behavior towards shiva is unacceptable

i understand shiva opted to work in store and didnt study further but he did promise dhara to go to school and finish basic education. 12th may be. i want to know much he has studied coz people keep insulting him saying jahil gawar....

we saw gautam lifting those bags for one day and people got so affected and i guess shiva was the most affected one. den y not anyone gets affected by him daily doing these chores? all are equal owners of the store den y only he is doing all the labour work? y cant they hire some help? m not saying he cant do it, but only he is doing it....and that's not done. only him doing is unacceptable .........

gautam after 10 years of wedding is having a gala time with dhara, having mango and all, other activites too......dev rishita are shopping and are induldged in other activities.....i know shiva and raavi are not on that level.....but everyone is enjoying vacation, only shiva works......

for me krish is a kid but utna bhi bacha nahi hai. pura din phone leke ghumta hai den y not help shiva? alternate day lakdi kato sab......y only he has to work........today when he was working i got tears in my eyes.....poor boy he is injured and still has to do all that......y gautam cant do it for a day? y cant they tell shiva raavi to rest??????? noone loves him or respects him when that boy has only one goal

in life to make his family happy......i didnt take dev's name coz he is well rested......

he is so insecure and y the hell not anyone is trying address that?

my mood is not good after today's episode.....sorry for ranting........episode was good though.......

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

i understand shiva opted to work in store and didnt study further but he did promise dhara to go to school and finish basic education. 12th may be. i want to know much he has studied coz people keep insulting him saying jahil gawar....

we saw gautam lifting those bags for one day and people got so affected and i guess shiva was the most affected one. den y not anyone gets affected by him daily doing these chores? all are equal owners of the store den y only he is doing all the labour work? y cant they hire some help? m not saying he cant do it, but only he is doing it....and that's not done. only him doing is unacceptable .........

gautam after 10 years of wedding is having a gala time with dhara, having mango and all, other activites too......dev rishita are shopping and are induldged in other activities.....i know shiva and raavi are not on that level.....but everyone is enjoying vacation, only shiva works......

for me krish is a kid but utna bhi bacha nahi hai. pura din phone leke ghumta hai den y not help shiva? alternate day lakdi kato sab......y only he has to work........today when he was working i got tears in my eyes.....poor boy he is injured and still has to do all that......y gautam cant do it for a day? y cant they tell shiva raavi to rest??????? noone loves him or respects him when that boy has only one goal

in life to make his family happy......i didnt take dev's name coz he is well rested......

he is so insecure and y the hell not anyone is trying address that?

my mood is not good after today's episode.....sorry for ranting........episode was good though.......

Maybe he likes doing it. It gives him a sense of calm. The labor work I mean. He likes doing it because he doesn’t consider it beneath him. I dunno about others but I like that he has such a mindset where he treats all the work equal and respectable. He does it because he can.

On our side there is a saying-

Do not ask Him to decrease your load,

Just ask Him for a stronger back so you carry the load.

Maybe Shiva has the strongest back amongst them all and so he does this work.

Just my POV.

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

i understand shiva opted to work in store and didnt study further but he did promise dhara to go to school and finish basic education. 12th may be. i want to know much he has studied coz people keep insulting him saying jahil gawar....

we saw gautam lifting those bags for one day and people got so affected and i guess shiva was the most affected one. den y not anyone gets affected by him daily doing these chores? all are equal owners of the store den y only he is doing all the labour work? y cant they hire some help? m not saying he cant do it, but only he is doing it....and that's not done. only him doing is unacceptable .........

gautam after 10 years of wedding is having a gala time with dhara, having mango and all, other activites too......dev rishita are shopping and are induldged in other activities.....i know shiva and raavi are not on that level.....but everyone is enjoying vacation, only shiva works......

for me krish is a kid but utna bhi bacha nahi hai. pura din phone leke ghumta hai den y not help shiva? alternate day lakdi kato sab......y only he has to work........today when he was working i got tears in my eyes.....poor boy he is injured and still has to do all that......y gautam cant do it for a day? y cant they tell shiva raavi to rest??????? noone loves him or respects him when that boy has only one goal

in life to make his family happy......i didnt take dev's name coz he is well rested......

he is so insecure and y the hell not anyone is trying address that?

my mood is not good after today's episode.....sorry for ranting........episode was good though.......

Lovely post! Shiva definitely loves everyone in his family unconditionally, and does everything he can for them without any expectations, but sadly he does not seem to get much in return

Earlier I would say Gautam and Dhara unconditionally loved him, but after the crappy physical abuse track I don't feel the same way any more. The less said about Dev, the better

Also, unfortunately, Shiva doesn't share his worries or insecurities with others, so no one knows that he actually feels inferior to others. Having said that, he is confident in his own skin and he likes the work he does. He is clear that he chose this work for himself, and he will not change for anyone, and that's the best part about him! 👏This quality of his should never change

The problem is the shallow thoughts of the people around him. Every person around him (including random strangers) except his brothers, Dhara and Suman thinks he is gawar, jaahil, anpad and a naukar, because most people have the tendency to judge a person by what they wear, how they speak and how educated they are 😕

It will take a while, but Raavi and Rishita will definitely see and recognize the gem that Shiva is! I don't care about Maami coz she's evil as of now 😆

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Maybe he likes doing it. It gives him a sense of calm. The labor work I mean. He likes doing it because he doesn’t consider it beneath him. I dunno about others but I like that he has such a mindset where he treats all the work equal and respectable. He does it because he can.

On our side there is a saying-

Do not ask Him to decrease your load,

Just ask Him for a stronger back so you carry the load.

Maybe Shiva has the strongest back amongst them all and so he does this work.

Just my POV.

pls dont misunderstand me ..........i didnt mean it as some low level work.....i know he loves his work......he has mentioned it once and he doesnt care for what others think or say ......but here he is injured too.....i dont like it when everyone is having fun and only he is working.......

Originally posted by: Shivanii12

if they follow the original series, then theres a reason behind why Shiva does all this. He will open about this to Raavi in future.

will wait for that time.....

Honestly today's episode was good but I too felt soo bad seeing Shiva working.

Forget everyone the most fit guy right now is Gaumbi why can't for 1 day he makes Shiva rest.

Now they can't say ki Shiva won't do that bcoz Shiva listen to Gaura a lot. He bloody needs rest.

From the time of marriage he was not only getting mental and emotional harrasment but physical too.

He keeps getting hurt but no one actually cares asking him.

Yes he is Chattan Pandya but he is a human and gets hurt.

In the mandir just bcoz it was Mami who talked about distributing work she wasn't taken seriously and people took it offensive.

But she said correct that why only Shiva needs to do the all the physical work whereas the other brothers will wear good clothes and sit and romance their wives.

Shiva isn't even able to walk nicely but no one cares.

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

The problem is the shallow thoughts of the people around him. Every person around him (including random strangers) except his brothers, Dhara and Suman thinks he is gawar, jaahil, anpad and a naukar, because most people have the tendency to judge a person by what they wear, how they speak and how educated they are 😕

It will take a while, but Raavi and Rishita will definitely see and recognize the gem that Shiva is! I don't care about Maami coz she's evil as of now 😆

u remember dhara also called him that........it broke my heart when shiva said since when i became that for u......

i love the way he is.....just that everyone is enjoying and injured shiva is working....maybe that triggered my emotions .......😒

and here its vacation time......he is not in shop.........god ......sorry for starting it again

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

u remember dhara also called him that........it broke my heart when shiva said since when i became that for u......

i love the way he is.....just that everyone is enjoying and injured shiva is working....maybe that triggered my emotions .......😒

When did dhara call him that?!

Did I miss that scene?!

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

pls dont misunderstand me ..........i didnt mean it as some low level work.....i know he loves his work......he has mentioned it once and he doesnt care for what others think or say ......but here he is injured too.....i dont like it when everyone is having fun and only he is working.......

Yes it is not about what work Shiva is doing. It is about he is injured still doing the work and others r chilling and romancing