Originally posted by: maanmeet1
i would be happy if he offers her divorce but shouldnt say lets get divorced.......i know both have been wronged by the situation but den he has to offer her a way out.......let it be.....
if she wishes she can go ahead with it.......its for their betterment........he likes/loves her but if she isnt on the same page whats the point......
Couldn't have agreed more with you on this point! I know this is fiction, so most fans might think otherwise and want ShiVi to be together forever. However, if I personally met Shiva or Raavi, I would've suggested couples therapy. Whatever Shiva reads in that diary is heart breaking, and instead of faking or unintentionally hurting Raavi, they need to talk out their feelings, either to a family member or to a third-person outsider who can offer fair judgment and not Dhara's "You need to accept each other" approach.
Divorce is certainly not the end all be all, as some couples come close to it but can recover quickly. However, mistrust and feelings of "I'm not 'perfect' for my spouse" are feelings no one should feel. There really isn't a point to a relationship where one person is pining for the other and develops strong feelings of insecurity.
CVs should carefully address these emotions and quite honestly move away from 'YKB solves everything!' mindset. If they really want increases in TRPs, they should sit down, slow the story down just a bit, include a few character monologues if they feel it adds to the story (i.e., Shiva's monologue of how strange it is to have these "weird" feelings whenever Raavi is in the room, Raavi's monologue of how Shiva seems just a little bit different from before, but she doesn't know how/why, Rishita's monologue of how family means the world to her and it hurts her every single time when the Pandya family doesn't fully respect her family, Dev's monologue on what his marriage means to him, how because of him Dhara/Gaumbi are sleeping outside, how Rishita means the world to him, but he could care less about her family).