Originally posted by: radicalleftist
Shiva shouting at Raavi in such a loud and obnoxious way pissed me off. First ALL of that manhandling and now this. So tired of him. Just the typical men who hurts their wives without a hint of repentance. Gross.
Dharas plan didn't work and it back fired with Raavi saying "Dhara di bas". Clearly this is due to the days of anger she has had for her. From wedding to family seperation. She has been quietly brewing. Hope this allows Dhara to see how badly her plan failed and apologize for hitting her "kids🤔".
Mami has always been villian to grey types. Clearly for the haveli track they have shifted into villainy territory or at least a dark grey. Suman having her slog to death these past few days probably didn't help with the bitterness she has in her. Not sure where I am with Raavi and the this mami-kangan angle.
Got confused when Suman asked Raavi if she was yelling at Mami or taunting Suman. But I thought after that she would at least tell Mami to give the kangans back. Thinking if my parents did something like that and I found out about that then i would be furious. Not sure where Raavi has positioned herself but hope she eventually sides with Suman (not bringing Shiva into this as he pissed me off today).
Shiva yelling at Raavi was definitely wrong. And I'm not trying to excuse him, but I don't hold that against him. It was heat of the moment, he was speaking to Mami and he finally lost it told yelled at the one person who was his own to stay out it. Raavi's not his punching bag and hope there's a scene where both tell each other that they can't yell at one another in this manner front of others. However, it's something I have definitely done in the past in anger and I have received it from a closed one. Was it wrong, yes, but never really held it against one another. As long as he realizes his misplaced anger and talks it out with Raavi, I'd be okay.
@Suman's dialogue, I thought it was pretty apt. Raavi definitely was in a limbo. One side is her mother figure who's in the wrong causing trouble and on the otherside it's her MIL who's yelling at her Maasi who raised her. Right or wrong her heart will feel for her Maasi. And as her daughter, she's got right to express her disappointment to her Maasi, so she theoratically yells at her Maasi, she's also expressing her dislike towards Suman's actions of insulting her family. And Suman touched the right nerve and understood Raavi's predicament. Hence, explained to her, very unlike how she's talked to Dhara and Rishita.
Edited by Mountains_Lakes - 4 years ago