned the tables on her! In his opinion it was trivial that she should not get worked up about. So it’s always different set of rules for him,

Originally posted by: Goodluckok

KD himself said it is Shiva's EGO in the intv then why are people making a big fuss about it?

I feel this is not his Male ego but frustration of everything that has happened during past few days which is clearly shown by his sarcastic comments.

He meant it in some other way

And people here are taking it in a very different way

Surely there are times when shiva is wrong and has ego problem

But this time it wasn't shiva's ego but Raavi's carelessness and attitude issues