Pandya Store| Frustration Thread

Hola dear forumwaasis! YKBs to one and all 🤗

I am opening up a thread for us to have a safe space to vent out out frustrations at the PS characters, writers and technical department.

Rules

List of rules to adhere to when posting to the frustration threads(will add more as I learn of them)

- Do not post anything wishing for Death of a character and/or the actors playing the character.

Guidelines

I thought I'd put up some guidelines that are not enforced, but could be followed for everyone's convenience

- Can post frustration about any character or track- this is NOT a Raavi only or Shiva only zone 😆 You have problems with the Doodhwali- then have at it.

- Trigger Warnings: I think it would be nice if we could provide warning ⚠️ on who or what we are pouring our frustrations out on. That way if someone wants to skip reading about their favorite character, they can do so.

- Use your discretion to mark individual posts as Mature. ( Self-policing here 😆)

⚠️ Raavi frustration

I really really dislike the way Raavi's character is writen. 😳 She feels she is superior to Shiva and blames him for all her problems, including her shortcomings 😛

Shiva deserves better.

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

⚠️ Raavi frustration

I really really dislike the way Raavi's character is writen. 😳 She feels she is superior to Shiva and blames him for all her problems, including her shortcomings 😛

Shiva deserves better.

Sometimes I wish raavi actually got married to dev, would she be so clueless? Would they have a clueless relationship? Dev = Clueless, Raavi = Clueless. They were made for each other 🤣

Rishita = speaks a lot, is daring and has a lot to her character. Shiva has a lot of emotions, a lot of daring and has a strong character. Made for each other.

The makers got it the wrong way round 🤣

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

⚠️ Raavi frustration

I really really dislike the way Raavi's character is writen. 😳 She feels she is superior to Shiva and blames him for all her problems, including her shortcomings 😛

Shiva deserves better.

Raavi by far is the weakest character, there is no layers to her. Unlike Shiva, he is the most complex character.

I am really hoping that this track brings some growth to her, unfortunately i don't see it happening. Why do I feel that something extreme needs to happen to Shiva for Raavi to realize Shiva's importance in her life. I know typical itv route but for a dense person, only when everything hits them in the face or about to lose something valuable do they realize its worth.

Originally posted by: ShivaandRaavi

Sometimes I wish raavi actually got married to dev, would she be so clueless? Would they have a clueless relationship? Dev = Clueless, Raavi = Clueless. They were made for each other 🤣

Rishita = speaks a lot, is daring and has a lot to her character. Shiva has a lot of emotions, a lot of daring and has a strong character. Made for each other.

The makers got it the wrong way round 🤣

Ya I also keep wondering that- She might have just stayed in lala land and never found out about DevTa unless Dev brought it up. And even if Dev did, as long as he promised to stay faithful to the marriage, she might have just forgiven him 🤨

This is based on what I see in the last few episodes- Raavi thinks of everything on the surface level. She does not want to dig too deep into anything- neither her own feelings nor of the person in front of her.

Which is ok- there are a lot of people like her. But Shiva is being dragged down in his so called "love". He will probably not get support from the family. That is what irritates me- he will lose everything, and for what? Someone who does not even consider him human 🙁

She wants to "make things work with him" but cannot give him basic respect 😕 Was she going to just hide from her friends and other people who bad-mouth Shiva all her life? I don't think she thought anything through.

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Ya I also keep wondering that- She might have just stayed in lala land and never found out about DevTa unless Dev brought it up. And even if Dev did, as long as he promised to stay faithful to the marriage, she might have just forgiven him 🤨

This is based on what I see in the last few episodes- Raavi thinks of everything on the surface level. She does not want to dig too deep into anything- neither her own feelings nor of the person in front of her.

Which is ok- there are a lot of people like her. But Shiva is being dragged down in his so called "love". He will probably not get support from the family. That is what irritates me- he will lose everything, and for what? Someone who does not even consider him human 🙁

She wants to "make things work with him" but cannot give him basic respect 😕 Was she going to just hide from her friends and other people who bad-mouth Shiva all her life? I don't think she thought anything through.

That’s the problem she doesn’t think. Her character doesn’t think in the show. She’s all about herself, her own world where she thinks talking to shiva properly will fix everything. Talking doesn’t fix anything if you don’t try bring changes to your behaviour.

I don’t think we’ll get a good track, we’ll get an apology from shiva but what about he’s insecurities? Who’s gonna remove them? I don’t think raavi will.

He’ll miss her eventually because he likes her but that’s about it. He’ll go and bring her back after some time and try to adjust but how he feels about himself won’t get removed until raavi realises that she should take a stand for him.

I’m honestly so tired of their relationship btw, they’re literally not compatible. Shiva deserves someone like him who can give him happiness and respect same with raavi she deserves the type of guy she wants.

Glad you finally opened this thread 😆

I agree with all the above posts about Raavi! Shiva deserves better for sure.. I'm pretty frustrated with her character 😆

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Ya I also keep wondering that- She might have just stayed in lala land and never found out about DevTa unless Dev brought it up. And even if Dev did, as long as he promised to stay faithful to the marriage, she might have just forgiven him 🤨

This is based on what I see in the last few episodes- Raavi thinks of everything on the surface level. She does not want to dig too deep into anything- neither her own feelings nor of the person in front of her.

Which is ok- there are a lot of people like her. But Shiva is being dragged down in his so called "love". He will probably not get support from the family. That is what irritates me- he will lose everything, and for what? Someone who does not even consider him human 🙁

She wants to "make things work with him" but cannot give him basic respect 😕 Was she going to just hide from her friends and other people who bad-mouth Shiva all her life? I don't think she thought anything through.

Bold: please girl, my heart can't take it anymore. It is so depressing to think how much Shiva is suffering. Honestly I want Raavi to equally suffer, but how will that happen? And I have no hope for the writers. Maybe I should just write a story, but my english sucks and nobody here understands russian 😔

Originally posted by: ShivaandRaavi

That’s the problem she doesn’t think. Her character doesn’t think in the show. She’s all about herself, her own world where she thinks talking to shiva properly will fix everything. Talking doesn’t fix anything if you don’t try bring changes to your behaviour.

I don’t think we’ll get a good track, we’ll get an apology from shiva but what about he’s insecurities? Who’s gonna remove them? I don’t think raavi will.

He’ll miss her eventually because he likes her but that’s about it. He’ll go and bring her back after some time and try to adjust but how he feels about himself won’t get removed until raavi realises that she should take a stand for him.

This is my worst fear. Shiva needs to improve- I think he definitely will. With thag much anger he will destroy himself.

But Raavi should bit hide behind "he questioned my character". I am hoping against hope he thinks about her part in what went wrong.

A lot of people mentioned that how can she divine what Shiva is feeling, or why she should be handling his insecurities. She should not bear the burden of that.

But I beg to differ- being married in itself means that you carry your partners burden. And Raavi NEEDS to realize that. You cannot just say I want to live with you or move on ahead with you- you need to show it. And not the way she "showed" the clueless family. It is not about just generally happy and just going about your routine blindly, while your partner is severely unhappy

Shiva could have done the same thing- he could have continued living his life, all happy and clueless to what Raavi was going through. He need'nt have stood up for her to Rishitha, been angry with; fought with Dev, or even think about how sad it was for her to get stuck with him. What if he had just waltzed into the storeroom on the first night and been insensitive to her condition- just said, ok what's done is done, let's just move on and start a life. If he had, everyone would have been behind him with pitchforks for being a chauvinist 😐

No, he put himself in her shoes, despite hating her. He need not have, but he did. That is ny problem with Raavi- at no point in the marriage did she ever think from his perspective- how difficult must it be for him, how unprepared he is for this.

She first wants to him to be a stranger. Then she wants to compromise. She has no clue what she wants to do with the marriage. She always airs out her issues with him in punlic- yes she does stand up for him, but she contributes in many more ways to bring him down. A prime example is the shirt scene. They are not childhood friends anymore- she does not realize that he cannot react to his wife the same way he had recated to a distant relative

Everyone says she was taking steps- but all those seem more as a front to show society and the family. She wants to get the benefits of being a wife without putting in the effort.

There is more to a wife than cooking food, taking care of the family and just smiling and laughing with a person 😕 And your partner may not always tell you what is wrong- somethings you need to underand read between the lines.

Ok this became a long disconnected rant 😐